05/08/2026
An ex of mine called me months back to tell me he has built a house 👏👏
And honestly,I was genuinely happy for him because I knew how he had hustled and where he started from, 🤲🤲
But then, I noticed, this call and message didn’t come with a happy news he wanted to share with me because he felt I deserved to know, but because he wanted to prove a point to me ,
Which was ??? “ if only you waited for me “
This same person we broke up long before I even met with my husband, this same person I blocked on all platforms because it felt like he was monitoring me, he recently opened a new TikTok and immediately I saw he was following me, I blocked him also,
Not because we had any issues, nor we where quarreling, nor we weren’t friend at the time, but because I felt that, if I didn’t end up with you, and you’re watching me, you will end up always in pain, plus I felt it was monitoring
Get this right, all through the times we dated , we broke up more than 5time in a year 💔
This was someone I also invested so much of my own money on, thank God bank history never go out of boards, these are some of the things that happened through out the period of dating him 👇👇👇
1. During the first months of our relationship, he travelled, and for 3days straight,he didn’t call me, we had no issue prior to him traveling, when I asked why he didn’t call, in his words “ I went to greet my elder bro, if he notice am calling a girl, he won’t be happy that I am in a relationship, a university soon to be a graduate ooo, hmmm
2. This same person never for once agreed he had money, I would use my money for our upkeeps, food and so much more, but one day, his phone was unlocked, it was a thank you message from his WhatsApp, immediately I gained interest and opened it, guess what I saw ?? This same boy that has never agreed he had money, has been sending 100k, 50k and more to his brothers wife, to take care of their children, not like his brother was dead o, he wasn’t, he was outside
