NurseFelicity

20/02/2025

*PUBLIC NOTICE* 📌 📌

This is an urgent appeal to the public. A woman and her child were involved in an accident, and no family member has come forward to identify them. As of today, February 20, 2025, the mother remains unconscious.

They have been identified as members of the Ojibe Family from Ogbualala Umuabi, Udi LGA, Enugu State, Nigeria.

If you have any information about their relatives or know anyone who can identify them, please come to ESUT Teaching Hospital, Parklane, Enugu, immediately.

Your assistance is highly needed. Kindly help spread this message so their family can be reached.

Please share until someone comes for them.

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18/02/2025

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16/02/2025

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YOUR LIFE WON’T CHANGE UNTIL YOU DO! 💯🚀If you feel stuck, frustrated, or lost… this is the wake-up call you need. The truth is harsh but simple: Your life ...

16/02/2025

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🚨 STOP LETTING PEOPLE USE YOU! 🚨If you’re always nice, always available, and always saying YES… people will take advantage of you. They will drain your ene...

15/02/2025

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13/02/2025

How could a family be so heartless as to give their daughter’s hand in marriage to a man they clearly know is mentally ill? They conspired with his family to sell their own daughter’s happiness—all because she was getting older? Really? And the worst part? No one told her the truth. She had to discover it herself.

That’s truly terrible. Some families are the very weapons fashioned against their own members.

Marriage is a lifetime commitment, not a transaction. No one should be forced into it for the wrong reasons.

Family should protect, not betray. A loving family looks out for your happiness, not sacrifices it.

Always do your own research before marriage. Never assume your loved ones have your best interests at heart—ask questions and observe.

✍️ NurseFelicity

11/02/2025

STOP 📍 Those that deserve your explanation will never ask for it, and those that doesn't deserve it will never believe you. So why trying so hard to defend yourself? Isn't it draining trying to explain to people that will never believe you? I Started having my peace of mind when I stopped explaining, when I chose to let people believe whatever they want. So stop explaining.

✍️ NurseFelicity

10/02/2025

She had just given birth—a moment everyone said would be the happiest of her life. But instead of joy, she felt something else… something dark, heavy, and unshakable.

She looked at her baby and felt numb.

The guilt consumed her.
"Why am I feeling like this? I should be happy."
"What kind of mother doesn’t feel connected to her own child?"
"Maybe I’m just not a good mother…"

But she stayed silent. Because no one talks about it.

Society romanticizes motherhood—endless love, magical moments, and an unbreakable bond. But no one warns women that after childbirth, they might feel disconnected, anxious, or even resentful. No one tells them that exhaustion, hormonal changes, and the overwhelming responsibility of a tiny human can push them into a depression they never expected.

Instead, they hear:
"Be grateful."
"Other women have it worse."
"It’s just baby blues—you’ll be fine."

So they suffer in silence.

Postpartum depression (PPD) is real, and it affects millions of women. Yet, many remain quiet out of fear—fear of being judged, fear of being seen as a bad mother, fear that no one will understand.

But here’s the truth:

Feeling overwhelmed doesn’t make you a bad mother.

Struggling with your emotions doesn’t mean you don’t love your child.

You are not alone, and you don’t have to suffer in silence.

It’s time we break the stigma. If you or someone you know is battling postpartum depression, talk about it. Seek help. There is no shame in struggling—only in pretending that everything is fine when it’s not.

Motherhood isn’t just about the baby—it’s also about the mother. Her mental health matters too.

✍️ NurseFelicity

10/02/2025

I used to think saying yes made me a good person. I thought that if I was always available, always agreeable, and always putting others first, I would be loved, appreciated, and valued.

I was wrong.

Being a people-pleaser didn’t make me loved—it made me exhausted. It didn’t make me respected—it made me used.

I said yes when I wanted to say no.
I smiled when I wanted to cry.
I helped others at the cost of my own peace.

And the worst part? No one noticed the weight I carried. They only noticed when I stopped carrying it.

The more I gave, the more people expected. The moment I set boundaries, I was called selfish. The people who “loved” me for my kindness disappeared when I started choosing myself.

That’s when I realized: True love and respect don’t come from self-sacrifice—they come from self-worth.

So, to every people-pleaser out there:

You are NOT responsible for everyone’s happiness.

You are allowed to say NO without guilt.

The right people will respect your boundaries.

Putting yourself first isn’t selfish—it’s necessary.

Stop betraying yourself to please others. The people who truly care about you will never demand that you destroy yourself to keep them comfortable.

You can’t pour from an empty cup. Start choosing yourself, and watch how your world changes.

✍️ NurseFelicity

09/02/2025

I Wrote a Letter to My Younger Self—Here’s What I Said

Dear Younger Me,

I know you feel lost sometimes, wondering if you’ll ever be enough. You question your worth, compare yourself to others, and believe that love and success belong to them—but not you. I wish I could sit beside you, hold your hand, and tell you: You are enough. You always have been.

First, stop being so hard on yourself. The mistakes you fear making? They’ll shape you. The failures you dread? They’ll teach you. Every tear you shed will water the seeds of wisdom, strength, and resilience.

You will meet people who will love you deeply, and others who will break you without remorse. Don't let heartbreak make you bitter. Let it teach you what love should—and should not—be. Walk away from anything that dims your light, and never beg to be valued.

Family won’t always understand you, and friends will change. That’s okay. Life is a journey of gaining and losing, but the most important person you need to hold onto is yourself.

I know you crave validation, but hear this: You do not need to prove your worth to anyone. You are not defined by how many people approve of you. Your value isn’t in their hands—it’s in the way you see yourself when no one else is watching.

And please, take care of your body and mind. Don’t wait until exhaustion and illness force you to rest. Don’t sacrifice your peace for people who wouldn’t do the same for you.

One day, you’ll look in the mirror and finally recognize the strong, beautiful, and unstoppable person you were always meant to be. You’ll realize that every storm you thought would destroy you was actually shaping you.

So, breathe. Be patient with yourself. The future is waiting, and trust me—it’s brighter than you ever imagined.

With love,
Your Older, Wiser Self

Lesson: You won’t always have all the answers, but you’ll always have yourself. Love that person fiercely.

✍️ NurseFelicity