06/11/2021
He Couldn't talk to girls.
the fear
He couldn’t talk to a girl…
I helped a friend and ended up helping myself. I had a friend called Julius who couldn’t even talk to a girl to save his life.
He was so shy…. And low in self-esteem
He never could muster the courage to spark up a conversation ‘’words dey fail him’’
Here’s a number of ways he talked himself out of trying
· Iji ego? [Do you have money?]
Can you pay her bills?
Do you even have a car?
You better respect yourself.
· What if she snubs you?
Worldwide disgrace
The public sees you as a big fool
NB- you know there’s a difference between a fool and the big fool
Big fool suggests you’re beyond all hope
And while he was doing all that negative thinking….
She’d either get up and leave or some random guys [with balls] would approach her.
Then they start talking and laughing and exchanging contacts, and my friend would want to die of envy.
SO I HAD TO HELP HIM, THIS WAS WHAT WE DID.
I knew a pretty and sophisticated lady in my area whom I’ve been planning on hooking up with, far above my league then…I told my friend to walk up to that lady
‘’what the hell did you say’’ he cried like a Christmas goat.
The worst you can get is a big NO and if you speak nicely you might escape a dirty slap. We laughed and set out for the adventure, all I told him was to follow his heart and few of these:
· You’re very cute and you have a charming smile- she’ll probably like you.
· You do have big shoulders and arms, use them.
· You can hold interesting conversations with women, you have a weird sense of humor etc…
YOU KNOW WHAT?
I raised his morale, he walked up to the lady, risking a NO, and a hot slap in public, and in return ended up starting a good conversation with the lady.
Bottom line, my friend has had more lady friends than men till now.
All this brings me to the point of this write-up.
Sometimes, it’s easy to find a long list of reasons why something won’t work, that’s very easy
But the hard thing to do is to focus on [or look for] reasons why it’ll work.
Even if it’s just one, this applies to everything in life, from women to clients and so on,
You can even manufacture reasons in your head, reasons why it’ll work [if you give it your all]
And while I can’t promise you heaven and earth, what I can tell you for sure is
If you can make a habit of doing this often…
You’ll probably achieve more in the next 6 months than you’ve achieved in the last 6 years.
Padi mi…. [my friend] it’s all in the head
STAY SHARP!
