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π‘π§ 15 Unbreakable Self-Development Techniques I Share with My Mentees
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#1. Change Your Mindset: taimako na farko da za ka yi wa kanka shi ne canja salon tunaninka daga gurbatacce/mummuna zuwa ga kyakkyawa.
#2. Declare Your Passion and Goal: ka fada wa zuciyarka asalin kudirinka: me kake son cimmawa, me kake son zama, me kake son yi?
#3. Think Outside the Box: ka fadada tunaninka fiye da yadda ake ganinka, ko kake ganin kanka a yanzu. Idan an koya maka 1+1=2, to dole ka koya wa kanka 2+2=4.
#4. Wipe Away Your Hindrances: duk wani abu da zai kawo wa cikar kudirinka cikas, ka share shi a rayuwarka. Misali, kallace-kallacen shirme, biye wa soyayya, shan shagali, kalubale, da sauransu, ka yakice su daga jikinka.
#5. Be Ready to Make Sacrifices: duk abun da kake nema a duniya, dole sai ka sadaukar da wani abu kafin ka same shi. Don haka ka shirya sadaukar da misali, lokacinka, jindadinka, karfinka, ko basirarka don cikar burinka. Aljanna ma sai an sadaukar da wasu abubuwa ake samunta.
#6. Get Ready for a Long Run: ka shirya yaki mai dogon zango, ba sha-yanzu-magani-yanzu ba. Ka cire gaggawa a ranka, ka yi aiki tukuru na tsawon lokaci, don an ce ingantacciyar nasara tana daukar lokaci.
#7. Prioritize Your Values: a cikin darajojinka da abubuwan da kake yi, wadanne ka ba wa fifiko? Kallace-kallace a TikTok, musun ball, labarin 'yan mata, karatu, sana'a, zaman-kashe-wando da kushe 'yan siyasa, ko wanne?
#8. Have Critical Thinking to Solve Problems: ka shirya amfani da kwakwalwar da Allah Ya ba ka don ka yi solving problem. Daya daga cikin manyan darajojin da Allah Ya ba wa mutane shi ne problem-solving ability, don haka a matsayinka na namiji mai cike da buri a rai, dole za ka nemi wannan.
#9. Be Optimistic at all Cost: duk rintsi duk wuya, kada ka juya da baya da sunan sarewa. Idan duk duniya kowa zai yarda cewa ba za ka iya ba, kai kuma ka tsaya tsayin daka a kan kudirinka cewa za ka iya, kuma ka tabbatar a aikace.
#10. Don't Learn it "the Hard Way": a matsayinka na matashi, kar ka bari a bar ka cewa duniya za ta fada maka. Dan gata shi ne wanda ya nutsu ya koya "the soft way" daga manya. Wanda kuma ya yi buris da karatu da nutsarwar manya, hakika shi ne wanda zai koya "the hard way", saboda shi darasin rayuwa dole sai an koye shi.
#11. Focus on the Hard Knocks: kar ka biye wa masu bin shortcuts da saukakkar hanya wajen yin abubuwa. Ka nemi mai wahala, saboda shi ne mai high value. Kai namiji ne, ba ka bukatar a tausaya maka.
#12. Open Your Mind to Adapt to Learning: ka bude duk gabban jikinka hade da zuciyarka don ka saba da karatu da koyo. Wani masani ya ce, "If you are not learning, you are already dieying"
#13. Be Wise on Mentorship and Revere it: wani babban abu da yake cutar matasa shi ne rashin iya magana da rashin daukar mentorship da muhimmanci, da sanin muhimmancin connection. Ka koyi mu'amala da mutane, matukar kana son zama extraordinary human.
#14. Be Relentless on Your Goal: ka yarda da fadi-tashi (resilience) don cimma burinka. Ka kasance mai dagiwa da tsantsar naci a kan abunka. Kar ka damu wai an taimake ka ko a'a, babu wanda zai yi maka, dole kai za ka yi wa kanka.
#15. Respect Your Time Because it is Limited: Steve Jobs ya ce, "Your time is limited, so don't waste it on someone's else's life."
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βοΈ Muhammad Auwal Ahmad
Chief Executive Officer,
Flowdiary
6th March 2025
