Pajay Haykins

09/02/2026

When the discussion of Nepo Baby was hot on social media, I saw a tweet about a guy who shared his first time experience of being in a hotel where they use cards to open their doors.

Due to his level of exposure at the time, he was unable to open it until he had to go call his friend to help him out.

Someone quoted the tweet and explained how reading fiction exposed him to this kind of knowledge despite him coming from an average background.

Books, movies, music, etc, exposes you to a lot of things you may not be privileged to know because of your background.

PS: “An hotel” is historically correct and still considered acceptable in British English when the ‘h’ is silent. So no be say I gbagaun. 😩

08/02/2026

08/02/2026

The Yorubas say Ilesanmi dun ju oye lo. How true is that?

Do you think being rich alone is okay, you don’t need power?

I subscribed to this Yoruba adage.

However, there are some situations in life that “Money” alone can be useless, but Money, Power, and Influence will be the game changer.

If you want to effect a change or create a narrative, you need more than money.

What do you think? Let’s have this conversation in the comments department.

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08/02/2026

08/02/2026

Find a notebook to journal daily. You need to write down all those thoughts that wobble in your freaking Head for it to settle, and also to gain clarity. Journaling is a form of thinking. Journaling is a conversation between your head, mind, pen and the notebook. Or the conversation between your head, mind, keypad, and the notepad.

08/02/2026

You can't help someone who isn't willing to receive help. You can't help someone who isn't aware that he needs help. You can't force help. Know this and know peace. ✌️

08/02/2026

Start building something. You’re meant to create.

This is more than just a quote, this is reality. Start creating!

08/02/2026

I wish I could take my advice. This is me posting on 12 midnight.

Sleep is crucial. Sometimes, all you need is a quality 8 hours sleep. Sleep more. Sleep. Sleep. Sleep.

08/02/2026

This is one of the reasons why you should be mindful of what you consume. You're what you consume.

What perception are you feeding your mind?

What perception are you using to form your own narrative?