20/08/2025
HEALTHY BOUNDARIES EVERY RELATIONSHIP NEEDS
With time, love without boundaries turn into control, disrespect and war zone. The fact is that a number of relationships fail because wrongly, people confuse love with lack of boundaries which in turn give room for unnecessary external influences.
Let me give you some proven boundaries every couple should set and observe to ensure that your relationship thrives.
1. EMOTIONAL BOUNDARIES
Learn to talk to your spouse without anger and insults, don't weaponize silent treatment, avoid digging up past mistakes every time you argue
2.COMMUNICATION BOUNDARIES
Every couple should know which topics that can be discussed or not discussed, how often do you hold deep conversations, what tone is acceptable, which is not acceptable during arguments
3 PRIVACY BOUNDARIES
Being in a marriage doesn't mean you should totally lose your individuality. For the sanity and health of the Marriage, your partners phone should not be treated as if it is a public phone, your partner sometimes deserves a personal me-time, it is not every secret of your past that can be revealed or discussed,
4 FINANCIAL BOUNDARIES
Clearly set financial boundaries because money is one of the major causes of marriage breakups. Be clear on who pays which bills, don't borrow on the family without your partner knowing about it. Also avoid comparing financial contributions, rather focus on teamwork.
5.SEXUAL BOUNDARIES
Even in marriage, consent is essential. Don't force it when the other partner is clearly not in the mood, discuss about Likes, dislikes and limits, respect when one partner needs space.
S*x is a good thing, it is better enjoyed when both parties prepare for it, ready and in the mood.
A healthy sexual boundary builds trust, respect and deep intimacy.
PLEASE NOTE
Boundaries in a relationship is not like a wall, if set rightly, they serve as safety nets to keep arguments, conflicts and misunderstandings at bay. They also do not allow unnecessary external influences which may do more harms than goods in the marriage.
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