Estie

23/11/2025

When you think there's very little you can do, advocate and support a noble cause. It is also fulfilling.
Happy Sunday y'all.

22/04/2025

What manner of sarcasm???
I a wedding recently and observed that a group of elderly women had taken over the seats meant for the bridal train. I was wondering what it is with old women desiring to sit behind the bride(for what now?). I had seen this same thing play out in particular churches and have always wondered why even the ushers are unable to tell them to sit at their assigned seats.
Then I walked up to a women fellowship member I thought would be helpful. After exchanging pleasantries in Hausa, I asked if she could speak to an usher to arrange for the women to move because it was not the fault of the bridesmaids,they had to be picked from wherever they were accommodated( pls note that the bride came from a different state). The woman looked at me and said "Ki bi nan ki je baya ki gaya ma pastor". What? Pastor was on the altar speaking o. I looked at her,smiled and said " I am not a member of your church, I just wanted to correct something. But I tell you,that's not nice. She immediately began to apologise ,and I said "no problem".
Eventually the bridesmaids got to sit one row behind these old women who had taken their place and were even part of the women fellowship choir.
While I was reflecting on the response I got,I said "wow,,I don really change o. She for collect full dose of my kind of sarcasm that she'll not forget in a hurry. Maybe because it was in church the Holy spirit stopped me from giving the right reply. 🤣🤣🤣

But çome o,who will tell these women that the camera needs to capture the beautiful and gorgeous bridal train behind the bride? And for those of you who talk anyhow? Watch it,because where your own ends is the starting point for another person. If I had said what I had in mind which made me smile,wallahi she would have left the church🤣🤣. We call it Sarca...we no learn am. If you know ,you know.

11/04/2025

Oh Happy day...

28/03/2025

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12/03/2025

Good day, everyone! 😊 I'm curious about how a woman can crossdress, create skits, and earn income from it. I’m considering exploring this as an additional income stream, and it seems like an untapped area.

Men have comfortably taken over this field, crossdressing and making money while doing it 💰. Our lives must be quite interesting, yet we might not even realize it. Why do we find men who imitate us entertaining, while our attempts to mimic them aren’t seen as funny? Is it simply unoriginal?

Look at all the male creators who dress and act like women in their skits—they have large followings and earn significant income 💖.

What is it about these men that makes them successful? It's time for us to return the compliment. I want to create skits, too! 🎭
Who's in?😜

09/03/2025

Kai, why is the sun always hot and scorching during lent? Is it part of the experience? I beg o

23/02/2025

Hmmm,this spousal violence no be here o. In church this morning during the prayer of the faithful, I thought I heard a point on women going through some forms of violence,I whispered to my husband " what about the men going through same?",because I know of a well respected man who was constantly battered by his wife. It was so bad that the church got tired of their matter and the man was advised to do what he thought was right. He moved out, and that was it.
We don't hear a lot of such gist because the men feel its embarrassing to be the one at the receiving end.
My brother if you cannot speak out and seek help,run for your life. I don't even understand how those who maltreat or beat up their spouses claim to love them,how? That thing that sends the love signal has been switched off ai. Ya mutu!
Some years ago my husband and I attended the remembrance service of a family friend's father. That family friend was already elderly and unmarried. He was the one celebrating the father,so the presiding Pastor invited him out for special prayers that would enable him settle down quickly because his younger ones already had grown up children.
When the man got to the front,the pastor invited married men to join in the prayer. Before they could get up,he added." Only those who have never laid their hands on their wives!". Ooomoh, only few made it to the altar o. I opened my eyes to see those who passed the test🤣🤣🤣most of the men sat down. Honestly,I was shocked to my bones.
On our way back,I kept asking my husband,"so Mr. ...beats his wife? Hon. ...dey touch im own too😳😳. Na wa o,and everyone does not look it.
Guys how do you beat or mistreat your spouse and desire conjugal rights? Wallahi your head no correct! I have said so.
I hear some buy two koboko,one for the children and the bigger one for the wife😳.
Make una go check una heads o,crase fit dey there fa. Toh.
Happy Sunday folks😜

19/02/2025

Pls stop it! "You just dey fat"! I have been on the big side since I realized myself. If I start to lose weight,you'll change to,"you just dey lean dey go" and I know that it would not be good. Pls when you see me,let's just greet,gist about what we've been up to. I have more to me than an aging fat body. You don't know my struggles. I no vex o,I just dey ventilate what has been normalized. The world is more beautiful with all sorts😀. Peace✌🏻😜