15/07/2025
MALE BESTIE IS A RED FLAG
Personally, a lady who has a male bestie doesn't value her man or her relationship. If you have a male bestie while you have a man who is seriously serious with you, you're clueless and directionless in the journey of marital settlement.
Some of these ladies with male besties are so unaware of their environment when their so called man is around, You're in the presence of your man and you're using words like IFE, FINE MAN etc for a bestie in his presence, that's a sign that you do not value your relationship and the man isn't valued. If reverse is the case, heaven would have fallen, that's unwise.
I have seen instances that screams red flags with this nonsense Male bestie. You can't fool me, you're only wasting your prime, continue.
Men, don't commit yourself to these type of ladies because they already have open options in the name of besties. She's giving another man(bestie) the same attention as she gives you.
The secret she'Il tell the bestie she won't tell her man. She will even gossip her man with her bestie, radarada. You'll have misunderstanding with her and she will hangout with her bestie on Sunday, your eyes will peel brother. She'll rather give her man an excuse not to attend an event or outing with him than miss spending time with her bestie.
Lastly, A girl who has a male bestie is not supposed to have a boyfriend. If you're the boyfriend and you knew nothing about a male bestie somewhere, the moment you know about it the relationship should end. Stop dating girls that have male besties.