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01/06/2026

Am happy so church leaders are speaking up

Happy new month To everyone connected to this page, may the peace of God never depart from your home🙏🏼. May your heart f...
01/06/2026

Happy new month To everyone connected to this page, may the peace of God never depart from your home🙏🏼.

May your heart find rest, your soul find strength, and your days be filled with divine favor🙏🏼.

“The Lord shall preserve thy going out and thy coming in from this time forth, and even for evermore.” — Psalm 121:8📌

“God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble.” — Psalm 46:1📌

May every silent prayer be answered, every burden be lifted, and every tear be replaced with joy. May grace speak for you in places your voice cannot reach, and may goodness and mercy follow you all the days of your life🙏🏼.
Happy new month beautiful family ❤️
Stay blessed always. 🙏

31/05/2026

Our home will not see or hear evil throughout the remaining months of this year in Jesus name!!

You people tagging your husband I saw this post and decided to copy itthere is this vendor here on Facebook that sleeps ...
30/05/2026

You people tagging your husband
I saw this post and decided to copy it

there is this vendor here on Facebook that sleeps around with my husband. she sells cloths and handbags. barely one month I gave birth through CS my husband did this to me.

I confronted my husband he only said I'm sorry. is it bcos I usually tag my husband reason why this vendor have the audacity to send him friend request and the rest is history.

I'm not taking I'm sorry for an answer. she even use to send her nu*de picture to him. And where they were having se*x*

Should I confront this lady. it hurts me that this is someone I do patronize on this space.

why wil she do this to me.

What is my offence!

please give her your advice! nkea karirim 🤦

THE HARDEST PART of MODERN DATING IS PRETENDING NOT TO CARE 😘.Pretending you’re okay when they suddenly become distant.P...
30/05/2026

THE HARDEST PART of MODERN DATING IS PRETENDING NOT TO CARE 😘.

Pretending you’re okay when they suddenly become distant.
Pretending you didn’t notice the dry replies.
Pretending it doesn’t hurt when someone who once gave you attention now treats you like an option.🥺

These days, everybody wants to look “unbothered.”
Nobody wants to seem too attached.
Nobody wants to admit they miss someone.
So people suffer silently while acting emotionally unavailable🥹.

You like someone?
You hide it.

You’re hurt?
You act cold.

You miss them?
You stay offline and hope they text first.

Modern dating has turned real feelings into a competition of who cares less.
And honestly, that’s exhausting.

Because deep down, most people are not asking for too much.
They just want consistency, reassurance, effort, and someone who acts the same in private and public.

Imagine loving someone and still feeling like you have to play games to protect your heart.

That’s the sad part.

A lot of relationships today are failing not because love is missing…
but because people are too scared to be emotionally honest.

And the truth is:
The right person will never make you feel weak for caring deeply.



MANY PEOPLE ARE DATING FOR VALIDATION NOT BECAUSE THEY WANT TO BE LOVED 🥹Many people are not dating for love anymore…The...
29/05/2026

MANY PEOPLE ARE DATING FOR VALIDATION NOT BECAUSE THEY WANT TO BE LOVED 🥹

Many people are not dating for love anymore…
They’re dating for validation.

They want someone to constantly text them so they can feel important.
Someone to post them so they can feel chosen.
Someone to admire them so they can finally feel attractive enough, worthy enough, valuable enough.

And honestly, that’s why so many relationships feel empty even when two people are together.

Because when validation is the goal, love becomes secondary.

Some people don’t miss their ex because they truly loved them.
They miss the attention.
The compliments.
The feeling of being wanted.
The feeling of knowing somebody was emotionally attached to them.

That’s why some people panic immediately after a breakup and rush into another relationship.

Not because their heart healed quickly…
But because they cannot handle the silence that comes when nobody is validating them anymore.

And the painful part is this:

When you date for validation, you start depending on other people to determine your worth.

If they reply fast, you feel special.
If they become distant, you feel insecure.
If they stop choosing you, you suddenly stop choosing yourself too.

That kind of love is exhausting.

Real love is beautiful, but it cannot survive where self-worth is missing.

Because no matter how deeply someone loves you, they can never permanently fill the emptiness of someone who does not truly love themselves.

A relationship should not be the place where you go to prove you are enough.

You should already know your value before love arrives.

Otherwise, you’ll spend your entire relationship begging for reassurance instead of experiencing peace.

And that’s the saddest thing about modern dating…

Many people are not searching for connection anymore.
They are searching for confirmation that they are lovable.



In a situation like this will u throw the pot of stew or remove the rat and continue
28/05/2026

In a situation like this will u throw the pot of stew or remove the rat and continue

3 reasons why some men use and dump women and most times, the signs were there from the beginning.1. You ignored the red...
28/05/2026

3 reasons why some men use and dump women and most times, the signs were there from the beginning.

1. You ignored the red flags because you wanted love so badly.
When a man only calls at night, avoids serious conversations, hides you from his friends, or only shows effort when he wants intimacy… believe the signs. Some women keep hoping “he will change,” while the man already knows he’s not planning to stay.

2. You gave relationship benefits to someone who never gave commitment.
Some men enjoy attention, emotional support, loyalty, care, and even intimacy without ever intending to build something serious. If a man keeps enjoying everything about you but refuses to define the relationship, stop confusing convenience with love.

3. You kept accepting bare minimum effort.
When you keep tolerating disrespect, inconsistency, excuses, and mixed signals, some men will continue using you because they know you won’t walk away. People treat you based on the standards you allow.

And let’s be honest…
Not every man who leaves “used” a woman. Sometimes two people were simply not compatible. But there are also men who know exactly what they’re doing from day one.

The painful truth?
Many women ignore their intuition because they are afraid of starting over.

Attachment can blind you.
Desperation can silence your standards.
And loneliness can make red flags look normal.

Protect your heart by paying attention, not by falling too fast.



27/05/2026

Go and get your voters card ❗❗❗❗


THE REAL REASON MANY RELATIONSHIPS BECOME BORING AFTER A FEW MONTHS;People stop trying.At the beginning, everybody puts ...
27/05/2026

THE REAL REASON MANY RELATIONSHIPS BECOME BORING AFTER A FEW MONTHS;

People stop trying.

At the beginning, everybody puts in effort.

The calls are longer.
The replies are faster.
The compliments are sweeter.
You make time for each other.
You laugh more.
You listen more.
Even small things feel exciting✅.

But once people become comfortable, effort slowly disappears 🫠.

Good morning texts become dry.
Dates become rare.
Communication becomes routine.
People stop paying attention to the little things that once made the relationship special😩.

And instead of growing together, they start existing beside each other🧏🏼‍♀️.

The problem is not always that the love disappeared 🫠.
Sometimes people simply stopped nurturing it.

Many relationships become boring because both partners got too relaxed and started assuming:
“They already know I love them.”

But love is not only something you feel.
It’s something you continue showing✅.

You cannot water a plant only once and expect it to stay green forever📌.

Relationships need attention.
They need intentional conversations.
Fun moments.
Emotional connection.
Effort from BOTH people✅.

The sad part is that many people miss the excitement of the beginning, not realizing that the excitement came from the effort they were both making.🧏🏼‍♀️

A healthy relationship is not supposed to stay in the “butterflies” stage forever.
But it should never become emotionally lazy either.

The strongest couples are usually not the ones who are constantly posting each other online.
They are the ones who never stop dating each other, even after getting comfortable🥰.

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