Ada Okeke

02/08/2025

Read this before you sleep📌📌📌📌

When I see men complaining about their talking wives, I use to smile within me.

Dear men, it is better to have a parrot wife than a silent wife.

And this also goes to wømen. Run away from a man or woman who no matter what you do, he won't talk about it. These category of human are very brutal and de@dly. They are dangerous timed b0mbs.

These type of humans do not forgive neither do they forget, you see all those things you do, they keep record of everything waiting for the right time to strike hard. If you survive it, thank God, but most times, their partners don't survive their venomous bite.

Be careful what you wish for.

Allow her talk, leave him to express his hurt hence he's not raising his hands on you. Stop shutting them up. As an adult you should know when you are wrong, just calm down and allow him/her sing out his/her grieveances. Talking woman or man is easily forgiving. Once they let their hurts out, it's gone and forgotten. You are very safe around them. They don't have wucked hearts.

Before they can hurt you, you will first make them silent. And while silent, alot is being bottled up. Don't hurt a talking wife or husband to the point of them going silent on you, they will become dangerous at this point.

Wisdom is profitable to direct you📌

I am going somewhere...

02/08/2025

After the realities of life unfold before my eyes, after gathering so many experiences from married ones, I trained myself so well to be emotionally balanced before marriage. I told myself yes I am ready mentally. I can do it now but I still have my DONTs.

After I got married, I told my husband that I can overlook anything but you see irresponsibility towards the children or be@ting that I know can cause me physical damage or even kpai me, it's a no no. Once you inflict any injury on me, I don carry my bags with our children, cos them too are not safe with you. You will be co-parenting in peace from afar. Life no get duplicate abeg.

I will just waka straight to my father in-law and tell him daddy, you see that marriage I been tell you I wan do with your son before, I no wan marry again.

My people will be returning una bride price later. Nothing concern me concern abeg for inflicting injuries on me.

Normally...I no dey like talk too much, I believe in action. If I am still standing or seated talking about something with you, it means I don't take it seriously and there's still room for forgiveness and reconciliation. When I am mean about something, I walk in silence.

Even you go confuse sef 🤣

I don't like men be@ting their wives, I can never advise anyone to walk away from her non toxic marriage, but once I hear he be@t me, otilo.

Make person come disfigure this my fine body on top marriage. No ooooo.

So if you a wife be@ter, just know that I will advise your wife to leave you and your marriage.

I am going somewhere...

02/08/2025

My gender my gender. Women are always the saint. We are so perfect🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 They can never disappoint.

01/08/2025

I detest men that are pushovers, no matter how small or broke you are, be a man and still command respect. Na small you small, you kee person. Why would you be behaving like a puppet in your own house just bcos money comot for your hand?

If my husband is a mumu man I can tune anyhow I want, I will never marry him. If he's weak and a pushover, I will never allow him father my child. Never!!! I don't need such weak blood to produce my children.

Weak men allow untrained manipulative women to instigate them to be against every good and supportive person around them, she always wants her husband to stand alone so she can easily destroy him wherever she wants without the interference of anyone, so that when she finally decides to leave, there will be no one to help him rise again.

Is this what you want for your sons? Eeh umu nwanyi women supporting women?

This is why our forefathers are wiser, once they sense that dubious character in you, they will replace you with another wife uninformed to break your wings.

Our forefathers were never weak men like all these baby men of today that have allowed religion to destroy their senses and render them weak both physically and spiritually.

I am going somewhere...

01/08/2025

Lagos Is A Yoruba Land, Not A No Man’s Land – Yul Edochie
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Famous Nollywood actor, Yul Edochie, has said it is wrong to say Lagos is a no man’s land, as it is a Yoruba land and they have been accommodating.

He made this known on Saturday via his Instagram page, adding that it was a known fact that Igbos have also contributed to the state.

“I've lived in Lagos since 2011. Built my house in Lagos.

“Not once have I experienced any form of hate or rejection from the Yorubas.

“Anytime Yoruba boys see me on the street, they gather to greet me, and it's all love always. And this talk flying around that Lagos is a no man's land is wrong.

“Lagos is a Yoruba state in Yoruba land. Imagine someone saying that Anambra is a no man land, That’s crap. Anambra is an Igbo land. You can't come into someones land and tell the person its now a no man land na you dey find trouble.

“Nobody can deny the fact that the Igbos have contributed immensely to the development of Lagos. Other tribes have contributed in their own ways too. And the Yoruba’s have been largely accommodating as well. It shouldn’t take away the fact that Lagos is a Yoruba land. We no dey drag ownership. Let's kill tribalism before it kills us,” he wrote.

Credit: Instagram | yuledochie

01/08/2025

01/08/2025

I used to be a very emotional person, na who first cry first be v!ctim and I don cry follow put, I never knew someone can be crying hurtfully and still be telling lies untill REALITY started unfolding before my very eyes. Men dey lie, women dey lie too.

But the thing is, when a man wants to bite or mean you as his wife, the signs are always there, they are always loud with their actions that you can easily notice and take a walk, unless na you chose to turn a blind eye.

But if a woman mean you as a weak man, she will so deal with you silently without traces, render you useless, turn the children against you, kpai you and still come out clean as the v!ctim. That's how manipulative my gender can be. We can never take blames.

And funny enough, our crooked society will always try to defend us and blame the men.

I am a woman and I should be conscious about my gender with this type of dubious character cos I have brothers and sons to protect their interests too.

I don't need story that touches around my son....and this is why I keep emphasizing that I will never raise a weak man, I need them to know their onions, and know when to say enough is enough, and stand their ground. Make wetin wan happen happen.

I am going somewhere...

01/08/2025

When I was single and advocating for men, many people think I was doing that then cos I want men to come rushing at me, without knowing where I was coming from even with all the family challenges, we don't pray to get married, na husband dey rush us, na me deliberately decided to marry late with some personal reasons I even consider as ignorance now.

I am not a sentimental woman📌

I advocate for both genders and still blast the both genders, but I put more weight on my gender cos I understand us more perfectly well.

So I didn't just start advocating for men cos of Yul Edochie or because I am now married. I have been like this way way back cos I like to balance my stand, reason I have both men and women enjoying my posts then.

I just sometimes overlook my gender as per women supporting women, but the truth of the matter is that my gender is doing too much cos of this equality nonsense they are copying from all these enemies of marriage with their 100k account balance, and also because the society easily falls for our tears.

To be continued...

I am going somewhere...

01/08/2025

This is what I am talking about. The level these manipulative women can go just to nail someone's son into becoming their ATM or have bag. God, I forbid them for my sons o. I pity who's protecting some of these my ev!l gender that have no conscience and still want to form v!ctims when their wucked plan is bursted.

01/08/2025

Dear Louisa Ajah, I agree to your prayers, if my daughters in any way do not value their husbands or go there and be doing gragra with them onto say their parts no dey market, women who value their husbands will take them away from them. And if their husbands do not take good care of them, I will personally bring them back myself and other men who value them will marry them. Life is not hard, na you bad women who wants to dominate, control and treat people's sons anyhow and still paint the black before the world when they take action, makes marriage looks horrible.

No daughter born of a woman will do that to my son. You will go back to your father's house in one peace...cos I will never raise a weak man. My son will know his onions but will be a very responsible husband and a father to his wife and children.

You can't leave your father's house to go torment someone's son in the name of marriage and expect him not to leave you or marry someone else. So train your daughters well and how to know their place and be respectful to their husbands otherwise, another woman will marry their husbands in front of their eyes.

We don't know what transpired btw Yul Edochie and his ex wife, but I speak generally via my own personal experiences, in as much as some men are demøns, but never pray for your sons to cross paths with wucked manipulative women.

Those who are villains indoors, they will continue to bite you so hard that even your own family will not believe you when you explain yourself to them due to their level of manipulative character, and when you finally take an action, they come out and turn themselves into vict!ms.

So your wish for my daughters will be also going back to your daughters if you fail to raise respectful daughters who don't drag heads with their husbands.

And if you are in anyway supporting men in kpaing in the hands of bad wives, then to your sons, may they all kpai in bad marriages since you love men staying where they don't find peace anymore.

I am going somewhere...

31/07/2025

If you like as a married woman, don't let these ones inspire you, continue following these enemies of marriage who will help you scatter your marriage so that you will become fru$trated and street meat for every abrokos like them.

This is to show you can be married and still successfully live a baby girl's lifestyle in you marriage irrespective of having an imperfect husband.

Check out their husbands, very young and handsome. The truth is that when you marry your spec that's kind, you will glow differently.

Did they marry them rich or perfect....nah, they all built together and that's why they flex the money unapologetically. And if at all any of this marriage collapse tomorrow, they will all happily move on cos they all enjoyed and benefited from the marriage. They will never end up fru$trated and bitter.

Na pretense dey make so many women end up bitter after breakup. Cos while in marriage, they refused to live their lives just to appear good for everyone to like and say good about them.

Stop looking for a perfect man or trying to be a perfect wife, marry a kind man and also be a kind woman. Be real....

Congratulations beautiful ladies....this is the kind of successful martial life we all pray for🙏🏼

Money + Cute husband + Beautiful children = Beautiful Family❤️🙌🏼

I am going somewhere...

31/07/2025

Congratulations to 2baba Idibia as he officially wedded his new wife Anita. Whether this one holds or crashes, and he still wants to marry again, another beautiful woman will still marry him.

This is where men are on a very high advantage than women. They can divorce today and another beautiful woman is readily available to marry them tomorrow. This is why competing with them as a woman is like setting yourself up for emotional damage. Men will always be on higher advantage. You can continue to live in denial, but it is what it is.

I am going somewhere...