20/07/2025
Arike mi... My Priceless Jewel 💎 💖
Indeed, you won't know the value of someone or something unless you lose them😔.
No, no... I didn't lose my mother, not yet, bi IdhniLlah 💚🤲.
However, what about the numerous people on Earth now, who have no mother to call their own? Those who can't return home to meet the warm embrace of a mother in their lives? Those whose mother's contact is no longer on their phone? Those who at every anniversary of their mother's date, get drowned and unseen in their own tears.
The impact of a mother can't be underestimated in the life of a child. WaLlohi.
I'm grateful to ALlāh that at this time, I still have a mother at my beck and call. The one who won't hear my cries and ignore me. No, she prefers to tear herself apart for my happiness and relief. Not only for me, but also for the other children she calls hers.
I didn't just come here to write about her today, even though she deserves lovely daily write-ups. But, can I be able to exhaust it in my lifetime? Obviously, no. May ALlāh ease our affairs 🤲💕.
Recently, I was baffled by a situation. It was something that required me to make a decision on something I had never done in my entire life. It felt so strange and unreal that such a thing was happening. But I'm in it now, I have to find a way.
I can literally say that in every second that I faced the struggle to make that decision, and actually go ahead with it, I kept asking my mum. Even for the littlest things that seem so simple to answer. I was just asking her. The uncertainty was still there, but her responses gave me the assurance and courage that nothing would go wrong and that all would be well.
The scenario made me remember some incidents that occurred in our hostel room among my roommates and me, yes, we are the Three Musketeers 😁. My babies, I love love 💕 them so much.
Whenever one of them asks me about something that I know I can't provide an answer to, or even if I can, we still need someone with greater experience to direct us. I'll ask them, "Have you asked your mum?" Honestly, that should start being the norm.
But let's face it, what if I'm living with those who have lost their moms? And I mistakenly asked them?
♦️What would that make me? And
♦️How would that make them feel?
It's actually very alarming and heart-wrenching.
Having a mother who hears you, supports you, and cares for you is a great blessing😌🥰. A big flex 💪 However...
Losing one's mother, especially at a tender age when you need them the most can be the worst experience ever😔😭. No one can replace a mother in a child's life. Absolutely, no one.
I hereby pray that we do not lose our mothers at an untimely age. And that we can repay their favors and labor before the REALITY strikes.
Also, I pray heartily, that ALlāh suffice the ones who had lost their mother or father or both. And be their succor in every way possible. May ALlāh be the guide the mother couldn't fulfill, the guard she couldn't be, the confidant she couldn't attain and the warmth she couldn't provide.
Aameena ya Rabbal-'aalamin 💚 🤲😔 🥹 🥺
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Is there a message you'll like to write to someone you know has lost one of both of their parents? Why don't you do that now? They might be going through a lot you know. And you might be saving a life.
And, please use this moment to say a sincere prayer for those who have lost their parents, the Muslims dead parents and yours too whether alive or dead. It might be what they need the most right now.
May ALlāh, SubhānaHu wa ta'ala, ease all our affairs 🤲 💕. Aameen.
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