29/04/2025
MEN SLEEP WITH WOMEN FOR THE EXPERIENCE. WOMEN SLEEP WITH MEN FOR A CONNECTION. That’s Why One Leaves Smiling, The Other Leaves Crying.
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This generation is so s*xually active, yet so emotionally broken.
Let’s stop pretending — s*x has never meant the same thing to men and women.
1. Men chase s*x for variety. Women give s*x for meaning.
Men don’t need a reason. They just need an opportunity.
They’ll sleep with you because you're tall, short, thick, slim, or just available.
No emotions, no intentions, no plans.
But women? They give their bodies with a reason in mind: love, trust, bonding, or belief that “this might lead somewhere.”
That’s why after s*x, the man rolls over and forgets your name.
But you lie there, wondering what the two of you are now.
2. For men, the goal is s*x. For women, s*x is a door to more.
A man can spend money, take you out, buy you gifts — not because he loves you, but because he sees it as “payment for access.”
After he sleeps with you, he walks away feeling like the transaction is complete.
You, on the other hand, start to wonder why he changed.
It’s not wickedness. That’s just how most men operate — s*x first, emotion nowhere.
3. Women still believe in love. But most men today are running games.
A man will say anything just to get you:
“You’re special.”
“I’ve never met someone like you.”
“You’re my peace.”
“You’re wife material.”
And once you fall and give him s*x, the game ends.
He runs. Not because you're bad — but because his lies are about to expire.
A man who tells the truth and stays? He’s rare.
But if he disappears after sleeping with you, it’s because he came with a plan to escape.
4. Women feel s*x. Men just release it.
When a woman sleeps with a man, her brain releases oxytocin, the bonding hormone.
Her heart attaches.
Her soul connects.
Her mind starts planning a future.
Meanwhile, the man is just waiting to put on his boxers and leave.
No emotions. No connection. Just “mission accomplished.”
5. Women are wired to nurture. So they give too much.
Give a woman love, she multiplies it.
Give her a house, she makes it a home.
Give her a man — even a broken one — and she’ll pour her life into fixing him.
But give her heartbreak? She’ll carry that pain for years.
That’s why a woman will cry over a man that didn’t even care.
Because she wasn’t just having s*x — she was giving her all.
6. For a woman, s*x is submission.
She doesn’t just say yes on the bed.
She’s already said yes in her heart, in her thoughts, in her spirit.
She shaved. She dressed nice. She came prepared.
And when it happens, she gives you not just her body — but her trust.
You didn’t seduce her.
She convinced herself.
And that’s why she’s shattered when you ghost her.
7. Women use s*x to bond. Men use s*x to sample.
After s*x, a woman assumes something deep just happened.
She assumes you felt it too.
But you? You’re already texting someone else.
She thinks you shared energy. You just wanted variety.
That’s why she’s hurt. Not because the s*x was bad, but because she thought it meant more.
8. Women attach life to s*x. Men don’t.
She moans like she’s surrendering her soul because in that moment, she is.
You’re killing her softly — and she’s saying, “Don’t stop,” because she’s fully invested.
She’s not acting.
She’s bonding.
But you? You’re just performing. For you, it’s a workout. For her, it’s worship.
9. Women respect the man who gives them or***ms.
You might think s***m is just liquid, but for many women, the man who makes them climax owns a piece of their memory.
That’s why many marriages collapse — the woman was never emotionally tied to her husband.
But the man who made her cum? She still dreams about him.
And sadly, most men don’t even know how to make their own wives feel anything.
10. Women think of the consequences. Men only think of the moment.
Before you even finish round one, she’s already calculating pregnancy, shame, her reputation, and what her future holds.
You? You’re just looking for water to drink and maybe some jollof rice.
She thought it was baby-making love.
You thought it was chicken-eating fun.
That’s the tragedy.
AND THE SAD TRUTH:
This generation now trades s*x for data, iPhones, shawarma, birthday gifts, and hair.
Girls sleep with men they don’t even like — just to upgrade their lifestyle.
And in the process, they’ve turned their emotions into ashes.
Now love is dead. Trust is rare.
And true relationships are harder to find than a loyal politician.
ADVICE TO THIS GENERATION:
Don’t treat s*x like chewing gum.
Don’t give your body just because he spent small money.
Don’t give your love just because she called you “handsome.”
S*x is not a game. It’s power. It’s trust. It’s energy.
Save it. Value it. Respect it.
May the enjoyment of today not become the regret of tomorrow.
