21/12/2022
THE IRRESISTIBLE ME - All you need to know about the book.
I have a gift for you at the end of this article🤭
THE INSPIRATION BEHIND IT
A few months ago, I got a WhatsApp message from one of my friends. She was going through quite a challenging phase and it was starting to affect how she viewed herself. So she needed help on how to move on.
That wasn’t the first time she or some other person would come meet me for emotional support or advice. Usually, she pours out her mind, I encourage her, and sometimes tell her where she’s at fault and how she can be better. But that fateful day, I knew she needed more than just a short fix. I needed to go deeper.
So I suggested we have a 2weeks tutorial where I take my time to explain the need to love herself and how she can go about it.
As I mentioned, that wasn’t my first encounter with someone needing an “I want to learn how to love me” fix. I decided to put my knowledge about the topic in a book so I can reach out to many more people. Helping people was the inspiration behind the book.
A SUMMARY OF THE BOOK
The book is divided into four chapters. I likened building your self-esteem to building a house. I started from the foundation which is needed for anything that needs to be done. I gave practical steps on how to lay the proper foundation for loving yourself.
Nobody starts loving themselves in a day. Of course, there are days when you are at your lowest point when you just don’t feel good about yourself and there are better days. However, if days like this are more than days you feel extremely good about yourself, then you properly didn’t have the right foundation.
We all know the foundation isn’t the only thing needed in a house. So I went further to explain the supporting building elements. These are what people see. The foundation is buried in the soil but the wall, doors and windows of a house are what people see. These are the physical attributes people notice and make them know how much you value yourself.
Let’s not forget the roof. This encapsulates everything. It is the covering. For each of these steps, I gave 5 practical points that need to be done.
Everything written in the book is things I have read, listened to and done. They can be trusted to work if you put your heart into them.
WHO THE BOOK IS FOR
As we all know, we are all a work in progress. Everyone is in a different phase in life. You cannot compare your journey to someone else’s, nor can you compare your growth to someone else’s.
This book is for women who haven’t been feeling like themselves lately. It is for men who feel burdened because of the responsibilities they carry hence they can’t have a life. It is for young adults who often compare themselves to the next beautiful girl or handsome guy they see next. It is for anyone who feels they need an “I need to love me” fix.
It is a book for one and all.
WHAT CAN YOU EXPECT FROM THE BOOK?
This book is very personal to me because I shared some stories about myself that nobody has ever heard. Not only is it personal, but it is also a book full of the various knowledge I’ve gathered regarding mental health and self-care.
You can expect a personal touch from reading this book. If you happen to follow every point made in the book, you can expect to see changes in how you view and feel about yourself.
I am a huge fan of Joyce Meyer and I listen to her a lot. This book is based on most of my time listening to her and how I put her words into practice.
Even if you feel you don’t need this book but you decide to get a copy, I’m sure you will learn a thing or two from the personal experiences I shared.
WHEN CAN YOU GET THE BOOK?
There will be a virtual book launch on the 7th of January 2023. What a way to start the year!
You can then head over to Amazon to get yourself a hard copy or to Selar, to get yourself a soft copy.
But for now, it’s up for preorder, for which you can get half the price.
Whichever the case, I’ve got you.
Because you read to this point, I have a gift for you.
I will be sharing the first chapter of my book with you for free.
All you have to do is click on this link.
https://selar.co/mpaj
Thank You
