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26/07/2025

"Empathize not sympathize" helps us stay strong for our patients, but it doesn't mean we don't carry the weight too.
May God continue to strengthen us. Let’s keep speaking up, healing, and caring — not just for our patients, but for ourselves too. 💚

26/07/2025

Every nurse is a safety officer. Own that power.

Medical Care Should Not Feel Like PunishmentShe came to the hospital seeking relief — not judgment.In pain, weak, and sc...
26/07/2025

Medical Care Should Not Feel Like Punishment

She came to the hospital seeking relief — not judgment.
In pain, weak, and scared. But instead of a comforting voice, she was met with sighs, eye rolls, and whispered insults.
No one told her what was happening. No one explained the drugs.
And when she cried out during an injection, the nurse snapped, “You should’ve thought of that before getting sick.”

Let that sink in.

Is this care... or cruelty?

Hospitals are supposed to be safe spaces, not places where patients feel like criminals for needing help.
Medical care should not feel like punishment.

You don’t scold a woman in labor.
You don’t mock a patient because they soiled themselves.
You don’t shout at the elderly because they’re slow.
You don’t make a sick person beg before giving them water.

This is not nursing. This is abuse.

And the truth is, most nurses are angels — overworked, underpaid, yet still compassionate.
But the few who forget the mission of care stain the image of all.

It’s time to speak up.
No more silence. No more excuses.

👉 Patients deserve respect, not resentment.
👉 Care must be timely, safe, and evidence-based — not abusive and dismissive.
👉 Every nurse must ask: Would I treat my own mother this way?

Because at the heart of nursing is empathy — not just medicine.

If you’ve ever been mistreated as a patient…
If you’ve ever watched someone cry silently in a hospital bed…
If you believe healthcare should be healing, not humiliating…

Then SHARE this. Speak. React. Let's hold each other accountable.

🛑 Enough is enough.
Let’s bring humanity back to healthcare.
Let’s raise a new standard — where compassion is as essential as a stethoscope.









26/07/2025

Tell us: Have you ever met a nurse who changed your life?

💔 Listen First. Touch Second. Talk With Compassion.She was in labor for 16 hours.Sweating. Shaking. Screaming.Terrified ...
26/07/2025

💔 Listen First. Touch Second. Talk With Compassion.

She was in labor for 16 hours.
Sweating. Shaking. Screaming.
Terrified — not just from the pain —
…but from the voices shouting at her:

“Shut up and push!”
“You think you're the first woman to give birth?”

And in that moment, she didn’t feel human.
She felt like a burden.
Like she was being punished for needing help.

Where was the kindness?
Where was the care?

“Listen first. Touch second. Talk with compassion.”

It sounds simple — but in some wards, it’s completely forgotten.

Too many patients are: ❌ Ignored when they cry
❌ Touched without consent
❌ Mocked for asking questions
❌ Rushed through pain
❌ Treated like objects, not people

💥 Enough is enough.

Abusive care is NOT care.
Shouting is not leadership.
Slapping is not motivation.
Neglect is not time management.

We need to return to the heart of nursing:
✅ Respect.
✅ Dignity.
✅ Listening.
✅ Compassion.
✅ Evidence-based care rooted in empathy.

Because a nurse's hands can heal — or harm.
It’s the tone in your voice.
It’s the patience in your presence.
It’s the humanity you bring to every bed you stand beside.

🩺 “The first intervention a patient needs is your attention.”
Not a drip. Not a drug. Not a command.
Just your ears, your eyes, and your kindness.

⚠️ Let’s say this loud:

You can give the right medication,..and still destroy a patient’s spirit with your attitude.
You can follow the protocol,..and still leave a wound with your words.

That’s not what nursing is meant to be.
We are not just trained hands — we are trained hearts.

🌍 This is a call to action.
If you are a nurse, caregiver, or health worker:
👉 Stop.
👉 Look.
👉 Listen.
👉 Then act — with compassion.

Because behind every patient is a story.
A family. A fear. A hope. A prayer.
And they didn’t come to the hospital to be broken more — they came to be healed.

💬 Have you ever experienced or witnessed abusive care? What would you say to that nurse now?
🔁 Share this post to raise your voice for RESPECTFUL, TIMELY, and SAFE nursing care.
🗣️ Tag someone who needs this reminder.

26/07/2025

Not every miracle wears white — some wear scrubs.

Dear Joy Ngozi Kanu Ashiegbu You’ve spoken nothing but the truth! 💯 Our leaders know what world-class healthcare looks l...
26/07/2025

Dear Joy Ngozi Kanu Ashiegbu

You’ve spoken nothing but the truth! 💯 Our leaders know what world-class healthcare looks like — they see it abroad — yet they leave our hospitals under-equipped and underfunded. Healthcare should be a top priority, not a forgotten promise. 🙏

And yes, to the dedicated and committed nurses still giving their all despite the odds — may God bless and strengthen you always. You are the true heroes! 💙👩‍⚕️👨‍⚕️










I Was Saved by a Nurse. Now I’m Saving the World — One Patient at a Time.In 2012, I was fighting for my life.Sick. Weak....
26/07/2025

I Was Saved by a Nurse. Now I’m Saving the World — One Patient at a Time.

In 2012, I was fighting for my life.

Sick. Weak. Hopeless.
My parents had no money.
We couldn’t afford even the most basic hospital care.
I remember the day we arrived at the hospital — all we could afford was the card to open a file.

Medications?
Impossible.
Peritoneum procedure?
Unimaginable.
Fear had consumed my mother. She couldn’t sign the consent form. Her hands were trembling… her soul was breaking.

But then — she appeared.
A nurse. A stranger. An angel.

She didn’t ask about tribe, religion, or background.
She saw my pain. She saw my need.
She took her own money and bought my medications.
She signed my consent form.
She paid part of my hospital bills.
She stood in the gap when my family had nothing left to give.

I never forgot her face.
But I never got the chance to say a proper goodbye — because today, she is no longer alive.
She died before I could ever repay her. (She died of a car accīdent in 2019)

But I made a vow.

While lying on that hospital bed in 2012, I had a vision — I saw myself as a nurse.

A nurse that would put smiles on the faces of the mourning.
A nurse who would be a light in someone’s darkest hour.
A nurse who would cover the naked, uplift the broken, and restore lost hope.
A nurse… with a difference.

Today, that dream is alive.

I have been a nurse for 5 years now.
I have stood by the dying. I have celebrated new births. I have wiped tears. I have spoken life over broken souls.
I have served with evidence-based care, respect, and compassion — because I know… someone once did it for me.

🕊️ To the nurse who saved me: I hope you are smiling from heaven. Your sacrifice wasn’t wasted.

🟨 To every nurse reading this:
You never know who you’re saving.
One act of kindness can birth a revolution of healing.
One moment of compassion can light up generations.

👩‍⚕️ I am living proof.
Because someone chose to care, I became a nurse who changes lives.

🔁 If this story touched you, SHARE it.
💬 Drop a comment if you’ve ever been helped by a nurse.
💡 Or if you are a nurse with a story, share it below.
📌 Let’s raise a generation of nurses with difference, dignity, and heart.

















Don't Assume — Ask. Don’t Guess — Confirm.He was allergic to penicillin.It was written somewhere in his old folder.But t...
26/07/2025

Don't Assume — Ask. Don’t Guess — Confirm.

He was allergic to penicillin.
It was written somewhere in his old folder.
But the nurse on duty didn’t check.
She assumed it was fine.
The doctor wrote the order. She gave the shot.

Thirty minutes later, he couldn’t breathe.
His lips turned blue.
A simple question could have saved his life:

“Are you allergic to anything?”
But no one asked.

We lose people in healthcare not always because of what we don’t know,
…but often because of what we assumed we did.

🛑 She assumed the patient had eaten — and gave insulin.
🛑 He assumed the patient understood the discharge instructions.
🛑 They assumed the new nurse got the handover right.

And assumptions like these… bury people.

⚠️ Here’s the truth we must accept:

In healthcare,
✅ Asking can save a life.
✅ Confirming can prevent a lawsuit.
✅ One extra second of caution is worth a thousand “I’m sorry”s.

No one will ever blame you for double-checking.
But they will never forget if your assumption causes harm.

A great nurse doesn’t just care — they confirm.
A true professional doesn’t just rush — they recheck.

So before you give that drug, administer that fluid, hang that bag, or fill in that chart —
Don’t assume. Ask. Don’t guess. Confirm.

Because the person lying in that bed is someone’s whole world.
And they’re depending on you — not just to care —
…but to care correctly.

🗣️ Have you ever seen an assumption nearly cost someone their life?
💬 Share your story. Someone could learn from it.
🔁 Tag a nurse, student, or caregiver who needs this reminder.
📢 Share this post — let’s raise a generation of health workers who don’t assume… they ask.

26/07/2025

True story: A patient with no hope lived 3 years more — thanks to kindness.

26/07/2025

She held my hand when I was scared of surgery. Just a nurse? No — an angel.

Bad Nurses Make Life Harder for Good Ones — Stop ThemShe walked into the ward like every other morning — badge on her ch...
26/07/2025

Bad Nurses Make Life Harder for Good Ones — Stop Them

She walked into the ward like every other morning — badge on her chest, heart on her sleeve, and a prayer on her lips:
“Let me be the kind of nurse I would want for my own mother.”

But not everyone in that room carried the same burden of compassion.

She noticed it — the way one nurse barked orders instead of speaking gently.
The way another dismissed a confused patient’s cry for help.
And worst of all? The cover-ups.
Medication not given — charted as given.
Vital signs not taken — written from the imagination.

She was tired. Not just from long shifts… but from fighting silently beside people who had forgotten why they became nurses.

Let’s be honest:
✅ There are thousands of excellent, hardworking, ethical nurses.
❌ But there are also those who tarnish the profession — who bring shame, fear, and even death into what should be healing spaces.
And every time we turn a blind eye, we’re just as guilty.

🩺 A nurse who neglects documentation isn’t just lazy — they’re dangerous.
🩺 A nurse who mocks a patient in pain isn’t just unkind — they’re abusive.
🩺 A nurse who steals meds, lies in reports, or plays on their phone during emergencies? They’re betraying the uniform.

It’s time to stop pretending all nurses are angels.
We need to start protecting the reputation of the good ones — by exposing the harmful ones.

Because every time a patient dies from neglect...
Every time a woman in labor is slapped or shouted at...
Every time an elderly person is ignored in pain...
It’s the kind-hearted nurse who suffers the backlash.

And it’s not fair.

Good nurses are overworked.
Underpaid.
Emotionally stretched.
Yet they still stay.
They still care.
They still fight for patients they may never see again.

If you are a good nurse, this is your call:

🔴 Speak up. Document everything. Report abuse. Defend the dignity of your profession.
Because silence only protects the wrong people.

Not every nurse deserves the title.

And if we keep allowing bad ones to stay…
Soon, the world will stop trusting any of us.

🛑 Enough is enough.
🗣️ If you’re a good nurse — don’t just work hard. Protect your name, your license, and your patients.

👉 Tag a good nurse.
💬 Share your story — have you ever witnessed or stopped unsafe care?
🔁 Share this post. Let’s clean our house from within.

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