Relationship nuggets

16/06/2026

I was barren for three years because my mother-in-law had the remote control to my womb. We’d been married for three years without a child. My mother-in-law lived with us. She had been living with my husband before I moved in.

There were days my mother-in-law would come and knock on our door and ask my husband questions. I thought it was a coincidence because anytime she knocked on the door, my husband and I were about to get intimate. She would knock, talk for a few seconds or minutes, and right after that, my husband would go flaccid, never to get his mojo back until days or even weeks later.

This went on for a long time, until one day, my husband’s elder sister told me, “If you keep living with my mother, you’ll never have a child. Rent your own place and take your husband along. Your husband won’t agree. It’s part of the plot, but you have to do it…”👇🏾👇🏾

16/06/2026

7 Questions Every Couple Should Discuss Before Commitment.

"Love may bring two people together, but honest conversations are what help them stay together."

Many relationships don't end because there was no love. They end because important conversations were avoided until it was too late. Before making a serious commitment, every couple should sit down and talk about the things that truly matter.

1. What are our expectations for marriage and family?

Don't assume you're both on the same page. Discuss your vision for marriage, children, parenting styles, and the kind of home you want to build together.

2. How do we handle money?

Financial disagreements are one of the biggest causes of relationship stress. Talk openly about spending habits, savings, debts, and financial goals.

3. How do we resolve conflicts?

Every couple will disagree. The real question is whether you solve problems as a team or turn them into battles.

4. What role will faith and values play in our relationship?

Shared values often matter more than shared hobbies. Discuss your beliefs, convictions, and the principles that will guide your decisions.

5. What are our career and life goals?

A relationship becomes difficult when two people are moving in opposite directions. Talk about your dreams, ambitions, and future plans.

6. How do we define loyalty and boundaries?

What one person sees as harmless, another may see as disrespectful. Clarify expectations about friendships, social media, communication, and commitment.

7. Are we willing to grow together through difficult seasons?

Life will not always be easy. Ask yourselves if you're prepared to support each other during financial struggles, health challenges, disappointments, and unexpected changes.

Commitment should never be based on feelings alone. Feelings can change, but understanding, communication, and shared values create a stronger foundation. As the Bible says, "Can two walk together, except they be agreed?" (Amos 3:3).

Before you say "yes" to forever, make sure you've had the conversations that prepare you for it.


Which of these questions do you think most couples avoid discussing until it's too late? 👇❤️

15/06/2026

15/06/2026

If that relationship takes you away from God, then it's not love.

15/06/2026

Having a partner who prays for you and prays with you can be a beautiful source of support in a relationship. It means you’re not only sharing life’s joys and challenges together, but also bringing them before God together.

14/06/2026

14/06/2026

Why some men become emotionally distance in a relationship.

13/06/2026

13/06/2026

3 Habits that kills attraction over time.

12/06/2026

WHY YOU SHOULD DELETE YOUR EX'S CONTACT