Ncas

10/02/2025

Don't start without the desire to be consistent.

11/11/2024

Dog fam, how far?

01/11/2024

This month, the Lord will do you well and your household. Happy Glorious new month.

29/10/2024

You're loved by me.

22/10/2024

May your future not be cruised. Stay on guard.

11/10/2024

Believe in Jesus

08/10/2024

Don't lie today. You won't die

24/09/2024

Believe in yourself first, if not no would believe in you.

30/07/2024

Nothing works on it own.
Even if you have everything financially and beautifully figured out and you have a bad attitude, your relationship won't work.

If you do not intentionally and persistently work on your bad attitude, your relationship with people or your partner will definitely fail or keep having one problem or the other.

Nothing works without a force greater that the static force to cause it into changing the result. You can pray and fast, but if you do not work in line to changing, your prayers and fasting will just waste.

The prayer and fasting will perfect the process, that's in your time of weakness, you'll have renewed strength to move into excellence.

Wake up and do something different. Do not do the usual and easy thing. Be intentional and getting better results. You're made for more, explore Righteously the gifts of God upon yourself and thereby impacting your world.

I love you and may you find this encouraging.

I am Ncas
I am Relationship Insight
I am Moses Hayab

29/05/2024

Valid

Kindly Listen!

We have come up with the idea that greeting is not necessary.

Clearly, greeting have different representations . In English Languages good wishes are used in the form of greeting.

In my dialect, Hyam, greeting are used to find out your state of being (Ngu shwak cet=Hope you woke up well), and so on.

While the Hausa language has similar interpretation with my Hyam dialect. "An Kwana lafiya? (hope you slept well).

Greeting is intended to find out how you're fairing thereby creating a sense of concern for one another.

To Africans, we also consider greeting as a show of respect. Better still, greeting is used to identify if a child is respectful or not. It shows you acknowledge authority.

Africa is intentional about discipline; therefore, greeting is one of the approaches or strategies to instill discipline amongst her people.

As long as you an African, it is epidient you abide the rules provided it doesn't go against your faith. It simply shows you're sensible and desire good relationship with people.

If you are a good scholar of the Bible, you can tell that the African culture has about 60% similarity with the Bible culture.

Greeting is a symbol of respect for Africans and it is a fantastic idea to instill respect and discipline amongst Africans.

Thank you for reading.

Relationship Insight
Moses Hayab
Ncas

24/07/2023

The question should be, should parents interfere in your choice of life partner?

I know, most of us would be quick to say a capital "NO".

Okay "NO" it is. It is our life partners not our parents life partners. It becomes like Nigerian God fatherism politics; where your God father determines your next moves or makes decisions for you.

Yes, your parents played a vital role to your existence and survival on earth and no one would ever take this place.

The reality is that your parents do not know what's best for you. They would only make best suggestions from experience, but it may not work for you.

You know thyself and you should be able to phantom what's best for you from who you're and considering their suggestions.

Your parents are only your advisor and they are limited to advise you based how much they know and their experiences. There's no way your life experience is similar to that of your parents. Your personality and desires may not be the same.

Humans are spirit beings and it is only your spirit and God can conclusively tell who you truly are. What people say about you or suggest would be best for you based on assumptions and their personal experiences.

In a situation where your parents refuse your partner does not imply your partner is a bad idea.

You must have been convinced in your heart before bringing your partner to your parents. If their arguments does not have any physical conviction, this is what to do:

1. Do not consider your parent as enemies to your progress and begin to have grudges against them.

2. Engage in prayer with your partner for God to work things out for good. You must do this prayer earnestly as long as you both desire each other.
Note: I find it unnecessary for your parents to choose a life partner for you. This would prevent blame issues.

3. You must engage your parents in a healthy conversation into persuading them to liken your partner.

4. If your parents do not change their minds without giving you any evidential facts, you should involve your spiritual father in this. Your spiritual father should reconcile the situation.

5. Marriage is a journey of faith and before you engage your partner, it is expedient both of you take a good time into prayers and fasting. You need God's consent first. If God guarantees your union, then you're good to go.

6. Lastly, even if everyone agrees with you guys, you would need God's final consent. Marriage is God's institution. He must be aware about it. This requires a number of days of fasting and prayers. Don't take this lightly. Seeking God before Venturing into marriage is the most paramount.

May you find this helpful.

Thank you for reading!
Moses Hayab
Relationship Insight
Ncas

22/07/2023

Marriage is never a joke.
Marriage is God's ordained institution. You'll always need God's guidance.

You must not marry If you don't have the willingness and intentions of ensuring a healthy home.

Marriage is a platform of regeneration of your kind and offsprings. If you are not willing to organize yourself before marriage, you will be doing a generation great ham.

Let it not be that you're responsible for the struggling and suffering of a generation. It won't be nice at all.

Prepare your mind and be aware that marriage is a Journey of faith and collective effort towards achieving exceptional goals.

May this charge you up to prepare your mind, body and soul before marriage.

Enjoy your weekend.

Thank you for reading!

Relationship Insight
Moses Hayab
Ncas