11/04/2025
MISTAKES FOOLISH MEN MAKE 🚨
Some men think they are wise, but their foolishness is louder than a generator at 2 AM.
They spend on random women, ignore their families, and behave like big boys until reality humbles them.
If you want a peaceful and successful life, avoid these 15 foolish mistakes:
1. YOU FEED STRANGERS, BUT YOUR FAMILY IS HUNGRY
Your wife asks for money to cook, you say “manage things.”
Your children need new shoes, you tell them “things are tough.”
But when a slay queen sends “Hey baby, I’m craving pizza”,
you’re already on your way to Domino’s like a delivery man.
🚨 BREAKING NEWS:
Your own family is suffering, but you’re feeding someone who is only with you because of your money.
Who really needs deliverance here?
2. YOU ENJOY LIFE OUTSIDE, BUT YOUR HOME IS A WAR ZONE
You’re “outside” every weekend, drinking, dancing,
calling yourself “big man”, while your wife is at home,
thinking about how to pay rent and feed the kids.
🚨 REALITY CHECK:
One day, you’ll return home broke,
and the woman you abandoned will be the only one standing by you.
By then, it might be too late.
3. YOU’RE INVESTING IN SOMEONE ELSE’S WIFE
You think you’re helping a “babe” grow by sending her money?
She’s just waiting for a serious man to marry her.
You’re paying her bills, sponsoring her hair, nails, and data.
But when she’s ready to settle down, she will marry another man.
🚨 CONGRATULATIONS IN ADVANCE:
You just built up another man’s wife.
Hope you’ll attend the wedding! 😂
4. YOU THINK ASHAWO LOVES YOU – NO, SHE LOVES YOUR WALLET
She calls you “baby” because you’re spending money,
not because she actually cares.
🚨 WAKE UP!
The moment you go broke, she will disappear faster than free WiFi in a crowded area.
Oga, you’re not her type – your money is!
5. YOU’RE A BIG MAN OUTSIDE, BUT BROKE IN YOUR OWN HOUSE
Outside, you’re a chairman.
Inside, you’re a charity case.
Your friends see you drinking expensive whiskey,
but your children are drinking garri with no sugar.
🚨 EVEN YOUR ANCESTORS ARE SHOCKED.
Fix your priorities before life resets you.
6. YOU SMOKE, DRINK, GAMBLE, BUT CAN’T PAY SCHOOL FEES
Every weekend, you spend ₦50k on smoking and drinking,
but when school fees arrive, you start telling your wife “times are hard.”
Oga, times are not hard, you are just stupid.
Instead of investing in your children, you’re investing in alcohol.
🚨 REALITY WILL HUMBLE YOU.
The same children you abandoned will be the ones to abandon you in old age.
7. YOU’RE CHASING GIRLS WHILE YOUR LIFE IS FALLING APART
Your mates are building businesses, but you’re building a catalog of side chicks.
You know all the girls in town, but you don’t know how to make money.
🚨 BE SERIOUS WITH YOUR LIFE, BRO.
Girls will not help you when you’re broke.
Focus on success first – the right woman will come.
8. YOU’RE SPENDING MONEY ON A GIRL WHO’S SAVING FOR ANOTHER MAN
You send her urgent 2K, she tells you “thanks baby 😍”
But the money goes straight into her savings account for her real boyfriend.
🚨 ONE DAY, YOU WILL UNDERSTAND.
When she gets married, don’t be surprised if the husband is the same guy you thought was “just a friend.”
9. YOU CALL YOURSELF A “BIG BOY” BUT YOU HAVE NO INVESTMENTS
You wear designers, use the latest iPhone,
but your account balance is on life support.
🚨 TRUE WEALTH IS SILENT.
If your money is only for show, you’ll be broke before you hit 40.
10. YOU’RE COMPETING WITH YOUR MATES WHO HAVE MULTIPLE INCOME SOURCES
Your friends invest in real estate, stocks, and businesses,
but you’re busy competing over who can pop the most bottles at the club.
🚨 LIFE IS NOT A COMPETITION OF STUPIDITY.
If you don’t invest now, you’ll be begging your mates for help later.
11. YOU SLEEP AROUND, BUT EXPECT A FAITHFUL WIFE
You cheat with everything in a skirt,
but the day you see your wife talking to another man, you become a motivational speaker on loyalty.
🚨 KARMA IS NOT A MYTH.
If you want a good woman, be a good man first.
12. YOU KEEP BORROWING TO IMPRESS PEOPLE WHO DON’T CARE
You take loans just to live large,
but those people you’re impressing won’t help you when you’re in debt.
🚨 STOP LIVING FAKE LIFE.
Wealthy men don’t borrow money for luxury – they invest and multiply it.
13. YOU CHOOSE WOMEN BASED ON LOOKS, NOT CHARACTER
She’s fine, but does she have sense?
She’s sexy, but does she have self-respect?
🚨 A PRETTY FOOL WILL RUIN YOUR LIFE.
Choose wisely before you end up with a liability, not a wife.
14. YOU ALLOW WOMEN TO CONTROL YOUR LIFE
A woman asks for money, you empty your account.
She tells you to stop talking to your friends, you obey like a child.
🚨 BE A MAN, NOT A PUPPET.
A woman should complement your life, not control it.
15. YOU NEGLECT YOUR SPIRITUAL LIFE
You believe in money, women, and vibes,
but when problems come, who will fight for you?
🚨 EVEN BILLIONAIRES PRAY.
If you think money is everything,
you’ll learn the hard way that life is deeper than cash.
