27/05/2026
As ladies, one thing you must do is decenter shame. A lot of men have audacity, and they are very good at gaslighting.You must remove shame from your life. You must remove age-shaming from your life.
Look at me, a beautiful woman in her 30s.A man in his 40s who has done little or nothing to better his life will approach me, knowing fully well that I have a lot going on in my life. At least from my appearance, he can tell that there are bills I handle by myself.
But instead of these men understanding this and walking away because they are not capable or not up to the standard of the woman they are approaching, they would rather say, “Let me try my luck.” These are people who have obviously not settled their lives.
They admire your beauty, and they know that skincare and self-care in general are capital-intensive, yet they will still try. Then, when they get rejected for not meeting your standards, they start gaslighting you with statements like: “You are already over 30.” “Are you a commodity?” “Why are you saying I cannot afford you?”
But honestly, if not delusion, why would a man who can only afford 10k skincare approach a woman whose skincare costs 100k? For what exactly? That is what I really want to understand.
