06/04/2025
Acknowledge your merit
Being true, being real, being yourself isn't always for everyone. Life just doesn't work that way and trying to make others happy by giving up a piece of our soul will only extinguish our inner light.
The pleaser gives and gives until there is nothing left to give, the pleaser won't voice out an opinion for fear of hurting someone, the pleaser tends to be sad inside while wearing a transparent smile.
Don't be afraid to ask this of yourself, "is this really the life I want"?
If you are not accepted for the way you are ( positively) and constantly trying to please other people but to no avail, those are not your people.
We must remember, every time we are disenchanted, upset, angry, a little bit of life leaves our body, pleasing everybody is never an obligation, the main condition for the achievement of love is the overcoming of one's narcissism.
The narcissistic orientation is one in which one experience are real only that which exists within oneself, while the phenomena in the outside world have no reality in themselves, but are experienced only from the view point of their being useful or dangerous to one, the opposite pole to narcissism Is objectivity :which means it's the faculty to see other people and things as they are, and to be able to separate this objective picture from a picture which is formed by one's desires and fears..
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