
22/09/2023
Always mark them that often and systematically ask you about the welfare and whereabouts of your loved ones, with funny questions like, how dat ur broda wen get money well-well so, he dey even dey help una? what of dat ur brother wen dey so-so and so state, he don marry? enhenn that reminds me, that ur uncle wen bin dey pay ur school fees for school dat year, him wife don born? becos I remember wen u bin dey tell me dat time say dem don dey marry for over 13 years now, he wife don born? How u take dey manage ur wife sef, bcos na so-so complain u dey complain about her oo, how una two take dey cope?
These are direct and very private questions that shouldn't be asked by any friend or neighbor, except you're led or have the feeling of saying something about them to the right persons at the right time.
When the bible said in Micah 7:6 that "a man's enemy are the members of his household", that does not necessarily mean that direct oppositions of family attacks are from families, but it could be from a member of the family disclosing vital informations of a particular family member to an enemy who is posing as a friend to that member unknowingly to the discloser. That alone can cause rancor and unrest in a way.
You may be termed a household enemy, if you don't protect your family members from evil predators, most especially when it is in your will to do that. So, often time, be on your guard to speak about your love ones to people especially when your mind and soul is asking you to keep quiet for a while before speaking.
If e dey always do u to talk anytime you're asked without restraint, e fit be like say na village pipo dey run the talking through you on your behalf without your notice. Lolsss.
Providing sacred and private informations about family members and that of very strategic people in your life to the wrong people around may sprout hate. And that alone may aid their method of striking at any given opportunity.
In all your engagements, always put and protect family first because living and existing is like politics and it is all about interest!