The Babs Couple

The Babs Couple ᴛᴡᴏ ʜᴇᴀʀᴛꜱ, ᴏɴᴇ ʜᴏᴍᴇ, ᴄᴏᴜɴᴛʟᴇꜱꜱ ʟᴏᴠᴇ ᴀꜰꜰᴀɪʀꜱ ᴡɪᴛʜ ɢᴏᴅ ᴀɴᴅ ᴇᴀᴄʜ ᴏᴛʜᴇʀ!...

28/03/2026

Where are the RUTHologists in the house? 👀

Abeg, make una no judge me ooo… or I don dey overdo as wife? 😅

No blame me o, good husband now premium product for market… price don skyrocket! 😂

Just ignore the Throwback Thursday photo attached and focus on my post. I remembered something that happened recently be...
26/03/2026

Just ignore the Throwback Thursday photo attached and focus on my post.

I remembered something that happened recently between me and my husband, and I thought to share.

Apparently, I did something wrong, but I had no idea at the time. Unknown to me, it stayed on his mind that night, stirring different thoughts.

He began to wonder, “Is she taking me for granted? Is she doing this deliberately?” These were the questions running through his mind before he fell asleep.

The next morning, I woke up and went into the kitchen. As usual, I washed some fruits for him and then took them into the room. The moment he saw me, he smiled warmly and expressed his gratitude. I also mentioned that breakfast would be ready soon.

Later, he told me that the moment I walked in with that simple act of care, all the thoughts that had troubled him that night disappeared.

It was during breakfast that he told me everything. I apologized, and we both ended up laughing about it.

It seemed like such a small moment, but it made me reflect deeply. What if I hadn’t shown that act of kindness that morning? What if he had also chosen to keep his thoughts to himself, allowing them to grow wild silently?

We often hear that communication is key, and it truly is. But I’ve come to realize that kindness is also very important. Sometimes, a sincere, simple act of love creates the safe space needed for honest conversations. And when that happens, you’ll find that both of you handle things better, together.

THE BABS

My Thoughts Lately About MotherhoodMotherhood is something that cannot truly be explained until you experience it yourse...
15/03/2026

My Thoughts Lately About Motherhood

Motherhood is something that cannot truly be explained until you experience it yourself. The entire journey of becoming a mother is difficult to fully put into words.

I remember when my elder sister had her first son. At the time, I was writing my final papers at the university. I was so excited that I rushed home immediately just to see my handsome nephew. After that visit, I ended up staying with them for almost a year. During that time, I was deeply involved in my nephew’s early growth.

After three months, my sister resumed work, and I was the one mostly at home with the baby. Back then, I thought I had seen a glimpse of what motherhood looked like. But honestly, that was only a tiny fraction of the reality.
Not until I stepped into those shoes myself did I truly understand. The journey to becoming a mother is no small task at all. It comes with a lot of responsibility, adjustments, and sacrifices.

The amazing part, however, is that even though the process can be stressful, there is still so much joy in it. Waking up five or six times before daybreak can be exhausting, yet somehow you still find yourself enjoying every moment of it.

Now I understand why mothers are celebrated so much. They truly deserve it.

This is not to scare anyone, but rather to say—brace yourself for the beautiful journey ahead.

Once again, happy Mother’s Day to all mothers out there.
And just like that.

one year feels like one month. Thank you, sweet Jesus. 🙏🏽

The Babs

Marriage Will Unconsciously Change YouMarriage has a funny way of changing you into your partner without you even realiz...
13/03/2026

Marriage Will Unconsciously Change You

Marriage has a funny way of changing you into your partner without you even realizing it. It’s amazing how two people begin to rub off on each other effortlessly.

Before I got married, my eating routine was completely different. I could take breakfast by 11 a.m., and sometimes it would even turn into brunch. As for dinner, if it wasn’t 10 p.m. yet, I wasn’t even thinking about food.

While we were courting, my husband always tried to correct me. He would monitor my eating habits and even explain the medical implications, but honestly, it didn’t really enter my ears...for my husband, he can take dinner as early as 6pm lolzzz...

Then boom, after marriage, something changed.

Now I unconsciously take breakfast around 8 a.m. and dinner between 7 and 8 p.m., with bedtime around 8:45 p.m. Sometimes I’m even the one telling my husband that I want to go and sleep, as early as 8 p.m., which is so unlike the old me.

The same thing happened with food temperature. I never liked eating cold food. But my husband? If the food isn’t extremely cold, Baba won’t even taste it, let alone eat it.

Funny enough, a few weeks ago I noticed something surprising I wasn’t enjoying my food unless it was cold. When I told my husband, he laughed so hard.

On the other hand, my husband has changed too. If you knew him very well before, you’d know the words “please” and “sorry” were almost nonexistent in his vocabulary. But now, he uses them naturally. Those words have become a part of him.

I remember during our courtship, I would always tell him, “Say please… say sorry.” He used to believe that saying those words wasn’t necessary unless he truly felt he had done something wrong.

But look at him now.

The bottom line is this: when both partners are not rigid and are intentional about building a peaceful and godly home, you will naturally start rubbing off on each other without even knowing it. Your lives truly become one, and both of you begin to shift grounds, sometimes unconsciously.

And that’s one of the beautiful parts of marriage.

See you later.

— The Babs

12/03/2026

Yakubu, Manage!! 😅 It’ll feel like you’re dying, but I promise you won't.

New Moms: Sleep when the baby sleeps—seriously! 😅

24/01/2026

Early 2025, I went through my social media platforms and wasn't pleased with what I saw 🤦‍♀️. I was shocked at the number of unread messages, especially on Facebook 😬. I'd like to take a moment to apologize to friends on that blue app - those who wanted to connect, but I was MIA 🙅‍♀️. I'm sincerely sorry 🙏.

Early that year, I was determined to level up my content creation game 💪. My husband was super supportive, helping with the camera and all 📸. Then, the unexpected happened 😂 - I got pregnant! It was a lot...

Looking back, I'm grateful for the journey 🙏. Thank you, Jesus 🙌.

Now, ni akotan, 2026 is here 🎉! I'm hoping and praying to be more consistent 💪. After all, a wise man said, "Consistency is better than intensity" 🤩. So help me, God 🙏!

My people, let's do this together - back bigger and better! 💥

Happy Birthday to my ever lively and lovely wife , Mrs Babs!Wishing you a day filled with love, laughter, and all your f...
25/09/2025

Happy Birthday to my ever lively and lovely wife , Mrs Babs!

Wishing you a day filled with love, laughter, and all your favorite things 🌟. You bring so much joy and warmth to those around you.

Here's to another year of happiness, blessings, and beautiful memories. May your special day be as wonderful as you are.

Keep being you because it looks good on you always! ✨ You deserve all the cheer and love today and always 💕.

It's another July 9! HurrraaaayyyyHappy birthday my sweet and amazing husband!Thank you for representing Christ well in ...
09/07/2025

It's another July 9! Hurrraaaayyyy

Happy birthday my sweet and amazing husband!

Thank you for representing Christ well in our home, it's the way I look forward to coming home just to spend quality time with you.

Wo I gba ti e jare Bobo mi daada , keep daddying me sir.

Cheers to your new age my love.

04/07/2025

Life isn’t just about the milestones, it’s about the moments. The laughs, the quiet talks, the shared glances, the little wins that turn into cherished memories. Don’t wait for “perfect.” Create beauty in the now.

Why is it so important to create and hold on to these moments?

Because memories are the true wealth of the heart. They outlast time, distance, and even pain. The moments you create today become the light you carry into tomorrow.

And when it comes to love, your partner doesn’t just walk beside you; they shape you. They influence your joy, your peace, your growth. Choosing the right one?

Think about it…

What kind of life are you building, and who are you building it with?

Happy New Month of July!May this new month bring you joy, love, and peace. May your dreams and aspirations be fulfilled,...
02/07/2025

Happy New Month of July!

May this new month bring you joy, love, and peace. May your dreams and aspirations be fulfilled, and may you be blessed with good health and happiness.

Wishing you a wonderful July filled with laughter, adventure, and cherished moments with loved ones.

Lots of Love 💕

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