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Today Agu Ezesinachi Bryan is two months old.By this time April 28, I was already set for my ces@rean section, waiting f...
28/06/2025

Today Agu Ezesinachi Bryan is two months old.

By this time April 28, I was already set for my ces@rean section, waiting for my doctor to arrive at 9 am as she scheduled. Though she arrived one hour late. Other doctors on ground opted that I should let them do the surgery but I refused.

Where I go to Antenal, we have the privilege to sign up for any doctor we want. So I already signed up for the Doctor I want and she booked my surgery.

I don't know if is because of the waiting, I was already tensed up, my doctor arrived and the first epidur@l inject!on failed, i personally opted for a general epidur@l as I don't want to take a spinal epidur@l again due to my past experience with it.

I have had two previous CS delivery, I took two spinal epidur@l with my first surgery but the headache that came after it lasted almost one month, head@che that dr can't subside.

I took the decision to take a general epidur@l without the consent of my husband because we are already in the theatre room.

I slept all through the CS surgery, immediately I woke up, I asked of my new baby first, I asked about my daughter, she followed me to the hospital, she is almost five years, she was waiting with her Dad outside.

When I woke up, I wasn't swollen like before, even my husband noticed it, I had to tell him that the spinal epidur@l failed then I had to go for the general one.

After the birth of my son Bryan, I realized how strong i was, for me to accept a general epidur@l, was a decision i made without blinking eyes.

Happy weekend my VVPs
Is it a mekwe weekend because am fully recovered and going back to the Mekwe things.

To my fellow CS moms, are you team three months before Mekwe as always advised by the doctors

Or

Are you joining my team two months(fully recovered)

27/06/2025

Men always support your wife, invest in her, you don't know about tomorrow, there's no limit to what a woman can achieve

To struggling men, even in the little, support her dream, she is your wife and May be the mighty breakthrough you are seeking.

I'm currently a NYSC Corp member
When I was pregnant, whenever I wear my uniform, I do get comments from men like

Do you have a single colleague?

This is the kind of woman am looking for.

Nne, your husband is wise, this is the kind of woman I want.

To the extent i had to stop one day to ask what they actually mean, I don't want to conclude on assumptions.

One told me, that he can never train a girl in school. That he is looking for a final year or someone who is done with school.

But, he saw me and was building his wishes, he never knew that i married in my second year in a five years course i was studying. Now food is ready, you are doing longer throat.

Never be afr@id to invest in your wife in whatever area she is into.

Asides investing in her to be helpful tomorrow and assist you, your kids future and training lies within her,.

A Goat can't mother a lion.
Goat begot Goat.

So the other day I talked about husbands and the head of the family.Christ is the head of the Church and he lead by exam...
27/06/2025

So the other day I talked about husbands and the head of the family.

Christ is the head of the Church and he lead by example and love the church. As a man and the head of the family, whatever you wish your wife to become, you have to be it first, and lead by example.

You are not wiser than God, he already created women as helpers, that thing you see your wife l@cking in might be that you are yet to lead her through, As a helper, she needs to learn from the master.

Even when you are not around, communication does wonders. Learn how to teach your wife, teach her with love, teach her good. Let her know you are there, don't be an absentee father and husband.

Women, over to you!
Una agree say your husband is the head of your family abi your pastors.
Are you willing to obey your husband
Are you willing to learn good from your husband
Or are you team " Our Daddy in the Lord said this and that.

27/06/2025

Trying to explain to my daughter that her daddy don't have permanent friend when it comes to first position.

26/06/2025

Asides that exclusive breastfeeding is the best for your baby but moms run away from it due to some reason or the other.

As a mom of three and a breastfeeding mom of a two months old baby, one good thing that I have done for myself is engaging in exclusive breastfeeding.

I two kids before this one and all was exclusively breastfed. I get questions from people like how do you do this. How do you cope? No house help or nothing.

I go further to explain to them that asides that exclusive breastfeeding is the best milk for a baby till six months, I have my other reason for engaging in it.

Exclusive breastfeeding is stress free and so easy for me. Let me ask, how do new moms cope without exclusively breastfeeding their babies, how do you get up every hour to go wash baby feeders and all.

I already know that am a washaholic, if there's any word like that. Nobody will never do my baby feeding bottle washing for me not even my husband, even he does, I will wash it ten thousand times again before am satisfied.

To be honest am terr!fied now, thinking of how to start using feeders by six months because I know myself. Eat once and wash one thousand times is my name when it comes to washing my babies feeding bottle, more reason I don't do breast milk extraction because one thing inside me is telling me that is not hygienic enough, I prefer direct sucking. Then I know I have to be only bothered with changing of br@ morning and night or middle of the day when I think i have sweat too much.

I can't even imagine going out by three months and am carrying baby formula, plate, spoons and water.

Good morning my lovelies
If you read to this point, you are my real VVP and I love you.


25/06/2025

Men listen
Ada Ujaligwa said

A man is the Priest in his home. He is the representative of Christ in his home. A husband should rightfully be the most well behaved and the most prayerful person in his home📌

And I added

Everything you want your wife to be, you have to lead by example just as Christ lead us

25/06/2025

Second

I avoid the use of powder

I use seb@med products for my new born and is best for delicate skin but is very expensive.

I remember when I was shopping for my baby things, I wanted to buy the powder, but i removed it because I may be tempted to use it.

The woman asked i take another powder thinking it was because of the m0ney but I told her I choose not to use powder this time.

Any benefits
Yes of course

Any constraints towards it
Absolutely no. Though we are in raining season, no heat for now, no rashes. Infact I don't remember i don't have baby powder because I don zero my mind that side.

25/06/2025

Things are did differently this time

Number one
I Avoid the usage of any antiseptic
Example: Una popular purit for bathing baby.

What did i use in place of it

I use the purit to wash the bathing tub/ bowl once in a while and wash out with hot water.
I use boiled water and sachet water to cool down the water for bathing, two sachet is enough for each bath.

If you drink tanker water, you can use it too to dilute. If you have m0ney, you can boil the hot water, keep to cool a bit and boil another one to always top it to be hot while bathing.

25/06/2025

Read, let me educate you on what your pastors and parents won't tell you.

When it comes to marriage, some people are not meant to experience it, both man and woman inclusive.

Okay wait, let me rephrase it.

Marriage is not meant for everyone, not everyone deserves a married partner.

Let it p@in the more

Some are meant to d!e unmarried, some are not meant to feel the warmth of a partner.

Let me make it clear a bit.
Marriage is one of the fruit God gave to mankind, for all humans to experience and enjoy but due to what humans have built their self to be, i will unapologetically say that not everyone deserves it.

One mistake you will ever do in life is to allow yourself to be used as an instrument to such people.
Some people have built so much neg@tivity for themselves when it comes to marriage. Some have prepared to make it h@rd for their partners, some are s@dist, some are with so much h@tred, some have vowed never to help, some have intense tox!city but all covered under pretense to dec!eve people to their bidding.

Should I climb the mountain and scream.
Forget the new modern clash on marriage, marriage is meant to be very sweet, don't make that mistake for yourself, choose your partner wisely.

During courtship, evaluate what you want, don't be blinded, sometimes take a break and continue. You know that thing, you see that thing, you saw it from the beginning, you can't tell me nada but you are telling yourself that this is not it because of one thing-one thing.

Next.....

25/06/2025

Never allow success to meet you unprepared.
Be prepared for success.
Start building yourself, so when it comes.
You grab it.

25/06/2025

I picked up my phone this morning, came on here but sincerely do not know what to type.
Suddenly I was carried away, I started thinking.
It occurred to me that we have just six months to be in 2026 but one thing struck me, how did we get here so fast? I wondered; how fast will the remaining six months go since the past six months flew like a bird.

Now, I have something to type. How is your year going? What have you achieved?, what positive changes have you made and most important, how much do you know God?.

Wait, you will start learning tomorrow, you will start working hard tomorrow. Oh! you can't start today, you will start tomorrow.

Oh! I don't know if i will succeed, but how will you know if you will succeed when you have not even tried, most people are scared to make mistakes, your mistakes does not define you a failure rather is only a road to success but only if you can start today and never quit.

Meanwhile, when was the last time you spoke to God in prayers about your troubles or do you think you can do it all by yourself. How much is your faith in God?

Happy Wednesday and have a blessed day.

24/06/2025

When i tell people that I met my husband and in three months, we are already preparing for our traditional marriage without no "intimacy".

Yes we connected so fast, fact is that we hardly see each other as i was not in Enugu then. But we both know what we wanted and work towards it.

When we started talking, just on the phone, I spotted what I want and held it, the transparency he gave me was top notch, we both had clear convos and never doubted each other.

One time, when i started talking marriage stuffs to my family, they were like, how long did you know this man, I l!ed, I said two years because i know the people am dealing with, had I say three months, it will be de@d on arrival.

Guys, my marriage will be 7 seven years this years and I have been living my best life each year since then.

I have achieved a lot, attained many heights but my marriage is my greatest achievement. God gave me the best and am blessed.

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