14/09/2025
PLEASE I NEED YOUR ADVICE 🙏
My new marriage is already giving me sleepless nights 💔.
I got married just last month in August. In the beginning, everything was sweet, my husband was so loving and caring, and I was happy. But along the line, I noticed something that is now shaking my peace.
Before we married, he told me about his ex-girlfriend he once planned to marry, but it didn’t work out. I didn’t think much of it then. But now, she still calls him constantly, they laugh and gist on the phone like old times. Anytime I complain, he insists they are just “friends.”
Last week, we went to a restaurant together, and to my greatest shock 😳 his ex saw him and came over. Right in my presence, she called him “babe.” She didn’t even notice I was sitting there. I felt so embarrassed and heartbroken, but I just kept calm.
Since that day, I’ve been battling with trust. Anytime my husband is on his phone and smiling, I can’t help but suspect he’s chatting with her. One time, I even saw jokes they were cracking together over texts. He says it’s nothing, but it’s eating me up inside.
Please my fellow women and married people, am I overreacting? 😢 How do I make him understand my feelings without sounding insecure? I want peace in my home, but this issue with his ex is breaking me down 💔.
What would you do if you were in my shoes?