09/11/2024
Marriage, if done right, can change your life for good in all ramification. I know people are not what they seem, but if you get a good spouse, marriage can improve your life and even lift you out of poverty.
A childhood friend from kanke who went to the different primary school as she managed to finish College thanks to the support of donations and scholarships from her village in kanke. She was physically attractive and intelligent but had limited resources to dream bigger than her #12,000 naira job at secondary School as PTA staff a few years ago.
Shortly before she got married, her husband insisted she must enrol for her DE at fce pankshin within one year of their marriage, and they wouldn't have a baby till she earned her certification. With her husband's resources and determination for excellence, she passed graduated last year and moved to Abuja to join her husband and got a better-paying job. Her husband got her a car immediately after she started work to avoid the stress of jumping buses.
Could she have done this as a single lady? Yes, 100%. People do it every day.
Here, I am trying to talk to those who may be tired of their relationships or think no good man or woman is still out there for them.
If you fall in love with a kind partner who also falls in love with you and has resources to support your dreams, the sky is the starting point to fulfilling your personal and career goals.
Marriage changes life for good, for both men and women.
There will always be bad tales no doubt, but I hope you find a kind and supportive spouse. And I hope you are a kind and supportive spouse as well.
Take your time to find out what you want from life. Try to get clarity on what they are and find your love interest after doing that. If you don't have clarity, every minor issue will throw you around and make you think nothing is working for you.
Ground yourself with solid personal principles, and don't let what you read online deceive you, including what I write .