07/10/2025
"My child's father abandoned me when I was pregnant. He left for Canada. I wasn't even aware he traveled abroad until after 3 months of his disappearance.
I was only 2 months gone at that time. My parents took care of me & i finally, I gave birth to my daughter here without him. 4 years later, he showed up from nowhere, pleading to be part of our daughter's life. I was initially reluctant, i was hu-rt by his abandonment. However, after repeated pleas from him, friends & both our families intervened & pleaded on his behalf. And Later, he bought me a car & new cloths for me & our daughter, then i had a soft spot & decided to forgive him.
2 Weeks later, he asked to take our baby to his house for the holidays. i was seriously hesitant, since he is married. I was prioritizing my child's safety & well-being. My instincts wouldn't allow me accept his request. After continued persuasion from him. I reluctantly agreed to let her spend a week at his place with him & his wife.
Even after he had assured me that i should completely trust him 100% that he was going to take good care of our daughter, my instincts continued to trouble me so, I frequently checked in on my child over the phone. At some point, I almost went to bring her back. But some friends reassured me to relax, but my instincts persisted. I was so uncomfortable
2 days later, I received a shocking & heartbreaking call at work that my daughter was no more. She wasn't ill, just nothing, i couldn't believe my ears. The news was unbearable 😭😭: she had allegedly been r"e''p & ke'ed. What I was told by her dad & Stepmom whom where supposed to look after her was, 'she had left the house to buy sweets at the vendor in the neighborhood & didn't return on time 😭
I've asked countlessly who will give my child of 4 years old money to walk down the neighborhood or streets & buy herself sweets instead of buying it for her but I'm not getting any tangible answers to my questions. I was told she took money from the table kept by her dad & left to buy sweet without their knowledge. I'm confused cuz all these years that I've been with my child she's not the type that takes money or anything kept by someone else without permission. I keep money on the table & on the bed cupboard all the time but she has never touched my money, why only now. I'm so confused & don't even know what to believe 😭😭
😭😭I blame myself. i've failed my child. I've failed to protect my child. My baby didn't deserve this 😭😭 Lydia was just 4 years old. How i wish i had listened to my instincts. She would have still been here with me 😭😭
Farewell my little angel. Mommy misses you so much. Forgive Mommy for failing to protect you, sweetheart. I'm so sorry. 😭 😭"
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