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HEALTHY BOUNDARIES YOU NEED IN A MARRIAGE RELATIONSHIP

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HEALTHY BOUNDARIES YOU SHOULD SET IN A RELATIONSHIP

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WAYS TO HANDLE DISAGREEMENTS WITHOUT DAMAGING YOUR MARRIAGE In every relationship or marriage, storms, disagreement and ...
21/08/2025

WAYS TO HANDLE DISAGREEMENTS WITHOUT DAMAGING YOUR MARRIAGE

In every relationship or marriage, storms, disagreement and misunderstandings are inevitable. Disagreement is not the problem, the real problem is how you both handle it. If a disagreement is handled with respect, maturity, open mind and real love, your relationship may actually become stronger, better after the arguments.

HERE are some conflict management skills you need to help you come out of every disagreement better, stronger.

1.LISTEN TO UNDERSTAND, NOT TO REPLY
It is noted that most relationship disagreements linger or escalate because many couples argue to defend their points instead of trying to understand their partner's perspectives or point. This usually turns the conversation to battle instead of a solution session

2.FOCUS ON THE ISSUE, NOT THE PERSON
Attacking your partner's character, weaknesses or shortcomings instead of clearly focusing on the issue of disagreement will only lead to negative response, excercibate the issue and make your partner go defensive, thus may end up closing the door to resolution.

TIPS: Learn to use statements such as "I feel hurt when...". "I feel ignored when you were on your phone when I was talking" and so on to convey your grievances.

3.CHOOSE THE RIGHT TIME AND PLACE
Rightness of timing and place matter in discussing serious marriage issues. Before tabling such issue for discussion, be sure your partner is not already stressed or tired. Also discussing such issues in public most often will lead to escalation.

TIP: If in the course of discussion, emotions run high, tactically take a break and revisit it when both of you are calmer.

4.DONT BRING UP OLD WOUNDS
Bringing up old mistakes into every disagreement is like reopening an already healed scars.This approach is capable of shifting the focus from finding solution to the current issue. It will make forgiveness difficult or outrightly impossible.

5.END YOUR CONVERSATION WITH REASSURANCE
After resolving your disagreement, always affirm to each other that your love is still solid. That disagreement is inevitable, temporary but your love for each other is long-lasting

TIP: A simple hug, hand-holding, a kiss or saying "we are still a team " can help you both feel secure again.

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21/08/2025

Good morning house. Welcome to another beautiful day. Welcome to Thursday
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HEALTHY BOUNDARIES EVERY RELATIONSHIP NEEDSWith time, love without boundaries turn into control, disrespect and war zone...
20/08/2025

HEALTHY BOUNDARIES EVERY RELATIONSHIP NEEDS

With time, love without boundaries turn into control, disrespect and war zone. The fact is that a number of relationships fail because wrongly, people confuse love with lack of boundaries which in turn give room for unnecessary external influences.

Let me give you some proven boundaries every couple should set and observe to ensure that your relationship thrives.

1. EMOTIONAL BOUNDARIES
Learn to talk to your spouse without anger and insults, don't weaponize silent treatment, avoid digging up past mistakes every time you argue

2.COMMUNICATION BOUNDARIES
Every couple should know which topics that can be discussed or not discussed, how often do you hold deep conversations, what tone is acceptable, which is not acceptable during arguments

3 PRIVACY BOUNDARIES
Being in a marriage doesn't mean you should totally lose your individuality. For the sanity and health of the Marriage, your partners phone should not be treated as if it is a public phone, your partner sometimes deserves a personal me-time, it is not every secret of your past that can be revealed or discussed,

4 FINANCIAL BOUNDARIES
Clearly set financial boundaries because money is one of the major causes of marriage breakups. Be clear on who pays which bills, don't borrow on the family without your partner knowing about it. Also avoid comparing financial contributions, rather focus on teamwork.

5.SEXUAL BOUNDARIES
Even in marriage, consent is essential. Don't force it when the other partner is clearly not in the mood, discuss about Likes, dislikes and limits, respect when one partner needs space.

S*x is a good thing, it is better enjoyed when both parties prepare for it, ready and in the mood.

A healthy sexual boundary builds trust, respect and deep intimacy.

PLEASE NOTE
Boundaries in a relationship is not like a wall, if set rightly, they serve as safety nets to keep arguments, conflicts and misunderstandings at bay. They also do not allow unnecessary external influences which may do more harms than goods in the marriage.

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20/08/2025

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