Balogun Oluwadamilare Eedris

27/09/2024

22/09/2024

A DIVORCED SINGLE MOTHER WROTE:

I am writing to you in order to make someone understand that it's good to appreciate our partners despite their flaws.

I am 32 years of age.

My ex-husband and I dated for 6 years. We where best of friends.I waited until he completed college and started work. My family and his family then met.We got married and had a son. (7 years old now).

My husband was short tempered at times but our problems started when I wanted to make him feel he couldn't control me.

Every time we argued, I would pack my bags, go to my family and explain. My sisters would phone my husband and shout at him.

If he was controlling me I would always dare him that if he wished, he could divorce me. I never wanted divorce. I just had pride and I never wanted to look like a loose woman in his eyes.

One day I pushed him so hard that for the first time he beat me and locked me outside. I went to my family, my family took him to the police, every time I looked like I was being abused!

But to be honest, I used to abuse my husband emotionally. He was arrested and detained. I was asked by his family to withdraw the case. I felt that what I was doing was wrong.

My husband was never a violent man, he did what he did because I pushed him to the wall of which he openly knelt down and apologized.

I withdrew the charge, and we reconciled. After three months, I packed my bags after a small issue and he remained alone. After two days, I
received a call that he was in the hospital.

My family told me that I shouldn't go there because it would look like I was begging him and my sisters believed he was feigning the illness.

All this time, people felt sorry for me like I was the one being abused.He spent a week in the hospital, after he came out, I just received a divorce summon.

I wanted to say no to divorce, but because I felt this pride, I wanted him to change his mind and beg me. I called him and said he would get the divorce because I lived like I was in hell.

When we went to court, I wanted to make him pay, so I told the court that I needed his properties to be shared.

To my surprise he openly told the court that whatever he and I acquired together should be given to me, all he wanted was divorce.

We were divorced in July 2009. Now, my husband is married, whilst l am here wasted! My family members are gossiping about me. I depend on what my ex husband gives to my son for survival.

I know I wasted my
marriage.

I am here telling all wives that they should be careful how they get advice. Don't be cheated, don't entertain family interference in your marriage my dear reader. Even my young sisters are much more respected than myself.

Those who encouraged me to get divorced are now teasing and bad mouthing me.
Please ladies, be vigilant in your marriage.
Thought it wise to share my story to save your marriage. There is no benefit in pride for nothing.

SOMETIMES IT'S NOT THE MAN'S FAULT AT ALL, IT'S YOUR PRIDE,AND THE PEOPLE YOU ALLOWED TO ADVISE YOU,SO BE WISE AND VIGILANT IN YOUR MARRIAGE.

Me: Karma has a way of reaching people no matter what, don't misbehave and expect to have it easy, whatever it is or whatever you do, always make sure that you are in the right.

Don't forget to follow this account

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BBI VENTURES CARE

12/08/2024

My dear brother Paul,
Just like I have told you several times, I am not in any competition with you or anybody else. However, seeing you grant countless interviews where you constantly discredit my efforts in the group that we both created and built together really speaks volumes. In your recent interviews, you claimed that you wrote and sang 99% of all P-SQUARE songs and discredited me by saying that our song with TI "EjeaJo," which I wrote, was a failure. You went as far as using the YouTube views to discredit me once again.
You never acknowledged the other songs like "Get-Squared," "Bizzy Body," "Personally," "Roll It," "Temptation," "Alingo," "More than a Friend," "Shekini," "Say Your Love," "Gimme Dat," "Senorita," "IGBEdu," and a few others. Were these songs also considered failures as well?

Every time I have spoken in interviews about P-SQUARE, I have always used "we" and "us" because I saw us as a team. But whenever you speak, it’s always "I" and "me," even when I’m standing right beside you. It’s as if I never existed.
My brother, neither of us is the most talented artist in the world, but you fail to understand that God gave us this talent and even granted us another chance to excel after our last breakup. Instead, you chose to turn the most awarded and decorated music group in Africa into a laughingstock again.

One thing you need to understand clearly is that the fans didn’t fall in love with P-SQUARE because of who sang or danced the most. What made us special was the magic that came from our combined effort - us two! P-SQUARE was a force, and the fans fell in love with P-SQUARE because of our uniqueness and unity. We both have talent, no doubt, and I have often praised you in our interviews for your songwriting ability. I have also praised anyone who has ever written a song for us or even for me as Mr. P. But instead of showing gratitude for my kind words, you seem to find satisfaction in rubbing it in my face, forgetting that it is by God’s grace that we have come this far.

Rather than joining forces with me to reclaim our number 1 spot in the music industry, you chose to team up with Jude to claim the number 1 spot in the P-SQUARE group, always looking for opportunities to marginalize and humiliate me.
You are always claiming to be P-SQUARE’s songwriter, composer, producer, singer, backup vocalist, in fact you are everything including P-SQUARE’s video director, band, promoter, manager, even the choreographer. You are the Author and Finisher of P-SQUARE! In fact, I dash you 100% of everything instead of the 99% you claim.
I blame myself for not responding to your tweet claims in April 2015 that you wrote and sang all of P-SQUARE’s songs. I didn’t respond to these false claims for the sake of peace, as advised by family and friends, and now I am paying dearly for it.
So, my brother, let me ask you: Is Rudeboy or Mr P bigger and more successful than P-SQUARE today? Are we individually selling out arenas and stadiums like P-SQUARE used to? Are we topping world music charts with our songs as solo artistes?

Do we command crowds and entertain massive audiences like P-SQUARE?
I often find myself wondering, what do you truly gain by constantly disrespecting and belittling me all the time. You have disrespected my wife, disrespected my family, disrespected my talent, disrespected my ideas, and even sided with Jude when he was clearly trying to oppress me. Now, it feels like you have taken it even further by trying so hard to turn the fans against me by making them believe I’m jealous of you.
You have been doing everything for the fans to hate me, but guess what? They will never hate me; instead, they will hate us both because we have disappointed and failed them.
I hope you are happy now. I genuinely wish you nothing but the best, bro! As for those who believe these lies and false narratives and come to my page to drop negative comments, I understand because you have been fed the wrong narrative for a long time. Please allow me to focus and do my music in peace.
As for the EFCC matter,

I will address it before the end of today. Stay tuned! Peace✌🏾

PETER OKOYE.

12/08/2024

I'm 53 years and my wife 49.The issue that brought me here is my wife's properties. I married this woman three years ago;she lost her husband when she was 42 and I met her with three kids. The late husband left 5 houses and 3 big farms which are doing well.

For the year now I have been asking my wife to at least change two houses and put my name on them so that in case I die my kids and my family can inherit. She has refused.

Please I need advice, I'm frustrated😮‍💨

ME: I think say na only woman dey marry bcos of money, baba gold digger leleyi o, you too should hustle and have houses that ur children can inherit afterall the late husband hustled for his own.

19/07/2024

PLEASE DON'T JUDGE JUST AN ADVICES

07/07/2024

A lion that find his way into a village, it has destroyed so many things...

07/07/2024

God saved Comedian Baba Alariya from this gh@stly car accident.The car sumersaulted six times😥

06/07/2024

Pls post hide my id admin….do well to notify me
Am dating this two guys now, one stays in the same state with me while the other is in Abuja
The one in Abuja is always helping me like 50 percent while the other is 10 percent help.
The one staying in the same state with me don't care about s3x, playful, understanding,calm but st1ingy not serious with church.
The one in Abuja is ser1ous always, logical, not understanding, love s£x, not playful, always p1cking offence making me cr¥ but supports me like 50 percent , serious with church
The two are talking about marrying me but i don't know who to choose

Pls i need advice

06/07/2024

WHAT KILLS LOVE?

1. LACK OF COMMUNICATION
The less you two communicate, the more you two slowly learn to live without each other. The more you two take breaks from each other, the faster love dies

2. ENDLESS FIGHTS
Constant fighting will make you two avoid each other for the sake of peace, thus drifting apart

3. LACK OF MUTUAL ACTIVITIES
Yes, you two might be in different careers and have different likes; but if you don't have common activities to do together, the bond will fade

4. AFFAIRS
Affairs distract, your love for each other withers

5. ADDICTIONS
Addictions such as p**n or alcohol take the best of our time and we end up defending the addiction more than the relationship, we get too hooked to see how we are neglecting or hurting our partner

6. THIRD PARTIES
You might end up siding with third parties such as parents, friends or siblings to the point that they pull you away from your spouse

7. LACK OF APPRECIATION
The more appreciation lacks, the more loving starts to feel like a strain; worst of all is when things are done, not out of joy but obligation as a spouse

8. UNFORGIVENESS
Your heart cannot love and hold a grudge at the same time

9. DISTANCE
Physical distance but most of all, emotional distance can make two people fall out; try as much as possible to connect as a couple

10. WORK
When your work or business becomes too demanding, you might struggle to balance, and your love life, because it appears not to have financial value, might suffer the consequences

11. BLAME GAME
When you two keep exchanging blames and finding fault in each other, you will began to dislike each other's company

12. LACK OF EFFORT
Love doesn't just happen, doesn't just grow; it needs constant watering, nurturing and attention. If you both don't put in the effort, it will gradually die

06/07/2024

For Peace to Reign , Davido Shades tears as he gives Imade to Sophia Momodu . In his words 👇

“ Your constantly bringing up the dèath of my child at any point u can to just remind us of this tragedy that haunts us everyday of our lives ... Imade will grow up to see I fought for her.. as for now u can have her .. P.S she won't be a child forever .. enjoy Imade Aurora Adeleke ! Your father loves you!, All I ask for is JOINT CUSTODY !! And nothing else! But cus it's 'Davido yall wanna act like yall can't read. Smh.. I'm off this! Yall be blessed and I pray this never happens to you”

Sophia crossed the line , this is Painful and wrong . It’s not like Davido wanted Sole Custody . Reminding him of his son is wrong 🤦‍♂️

06/07/2024

🗣️ Michael Owen: “I don't think anyone can play the game of football as well as Messi.”

🗣️ Frank Ribéry: “Messi is class. There is him, and then there is the rest. What he does is extraordinary.”

🗣️ Javier Mascherano: “Although he may not be human, it’s good that Leo Messi still thinks he is.”

🗣️ Samuel Eto’o: “Lionel Messi is god, as a person and even more as a player. I knew him when he was a boy and I’ve watched him grow. He deserves it all.”

🗣️Frank Lampard: "It is impossible to man marl messi one on one,it is not possible you just have to pray that he is not in the game".

🗣️ Wayne Rooney: “ I played with Ronaldo so Ronaldo is ruthless in the box, a killer. But Messi will torture you before he kills you. For me, Messi is the best,he is the best player I've ever seen."

🗣️ Xavi Hernandez: “It is clear that Messi is on a level above all others. Those who do not see that are blind.”

🗣️ Carles Puyol: “Lionel Messi is well above anything else I’ve ever seen. He is an alien.”

🗣️ Diego Maradona: “I have seen the player who will inherit my place in Argentine football and his name is Lionel Messi – Messi is a genius.”

🗣️ Jose Mourinho: “When Messi has the ball, one on one, you’re dead. I call him the little guy because he has a very small physique but he is very deadly with the ball."

🗣️ Luis Enrique: “Without any doubt, Lionel Messi is the best in the world! For me, he is the best in the history of football.”

🗣️ Pep Guardiola: Messi is number 9,10,11,17,19 just don't write about him, don't try to describe him. Just watch him!”

🗣️ Franz Beckenbauer: “Messi is a genius. He has everything. When I watch him, I see a player who is very, very, skilful, very clever and his left foot is like Diego Maradona’s.”

🗣️ Kun Agüero: “I have been in Europe for 15 years and I have not seen anyone like Messi, nobody even comes close!”

🗣️ Marco Van Basten: “Cristiano is a great player, but those who say he is better than Messi knows nothing about footbal❤.

04/07/2024

"Performing at the London stadium was the biggest 1-minute of my career !! Thanks Burna Boy. Burna Boy paid me $100k to perform for 1-minute and still paid for my flight to and from London." Sabinus

"When Burna Boy called me to come perform at the London Stadium, I thought he was jokîng and I just lãughed. But I was shõcked when he called me 2 days to the show and said "My bro, pack your bags because a private jet is gonna pick you up tomorrow." That was when I believed that he was actually serious so I ironed my favorite blue shirt and black trouser with my expensive shoe and packed a few things. On that day, I went to the airport and his private jet picked me up as promised. That was actually the first day I ever got into a private jet for free. When we got to London, I thought that maybe I was gonna perform at the after party but Burna Boy told me that I was gonna open the stage for him. When I came out before 80k people, I almost lõst conscîousness because I've never performed before such a huge audience. Burna Boy paid me handsomely. I will always be grateful to Burna Boy." Sabinus

Comedian Sabinus appreciates Burna boy for giving a boost to his career😍

30/06/2024

This matter never settle Biko

"I'm responding to my husband, the man who said i refused sharing my salary with him after he sponsored me my education & that I'm un,gr3at,ful,, pls, here is my own side of the story. Well i think its safe if i say, its been h,3ll for the past 8yrs that I've been married to this man. I still do not know what got into him coz, he totally changed, he used to be so sweet, we were so inlove. We dated for just 2 months & he proposed. Even though my friends advised that it was too early & that i should hold on & get to know him first but I didn't listen. I was so in love with him & even started avoiding my friends, thinking that they were jealous of my relationship with my boyfriend

After marriage, First, this man refused me from working, he claimed there was no need for me to work since, he was capable of taking care of his family. I knew this was a red flag but i decided to ignore hoping that he'll one day come around after i plead & try to convince him but, instead hid attitude got worse few months after the birth of our third daughter,y husband will always accuse me of not being able to give him a male child, he comes back home late. sometimes he doesn't even show up at all. He'll sleep out for 3 whole days without leaving us even money for food. This man turned me into a begger apart from begging him anytime that i need something. I started begging from neighbors just to feed my kids & even helped my female neighbors with their house chores just so, they share their food with i & my kids after they're done cooking.

it got to a certain level that, i was unable to take it, after pleading with him to change but he kept ignoring my pleads. Had no choice than re,p0rt him to "welfare" during this time. I had taken my kids with me & went back to my parents house. I also pleaded with a very good friend of mine whom agreed to lend me some huge sums, to start up a trade. The case at the welfare was settled & he agreed to change & start taking up his responsibilities again but, when he came to pick me at my father's house, i refused to go back unless we came to a compromise that, i start working & instead of just being a house wife doing nothing. He agreed but pleaded that, he doesn't want me to do a trade but instead, i should give him sometime so he can save up & enroll me into a nursing institutions. In which he did & I'm so greatful for that coz, i did so well in my result & just about a months after my graduation, i was so lucky to have gotten a job at one of the biggest & best hospitals in town with such a fat salary

To be honest, i was so sh0ckd, when a friend contacted me with a screenshot that, my husband has paid a blogger on Facebk to xp0se me coz he helped me & I'm ungreatful & further saying, he has never goten a dime from my salary. Can you believe that, when i collected my first salary, i handed over every dime to this man & that same month 1 of my kids were sent back home for school fees. Instead of my husband, using the money i handed to him for the betterment of the family, he was busy misusing it & squandering it on women & beer yet, i still never confronted him. I decided to concentrate in my children, still in my own, i started paying the children's fee & buying food for the house & even, offered to pay our house rent but he refused.

My husband's attitude even became worse & toxic few days after i told him, i had started a building project even though my friends had asked me not to tell him, but i did coz, i respect him but, I was shocked one morning when he, woke me up very early at around 5 am after grumbling all through the night & asked that i start giving him half of my salary every month. I was like "I'm the one doing almost everything in this house so, why do you want half of my monthly pay. He claims that if not for him i wouldn't have gotten a job because he brought the idea & was the one that took care of my fees. This man doesn't even respect my family he in,slts them in my face & also regards to them as "low lives" just coz they didn't support him after he took this issue them. He accuse i & my family of wanting to ridicule him in public & show everyone how I'm doing better than him my own husband... So, pls people judge me & tell me where i went wrong.

Pa Cicilia! I accept that you helped sponsored my education & I'm greatful but I'm so sorry to say this that; there's absolutely, no way that, I'll ever even dream of giving you half of my salary. You've never appreciated me nor even treated me like a woman not even for once after the birth of Nadia our last daughter, i kept begging you to forgive me if I've ever done anything wrong to deserve such cold treatment but you kept saying nothing. I've tolerated so much in this marriage. I'm so sorry to say, I'm done & I'm not coming back to you. For this past few months that i left your home I've come to realize that this marriage is too t0_xic for me. I kept respecting & loving you even though all you did everyday was make me cry😭

You accuse me of not being able to give you a son as if I'm God that gives children, Well, I'm so sorry to break the news to you like this. I'm almost 6 months gone & guess what!, it's a boy but unfortunately, you're not the father. After a very long time finally, I'm experiencing true love, I'm respected & I'm being treated like a woman that i deserve. At this point, i do not care anymore. Go on ahead & keep r@nt!n on social media for all i care, distribute my pictures to all the bloggers on social media to xp0se me but believe me when i say "i do not care anymore""This matter never settle Biko

"I'm responding to my husband, the man who said i refused sharing my salary with him after he sponsored me my education & that I'm un,gr3at,ful,, pls, here is my own side of the story. Well i think its safe if i say, its been h,3ll for the past 8yrs that I've been married to this man. I still do not know what got into him coz, he totally changed, he used to be so sweet, we were so inlove. We dated for just 2 months & he proposed. Even though my friends advised that it was too early & that i should hold on & get to know him first but I didn't listen. I was so in love with him & even started avoiding my friends, thinking that they were jealous of my relationship with my boyfriend

After marriage, First, this man refused me from working, he claimed there was no need for me to work since, he was capable of taking care of his family. I knew this was a red flag but i decided to ignore hoping that he'll one day come around after i plead & try to convince him but, instead hid attitude got worse few months after the birth of our third daughter,y husband will always accuse me of not being able to give him a male child, he comes back home late. sometimes he doesn't even show up at all. He'll sleep out for 3 whole days without leaving us even money for food. This man turned me into a begger apart from begging him anytime that i need something. I started begging from neighbors just to feed my kids & even helped my female neighbors with their house chores just so, they share their food with i & my kids after they're done cooking.

it got to a certain level that, i was unable to take it, after pleading with him to change but he kept ignoring my pleads. Had no choice than re,p0rt him to "welfare" during this time. I had taken my kids with me & went back to my parents house. I also pleaded with a very good friend of mine whom agreed to lend me some huge sums, to start up a trade. The case at the welfare was settled & he agreed to change & start taking up his responsibilities again but, when he came to pick me at my father's house, i refused to go back unless we came to a compromise that, i start working & instead of just being a house wife doing nothing. He agreed but pleaded that, he doesn't want me to do a trade but instead, i should give him sometime so he can save up & enroll me into a nursing institutions. In which he did & I'm so greatful for that coz, i did so well in my result & just about a months after my graduation, i was so lucky to have gotten a job at one of the biggest & best hospitals in town with such a fat salary

To be honest, i was so sh0ckd, when a friend contacted me with a screenshot that, my husband has paid a blogger on Facebk to xp0se me coz he helped me & I'm ungreatful & further saying, he has never goten a dime from my salary. Can you believe that, when i collected my first salary, i handed over every dime to this man & that same month 1 of my kids were sent back home for school fees. Instead of my husband, using the money i handed to him for the betterment of the family, he was busy misusing it & squandering it on women & beer yet, i still never confronted him. I decided to concentrate in my children, still in my own, i started paying the children's fee & buying food for the house & even, offered to pay our house rent but he refused.

My husband's attitude even became worse & toxic few days after i told him, i had started a building project even though my friends had asked me not to tell him, but i did coz, i respect him but, I was shocked one morning when he, woke me up very early at around 5 am after grumbling all through the night & asked that i start giving him half of my salary every month. I was like "I'm the one doing almost everything in this house so, why do you want half of my monthly pay. He claims that if not for him i wouldn't have gotten a job because he brought the idea & was the one that took care of my fees. This man doesn't even respect my family he in,slts them in my face & also regards to them as "low lives" just coz they didn't support him after he took this issue them. He accuse i & my family of wanting to ridicule him in public & show everyone how I'm doing better than him my own husband... So, pls people judge me & tell me where i went wrong.

Pa Cicilia! I accept that you helped sponsored my education & I'm greatful but I'm so sorry to say this that; there's absolutely, no way that, I'll ever even dream of giving you half of my salary. You've never appreciated me nor even treated me like a woman not even for once after the birth of Nadia our last daughter, i kept begging you to forgive me if I've ever done anything wrong to deserve such cold treatment but you kept saying nothing. I've tolerated so much in this marriage. I'm so sorry to say, I'm done & I'm not coming back to you. For this past few months that i left your home I've come to realize that this marriage is too t0_xic for me. I kept respecting & loving you even though all you did everyday was make me cry😭

You accuse me of not being able to give you a son as if I'm God that gives children, Well, I'm so sorry to break the news to you like this. I'm almost 6 months gone & guess what!, it's a boy but unfortunately, you're not the father. After a very long time finally, I'm experiencing true love, I'm respected & I'm being treated like a woman that i deserve. At this point, i do not care anymore. Go on ahead & keep r@nt!n on social media for all i care, distribute my pictures to all the bloggers on social media to xp0se me but believe me when i say "i do not care anymore""

27/06/2024

Lives on..