25/06/2025
THEY CAN BE ILLEGITIMATE SEX,BUT NO ILLEGITIMATE CHILDREN
DISCLAIMER:
This article is not to encourage or endorse those who engage in s*x outside marriage, because a sin is a sin,no matter how you paint it. God has not called us to sin,but to righteousness and this grace should not be taken for granted. There's dignity in preserving oneself. So lady keep yourself, and save yourself this trauma.
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TO THE MAIN BUSINESS 👇👇👇👇
I believe you've heard about "unwanted pregnancy" as people call it. This mostly result when a man and a woman who are not married couples have illegitimate s*x.
There are many people or children around us who are a product of such incidence.
Now, bcuz we term it "illegitimate", because no formal marriage took place to produce these children,the people around them and the world despise them. Sometimes,they are even hated by the mother that gave birth to them, probably bcuz their father denied or rejected them or bcuz the child reminds them of the worst experience of their life.
But here is the good news,"there maybe illegitimate s*x,but there are no illegitimate children". Every child born into this earth has a Destiny and a purpose.
You did not choose, neither is It for you to decide how you would be born. But the fact that you were born, regardless of the means,you have a purpose and Destiny,as ordained by God, your maker.
Now JEREMIAH 1:5 says " Before I formed thee in the belly I knew thee,and Before thou came forth out of the womb I sanctified thee,and I ordained thee a prophet unto the nations". DO YOU SEE THAT? God knew you even before you were formed in that womb. He had a plan and purpose for your existence.
You can't go back to the beginning to correct what has been done,but you can start from where you are now and change the future.
Don't let the circumstances surrounding your birth or the world to DEFINE who you are or dictate what happens in your life. Don't let anyone demean you. Don't feel dejected just bcuz they said you don't have a father or you were rejected. There is one who is first your father before your earthly father. Jesus called Him,OUR HEAVENLY FATHER. And he loves you with a love beyond your imagination.
Who would have believed that JEPHTHAH ,THE SON OF A HARLOT,,whom his step brothers and father's people rejected and casted him away,would turn out to become the Deliverer,the head,leader and helper to same people that hated him JUDGES 11:1-11.
Who would have believed that SOLOMON,the next king after David,and the wisest of his time,was going to come from the womb of a woman married in iniquity. 2SAMUEL 11:2-5, 2SAMUEL 12:24.
God has a plan and purpose for everyone existing on earth,whether legally or illegally born. He sees and loves all humans alike. So we as well ought to do same, Love people around us and not discriminate.
TO YOU who's feeling REJECTED,there's a place for you in destiny.
TO YOU who's feeling LOST, there's a father who knows you more than you know yourself
TO YOU who's feeling FORSAKEN, there's a FATHER who never forsakes.
He is God, and He bids you "come". He is looking for people like you to make a JEPHTHAH out of them. To make a SOLOMON out of them. He is a God who's so interested in the weak, downtrodden and forsaken.
MATTEW 11:28. "Come unto me all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I'll give you rest".
You just have to FORGET ABOUT THE PAST and EMBRACE THE FUTURE WITH GOD. Trusting and depending on Him and watch Him make a wonder out of your life.
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