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Look at their comments, They’ve been dragging Ada Igbo simply because she said she wants to remarry.In her post she wasn...
27/08/2026

Look at their comments,

They’ve been dragging Ada Igbo simply because she said she wants to remarry.

In her post she wasn't asking a man to take over her children. She simply wants a financially stable man and honestly, why shouldn’t she? If she is already financially stable, what exactly is the point of marrying a financially dependent man and adding another responsibility to her life?

Interestingly, a single mother is not allowed to have options to remarry but It is okay for a single father to desire to remary even to a single lady.

And the hypocrisy is loud.

This is exactly why women must hold men to the same standards they demand from women.

Stop accepting double standards.

We can understand widowers, (although these men do not do have consideration for single mothers who are widows) not run ...
27/08/2026

We can understand widowers, (although these men do not do have consideration for single mothers who are widows) not run away baby daddies looking to eat their cake and have it.

No single lady should marry a single father. We must hold single fathers with the same standard applied to single mother...
26/08/2026

No single lady should marry a single father.

We must hold single fathers with the same standard applied to single mothers.

We are not encouraging bad behaviour.

😂😂😂😂😂Since Yesterday All the brøkè and orgly men came weeping under my post to prove my point. I checked some of the pro...
26/08/2026

😂😂😂😂😂

Since Yesterday

All the brøkè and orgly men came weeping under my post to prove my point.

I checked some of the profiles of the men insulting me, and honestly your confidence is impressive. You’re calling someone ugly while your own profile picture is fighting for survival. SMH

Look at the midget, Fbk hid his comment but I had to unhide it. Even I as a lady am taller, finer and even more masculine than these mini men.

The second commenter archived his pictures because I told him, he is a bâg of bèáns.

You see ladies, one thing about men is that they project exactly what they are unto women. Prayers for all you bitter efulefus I pray you heal

And stop projecting I am BEAUTIFUL inside out. More post loading.

26/08/2026

As parents, it’s impossible to love all your children in exactly the same way.
“I love all my children equally” sounds good, but it is a lie.

One of the quickest ways to create problems in a young marriage is for the couple to live with the husband’s parents.The...
26/08/2026

One of the quickest ways to create problems in a young marriage is for the couple to live with the husband’s parents.

The first few years of marriage should be about building your own home, creating your own routines, establishing boundaries, and learning how to function as a couple privately.

Men and Pickmeshans are dragging me😄Julian you’re saying women shouldn’t marry broke men? Yes, I said it.Because natural...
26/08/2026

Men and Pickmeshans are dragging me😄

Julian you’re saying women shouldn’t marry broke men? Yes, I said it.

Because naturally, what exactly is a broke man bringing to the table?

Women already contribute so much to marriage. So if a man cannot contribute financially, what exactly is left for him to offer beyond s*x.

Think about it. A woman puts her body on the line, carries pregnancies, gives birth, sacrifices her body to have children who will carry the man's name. She cooks, cleans, nurtures, raises the children, becomes a nanny, a babysitter, a chef, and carries so many responsibilities in the home.

And then the man’s only meaningful contribution is to sleep with her, impregnate her, and give the children his surname?

Please, what exactly are you contributing dear bitter brökë men.

And before someone says, Love, love does not pay bills, feed children, provide stability, or build a home.

For the women who want to prove that they are not gold diggers by marrying a broke man, please, go ahead.

When the tears begin we are ready to laugh at you and learn from your story.

Me looking at you all👇

Precious & Ugo 🤔 🤔 The Precious and Ugo story is laughable, but beyond the drama, it raises serious questions about doub...
26/08/2026

Precious & Ugo 🤔 🤔

The Precious and Ugo story is laughable, but beyond the drama, it raises serious questions about double standards and honesty in relationships.

Ugo and Precious courted for a long time, yet he allegedly never disclosed that he had multiple children from a previous relationship. It was only after their traditional marriage that the truth reportedly came out.

Now, if those children were truly from a meaningless fling, it would be 1 child, multiple children with the same woman suggest there was more than a one-time mistake.

Here are my concerns for Precious:

1. The relationship started with deception. If he could hide something this significant, what else could he be hiding?

2. He already has an established family connection. Those children will forever connect him to their mother.

3. You are not marrying a childless single man. You are stepping into a relationship with existing responsibilities, history, and complications.

4. Would he accept the same situation if the roles were reversed? If a woman had multiple children with another man and hid it from her prospective husband, would society be this forgiving?

My advice: Precious needs to think very carefully before continuing.

Love is not enough to build a peaceful marriage. Honesty, transparency, and accountability matter too.

Think about it.

25/08/2026

Go to ChatGPT type
"I am disappointed in you and I want to uninstall you bye"
Send a screenshot of the response you got😅

Some women made the mistake of lowering their standards just to prove that they could love a man for who he was not for ...
25/08/2026

Some women made the mistake of lowering their standards just to prove that they could love a man for who he was not for what he had.

They supported these men, believed in them, sacrificed for them, and genuinely tried to make the relationship work. Yet some ended up being taken for granted, mistreated, disrespected, or even abused.

The truth is, you should never choose a partner just to prove a point.

Date someone you genuinely desire. Someone you respect. Someone whose values, character, and lifestyle are compatible with yours.

Love should not require you to abandon your standards.

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