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Omontalks My name is Omon from Edo state Nigeria.
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19/09/2026

Nobody wakes up one morning and suddenly feels disconnected from their spouse. It usually happens little by little… and these are some of the things that can cause it.” check the comments for more details 👇👇👇....

To every young woman wondering, “When will I get married?”—take a deep breath.Marriage is not a race, and being single d...
17/09/2026

To every young woman wondering, “When will I get married?”—take a deep breath.
Marriage is not a race, and being single does not mean you are behind in life. Right now, focus on becoming the kind of person who is ready for a healthy partnership. Know your values, build your confidence, develop meaningful friendships, and put yourself in healthy social spaces where you can genuinely meet people.
Be open to getting to know potential partners, but don’t ignore your standards just because you’re afraid of being alone.
Your goal is not simply to find a husband; it is to build a healthy, loving, and lasting marriage. So prepare, connect, be intentional—and trust that your timeline does not determine your worth. If you meet your life partner today are you prepared for marriage? God will only connect to to the right person if he see how prepared you are.

Single at 43 because of the decision I took at 29.  part two .I told my plumber boyfriend that since I was not working, ...
16/09/2026

Single at 43 because of the decision I took at 29. part two .
I told my plumber boyfriend that since I was not working, his finances will not be able to sustain us if we get married that was why I removed the pregnancy. He got angry and said whatever comes out of my actions, I am alone. He called off the relationship and I was very happy to be free at last. So I continued seeing my rich boyfriend. Few months later, my rich boyfriend told me that he will be going to the village for some work, he gave me some amount of money to take care of myself while he was away. I thanked him and I was so happy that I have found the love of my life. While my boyfriend was in the village I noticed his number was not reachable. I thought it was a network issue. Weeks past, his line was still not reachable, I was worried and decided to visit his apartment in town. His apartment was locked, I saw the gate man. I told him his line has not been going through if he has another line I can contact him with. The gate man said no, that he has traveled out of the country. I was shocked and couldn't believe what I heard. I became so depressed and emotionally sick. I regretted not staying with my plumber boyfriend who promised to do better for us to be happy as husband and wife. Ever since that incident, any guy I date, isn't serious about marriage or commitment. Now I am 43 years old and still single. I am using this medium to advise all Young ladies . If you see a gentle man who is hard working and has a future with good character do not reject him because of riches and flashy life style. That man you see struggling today with determination can be something great tomorrow. Grow and build life with your partner. All that glitter is not gold...

I am still single at 43, here is my story: at 29, I had a boyfriend who was into plumbing works. During our relationship...
16/09/2026

I am still single at 43, here is my story: at 29, I had a boyfriend who was into plumbing works. During our relationship I found out I was pregnant, I told him about it, he assured me that he will take responsibility and will not allow me have child out of wed luck. He promised to work hard so we can get married before the pregnancy starts showing. But deep down I was not too comfortable with the life I will live with him considering his financial status. So I made up my mind not to marry him but to look for someone richer. One day I met a guy who was well financially balanced and took me out on shopping the day we met. He spent so lavishly on me. I convinced myself this was the real man for me. I started dating both of them. One day my rich boyfriend gave me a huge amount of money, I went to remove the pregnancy. When my first boyfriend asked me how I was doing and the baby, I told him, I lied about the pregnancy I just wanted to know his reactions that was why I told him I was pregnant. He refused to believe me. He reminded me that he saw the test result I did that confirmed I was pregnant. I couldn't hide it anymore I opened up to him about why I had to remove the pregnancy. He was so angry and said I was on my own and later ended the relationship. I was so happy and free at last to concentrate on dating my rich boyfriend....
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To be continued

This question got me thinking, I say let me ask my able women . If your husband leaves you for two years, he keeps provi...
14/09/2026

This question got me thinking, I say let me ask my able women . If your husband leaves you for two years, he keeps providing all your needs, just that you will stay for two years without him touching you. I mean no bedmatics for two years. Will you stay in the marriage or leave.? Drop your answers in the comments section.👇

12/09/2026

From fish to shawarma. Would you be trying this?😋

How to rebuild trust in relationship  You can’t stop someone from cheating. You can only decide what you’ll accept.After...
12/09/2026

How to rebuild trust in relationship
You can’t stop someone from cheating. You can only decide what you’ll accept.
After betrayal, the goal shouldn't be surveillance or control.
It should be accountability, honest communication, changed behavior, and boundaries.
Give forgiveness if you genuinely want to—but never confuse forgiveness with forgetting the lesson. As humans, we will always remember the hurt and pains betrayal cost us.
A second chance is an opportunity to rebuild, not a license to repeat the mistake. Happy weekend lover. Have you been betrayed once by a spouse and found it difficult to forgive? Let's know in the comments section.👇👇

11/09/2026

Making Okro Soup… with a Twist! ✨🍲
What ingredients made this soup taste extra sweet and which did I omit 👇👇

10/09/2026

Your cat might be more disciplined than you.
“Think about it.
A cat does its business, turns around, and buries it.
It doesn't sit there staring at the mess.
It doesn't complain about what happened.
It handles it… covers it… and moves on.”
“So why are you still living in yesterday's mistakes?
You messed up? Learn.
You failed? Adjust.
You made a bad decision? Fix what you can.”
“Be like the cat. 🐱
Handle your business. Clean up your mess. And keep moving.”
What mess do you need to fix today? Share in the comments let's encourage you.👇👇👇

Most people think saying "I'm sorry" is enough after cheating... but it's not. Here are 5 things that matter more than s...
10/09/2026

Most people think saying "I'm sorry" is enough after cheating... but it's not. Here are 5 things that matter more than simply saying you are sorry .
When you cheat on your partner as a woman , 1.take full responsibility. 2.
Be honest about what happened without making excuses or shifting blame. A sincere apology should acknowledge the hurt you caused.
3. Give him time and space. He may need time to process his emotions. Avoid pressuring him to forgive you immediately.
4 . Be transparent and consistent. If you're both trying to repair the marriage, be open about your actions and follow through on your promises. Trust is rebuilt through consistent behavior over time.
5. Show genuine change. Reflect on why the cheating happened and take steps to address those issues, whether through personal growth, better communication, or ending unhealthy patterns.
Suggest counseling if he's open to it. A couples therapist can provide a safe space to discuss the betrayal, rebuild communication, and decide together how to move forward.
Men are emotional beings too, they can feel pain just like women. What are your thoughts, do you think men can forgive their cheating wives?
Why do some women cheat in marriage?
Let's know what you think in the comments 👇

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