I am Ruth

27/08/2026

Keke and the Hair Wahala 😂😂

Ladies, please come and tell me the truth… 😂

How do you people manage your hair when you enter Keke? Because today, the breeze was blowing my hair from every direction like it had a personal issue with me! 😂😂

I kept wondering, “Should I protect my hair or just accept my fate?”🤣

Ladies, what is your strategy? Do you cover your hair, hold it down, or just allow the breeze do its thing? 😂 Men how do you cope with women and their hair when you are in public transport? 🤣😜

27/08/2026

RESIST THE URGE – Part 2 😂

Based on popular demand, here we go again! 😂

Please, resist the urge to ask a dark-skinned woman with a very fair baby:

“Ahh! Is your husband fair? So who does the baby resemble?” 🤦‍♀️😂

Also, resist the urge to see someone who is obviously sick or going through a difficult season and the first thing you say is:

“Hmm… you have slimmed down too much oo!” 😩

Before you speak, ask yourself: *Will this comment make this person feel better or worse?*

Let’s learn to be more sensitive with our words. ❤️

What other things should we add to **Resist the Urge – Part 3?** 😂👇🏽

26/08/2026

I got over 100 reactions on my posts last week! Thanks everyone for your support! 🎉

26/08/2026

NEVER STOP LEARNING 🧠📚

Never stop learning, no matter your age or position in life.

The world is constantly changing, and there is always something new to discover. You may have graduated from school, but learning does not end with graduation.

Learn from books. Learn from people. Learn from your mistakes. Learn from your experiences.

Don’t ever say, “I’m too old to learn this.”Your brain is capable of learning new things at every stage of life.

Keep learning, keep growing, and keep becoming a better version of yourself. ❤️

What is one new thing you have learned recently?

25/08/2026

My Little Madam 😂❤️

When your 5+ years old daughter starts wearing your shoes, carrying your handbag and parading the house like she owns the place! 😂😂

Mums, please tell me I’m not alone. 😅 Do your little girls do this too?

24/08/2026

RESIST THE URGE TO SAY THINGS THAT HURT PEOPLE ❤️

Resist the urge to tell a grown woman, “Go and bring a man home, you are due for marriage.”

Resist the urge to tell a newly married couple, “When are you giving us a baby?”

Resist the urge to tell parents with children of the same gender, “You need to try again for the other gender.”

Resist the urge to tell a woman that “her child is old enough to senior another child”

And please, stop telling someone with three children, “You need one more.” STOP IT 🛑

You never know what someone is going through, and your innocent-looking comment may be touching a very painful place.

Not every question needs an answer, and not every opinion needs to be expressed.

Let's be more mindful of our words. ❤️

**Have you ever received a comment like this?👇🏽

24/08/2026

Respect is earned!

24/08/2026

Silence in Relationships Can Be a Silent K1ller 💔

How can two people who live under the same roof stay for days, weeks or even longer without talking to each other?

Sometimes, silence is not peace. It is hurt, anger, pride and emotional distance.

There is a difference between taking time to calm down and using silence to punish your partner.

If you are hurt, talk about it. If you need space, communicate it. If you made a mistake, apologise.

Don't let pride destroy what communication could save.

Sometimes, a relationship doesn't die because love disappeared; it dies because communication stopped.

Do you think silent treatment can d$stroy a marriage? Let's hear your thoughts. 👇🏽

23/08/2026

23/08/2026

Yum yum 😋