Tobias Tochukwu

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In life, we all have the right to make our own choices. But we don't have the right to decide what happens to us after m...
07/02/2025

In life, we all have the right to make our own choices. But we don't have the right to decide what happens to us after making those choices.

P.S: There's an acronym called HALT. The full meaning? H stands for Hungry, A stands for Angry, L stands for Lonely and T stands for Tired.

⚠️Warning: you should never make an important decision when you're in any of the above states; when you're hungry, angry, lonely and lastly—when you're tired.

Listen, research have proven that most decisions made in these situations are always out of desperation and always ends with regrets.

It's your choice to do whatever that pleases you with this information.

31/01/2025

Listen, if you really want to make it in life—I mean, if you're very hungry and passionate for success, then let me tell you something you better believe; success doesn't happen by miracle or luck—as in, it's something you'll have to work really hard before you can achieve it...
..and one thing you should know is that on your way to success, you're going to leave a lot of people behind (hint: they might even be people that are very special to you and I'm speaking from personal experience).

Listen, there's a stage you'll get and people you didn't offend in anyway will start attacking you directly or indirectly. And yeah! These might be people you really love and value so much. So what should you do at this point? Get tired and start complaining? Lol, the answer is capital NO.

Hello! You've got to stand up for yourself and for your future. Next? You're going to attack them back and I don't care who the heck they're or how fxcking special they're to you. Next? You're going to show them that they lied about you by succeeding earlier than they expected.

End.

30/01/2025

There's no short-cut to success and there's no such thing like luck...
..you can either keep waiting for the day miracle will happen or stand up for yourself and create your own miracle.

See, even if you can't do it for your own sake—at least, do it for the sake of your unborn kids.

Godspeed✨

The best time to ask a lady out is when she's genuinely smiling (even if your jokes are dry, especially if you're not na...
18/01/2025

The best time to ask a lady out is when she's genuinely smiling (even if your jokes are dry, especially if you're not naturally funny). Also, if she's eager to talk to you, responding quickly, bombarding you with stickers or emojis, or being flirty with her texts, then that's when her guard is down and she's most open emotionallyđź’€

Listen, In business and life, people are MOST LIKELY to buy a product, say yes, start dating, or make decisions when they're emotionally active. Look, once she starts getting logical and pulling away (maybe by responding late or ignoring your chats), then your chances of getting a "yes" drop drastically.

My point? Even if you meet a girl today, shoot your damn shot when she's GENUINELY showing those positive signs I've listed above. So, If she says yes, then she's lucky. But if she says no, then it's her loss cos you're the prize. But if you think that you're not the prize, then you're right🤷‍♂️

©Elephchild

What you're going through (especially financially) doesn't TRULY & DEEPLY concern your woman cos she won't relate most o...
18/01/2025

What you're going through (especially financially) doesn't TRULY & DEEPLY concern your woman cos she won't relate most of the time. And what if she's a good woman? Well, she'll gradually get tired at some point (because that's women's nature, especially if what you're trying to achieve is not showing progress at all.

Now, does that mean even good women can't be fully trusted? That's not my point, you silly reader. What I'm saying is: don't put yourself in a situation where you'll fully rely on your woman cos they're not wired to endure difficulties, especially when it's costing them too much.

But, if you don't agree (that's totally fine, and I'm not arguing with you), you'll grow up and learn the hard way. Plus, your personal experience will make you remember my words later and agree—when it's too late for you.

©Elephchild

SHOCKING WAYS TO KEEP HER HOOKED ON YOU:Establish Your Worth/Clear Boundaries; Listen, in relationships, it's crucial to...
03/07/2024

SHOCKING WAYS TO KEEP HER HOOKED ON YOU:

Establish Your Worth/Clear Boundaries; Listen, in relationships, it's crucial to establish and maintain healthy boundaries (especially, if your partner starts crossing these boundaries by being disrespectful. Then, t's important to address the issue immediately, even if it seems minor). Because, disrespect is not acceptable and should not be tolerated.

And, by speaking up, you're asserting your worth and preserving the health of the relationship. Next?

Understand Her Unspoken Desires; Look, while women may not always openly express their needs, they often provide subtle hints or signals that can reveal their desires.

And, as a partner, it's important to be attentive and observant to pick up on these cues, as missing them can lead to frustration and resentment.

So, by paying attention to her unspoken needs and responding accordingly, you can foster a deeper level of intimacy and understanding in your relationship. More?

Handle Her Challenges/Sh*t-test; For your information, women often test their partners' reactions to gauge their character, which can come across as a "test." And, these tests may be verbal or behavioral.

But, which ever way, it's important to remember that they are a natural part of human interaction. Plus, the best way to handle these challenges is to remain calm and confident, and either ignore them or turn the situation around in a playful manner.

And, by passing these tests, you demonstrate your strength and show that you are not easily swayed or manipulated. Another one?

Maintain Your Confidence; Let me tell you something you must believe, women are naturally drawn to men who are confident in themselves and their abilities.

So, in a relationship, it's important to maintain this sense of strength and self-assurance. Because, it can help to build and maintain a strong attraction and respect.

Infact, when you lose this sense of self, it can weaken the dynamic of the relationship and cause your partner to lose interest. Lastly?

Compliment Her Beyond the Surface/Looks: Incase you don't know, your partner deserves to be appreciated for more than just her appearance.

So, you should always compliment her elegance, skills, gentleness, and nurturing qualities, as these traits reflect deeper aspects of her character and personality. And, by appreciating her for more than her looks, you show her that you value her beyond superficial attractions, which can strengthen your relationship and deepen your connection.

Thanks for reading. And, I hope this helps.

23/05/2024

Any relationship that ends because you had a difference in opinion was never going to work. And, such endings should be celebrated.

Communication and trust are key factors in any relationship. And, If a woman does something that causes you to doubt her...
20/05/2024

Communication and trust are key factors in any relationship. And, If a woman does something that causes you to doubt her love or respect for you. Then, it can erode that trust. Although, that doesn't mean that the relationship is doomed. But, it does mean you need to have an honest conversation about the issue.

NOTE: If a woman consistently behaves in ways that undermine your confidence in her or your relationship. Then, it’s a red flag and don't ignore those signs.

Although, at the same time, it's important to remember that people make mistakes.

My point? In healthy relationships, both partners should feel like they can be themselves without fear of judgment or retaliation. Because, if you can't be yourself around your partner. Then, it's a sign that something isn't right.

P.S: Remember that relationships are not about keeping score or trying to “win”. They're about love, trust, and growth.

It’s also vital to keep in mind that love alone can't sustain a healthy relationship. Because, respect, trust, and communication are also essential.

A woman in her early 20s don't want to date guys at her age and that's cos men of higher age with value wants her...Mean...
18/05/2024

A woman in her early 20s don't want to date guys at her age and that's cos men of higher age with value wants her...

Meanwhile, if she approach her 30s when she's no longer young and attractive, she will start looking for guys in their 30s (or even below their 30s in some cases). Mind you; these are same set of guys she rejected years back.

What should you learn from these?

TIME IS CRUEL TO WOMEN WHILE NATURE IS CRUEL TO MEN.

As a gug in your 20s; you shouldn't be bothered about women at your age who are turning you down day after day.

What you should do?

âś…Focus more on investing in yourself and trust me when I say that time will come in the nearest future when those same set of women that turned you down will be coming after you and you'll have a lot of choices to make.

As a lady in your 20s; stop being rude to men cos that's when you're in your prime and you have a higher chance of making a good choice of the man to be with.

What you should do?

âś…Focus more on keeping your value as a woman and trust me when I say that you'll get the right man for you before you'll pass your prime age.

P.S: You can chose to learn now and adjust accordingly. OR, you'll learn the hard way and perish later. The choice is yours🤷‍♂️

16/05/2024

Don't sit down at a table where people are talking about others. Because, when you stand up, you're the next topic of discussion.

"The world is a dangerous place, not because of those who do evil, but because of those who look on and do nothing."

©Albert Einstein

My point? Gossip is what kills a man's credibility. And, we should deal with much more important things than talking about other people.

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