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My Neighbor's TV, Lagos (2025)

03/07/2025

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03/07/2025

My neighbor please make an anonymous post on your wall for me.

"I'm a mother of 3 & have been married for 7 years now as a house wife. I'm in so much pain. My husband is cheating on me.

My 3rd child is only a month old. Since I delivered, my husband complains about my body & everything about me. He complains about my stomach, my weight gain, & how ugly I look. Everyday i try my best to look good , do my nails , Wear make-up and put on nice cloths just to impress him but he acts like I'm invisible.

He has left me for another girl & wants us to separate. He travels to spend nights at her place and most often even chats with her in my presence, & tells me how much he wants her.

😭He has humiliated & ill-treated me to the extent where i had to involved both families, but they have all failed to hold him accountable or resolve issues.

In several occasions I've I talked to the lady, she knows about me & the children. I've begged and pleaded, at one point i got so desperate went to her place and knelt in front of her pleading for her to leave my husband but she does not care. Instead she pushed me out and asked me never to return

I love my husband so dearly, he's the only man I've known all my life, & I don't want to go our separate ways. We've been okay all along until 3 months ago.

Pls, I'm in so much pain, and my son is too small. I plan on going to see a native doctor to help me with some chãrmz if it could just help me restore my marriage,

I'm desperate and frustrated 😥😥"

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27/06/2025

I cheated on my boyfriend about six months ago. He found out through a text he saw between the guy and I.
In the text, the guy and I were discussing that we had sezz, but I was actually telling the guy that I loved my bf and that what we did was going to be our last. But you know guys, the guy was always texting me dirty, and somehow, I enjoyed it.
My guy was disappointed when he saw what I did behind him. He asked for a break up, but I begged, and he forgave me.
I swear, after my guy found out about us, I never ever entertained the guy again. I cut him off completely.
So just recently, I was talking to my guy about us doing planning for marriage since we're both in our late 20s. The text my guy sent me was, "he's already planning marriage." So I was excited and asked him why he hadn't told me anything about it yet, and his response was, "I couldn't talk to you about marriage when it's not you, I'm marrying dear."
I was hurt and shocked, so I asked him to explain further, and what he said was, he had someone he wanted to marry, so he's planning with the person. When I asked how about me, he said, "abi, you know all you want is sezz, or isn't that why you were cheating? So I can only plan sezz with you and after I marry, you can continue with your boyfriend. this is someone who said he had forgiven me. After that text, he has even stopped minding me. I've been crying so hard. I love this guy with everything in me and he did this. He'll never get anyone to love him like I do. I'm so hurt and disappointed.

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27/06/2025

I'm really d3press3d and h3artbr0ken. I am 28 years old .My fiancé whom I have been dating since 2020 did my introduction last year. Earlier this year,he asked me to raise some money for our wedding preparation, saying they are owing him 4 months salary in his place of work.

He promised to pay me back. We agreed on doing white and trad the same day in order to save cost. Then he chose July as the month of the wedding, subject to confirmation of his family. I used my money to buy drinks,bag of rice,traditional outfits and a*o ebi including other things required.

So yesterday being his birthday after I finished posting and celebrating him,I asked if he had confirmed the date of our marriage. He told me that his father has been having b@d dreams concerning our marriage hence we shouldn't get married. And also his aunt w@rned him against w0men from my place that they are too c0ntrolling and don't make good wives.

He went on to say that he is no longer going ahead with the marriage. That he can't ignore his family.
My neighbor, I couldn't believe my ears. A guy I waited for , for so long,loved with all my heart could come at this point and shattter my h3art without a rea*on. After buying everything and informing people about my upcoming wedding, pls I need advice. I don’t know what to do

25/06/2025

Good evening my neighbor, please help me share for a public suggestions. I am married to a very rich man who provides my needs,I have a very big boutique here in lekki and drives good cars" I'm living large but the only problem I've with my husband is that he womanize a lot,even to the point that I'll be the one to go for those girls,like to talk to them and each time i don't do it,there'll be problem in the house

I put to bed and my mum came for omugo,she has just stayed for a month now....Mike my husband woke me up one night and told me that he's catching feeling for my mother,i was so angry and mad at him
He told me it's better he tells me than for him to go at my back. He told me that ever since my mum came" that whenever she comes around him or pass him by that his thing do stand and won't ever go down till he leaves her presence. He said him seeing her face in the house is suducing him..so i suggested my mum should leave to avoid all that drama. But he insisted on having her if not he'll divorce me and collect everything from me....for one week i couldn't beat it,I cried my eyes out, but he came up with an ideal that we should drug her for him to pe*****te. My mum is divorced with just me,my dad is a solider that heat my mum up at any slightest thing,at a point she couldn't bear the beating and she run for her life
Ever since then she never remarried nor got herself involved in any premarital affairs,she wanted the best and that she gave me

But I got married to a dog,a man that can even lay with his own mother without feeling guilty
He's a good man and a cheerful giver,but he doesn't control his thing
And once he's through he start asking for forgiveness, crying that he doesn't know what came over him

I agreed to drug my mum just to keep my marriage. He slept with my own mother 2 rounds,when he was through I cleaned my mother up. She woke up after few hours and was complaining o

If you are in my shoe what would you have done?

24/06/2025

“They Refused to Let Me Write WAEC Because I Couldn’t Pay ₦15,000.”
10 Years Later, I Built a Free Exam Center in That Same School — And Paid for 100 Students to Write Their Exams.

I stood outside the hall.
Pen in hand.
Tears in my eyes.

Everyone else was writing.
I was not.

Because I owed ₦15,000 in school fees.

And the principal said:

> “No payment, no exam. Rules are rules.”

That day, I didn’t just miss WAEC.

I missed a piece of my childhood.

But what they didn’t know was…

I didn’t need pity.

I needed purpose.

From Rejected Student to Restorer of Dreams — The Girl They Blocked From the Exam Hall Came Back and Opened the Gate of Hope

2013. Aba, Nigeria.

My name is Amarachi.

I was the last child of a struggling family.
My father had a stroke when I was in SS1.
My mother started frying akara and selling it at bus stops.

We managed.
But by SS3, things fell apart.

When exam fees came, my name was on the “debtors’ list.”

I begged.
Even cleaned the staffroom for weeks hoping they’d have mercy.

They didn’t.

The day WAEC started, I watched my classmates enter the hall.

I stood at the window — tears falling as the invigilator said:

> “No ID card, no entry.”

I walked home in silence.

But deep inside, something sparked.

I promised myself:

> “One day, I’ll make sure no child goes through this.”

I started hawking groundnut and pure water.
Saved.
Rewrote WAEC two years later as a private candidate.
Scored high in JAMB.
Got into UNIZIK.

During holidays, I baked and sold snacks to support myself.
Graduated.
Got a tech job through a free bootcamp.
Saved every naira.

Then…

2024.

I returned to the same secondary school.
Wearing a blazer.
Holding a folder.

I met the same principal — older now, but still firm.

I smiled and said:

> “I’m here to sponsor WAEC fees for 100 students — no questions asked.”

His mouth opened.
He whispered, “Who are you?”

I answered:

> “The girl you turned away from the hall. But I turned pain into power.”

He cried.

I walked to the same classroom I once stood outside of and said to the students:

> “None of you will be left out this year. Your dreams are paid for — in full.”

Today, I run an NGO that supports underprivileged students with exam fees, school supplies, and mentorship.

Why?

Because I know how it feels to be smart… and stuck.

Talented… but trapped.

And now I use my healing to help others pass through doors I was once locked out of.

🔁 Share this if you believe no child should be denied education because of money.

⭐ Comment “I will return to fix it” if you believe your story is not over yet.

23/06/2025

"So, i dated this certain nurse for 3 years. we weren't using protection but all through those years of dating, she never missed her period, even once.

Fast forwarded to 2 years later, We had some little misunderstandings & i got into a relationship with another girl & got her pregnant. But she got hurt & later left after finding out that i had reconciled with my ex, the nurse

I and the nurse continued with our relationship, but she still wasn't getting pregnant despite that we still weren't using protection, so all this while i thought she was just being careful not to get pregnant.

Few years later, I proposed to her. But before our wedding, she was often in & out of the hospital. I was confused & didn't know why she was frequently going to the hospital. When I asked her what was wrong, she didn't tell me the truth. She covered it all up

After we got married, she opened up & told me she'd been trying to take in since I got the other girl pregnant, all to no avail. And that the doctor that she has been meeting for consultations & checkups suggested that, after the wedding, we both should come for a check-up

On her own all these while decided to keep this information all to herself, she never even for once stylishly let me know about this till now that the wedding & traditional marriage has been done.

This is more than two years down the line & the issue has persisted.

So, now I've been worried & even thinking about ending the marriage as this is not what i bargained for, she deceived me into marrying her knowing fully well she's having fertility issues but, never bothered to tell me to even hold on with the marriage & first seek solution to her problem before anything else.

Please guide & kindly advice me on this issue,
What should I do?"

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21/06/2025

My neighbor please help me post on page,

My wife doesn’t trust me with our daughters(4yrs and 9yrs old) because her own father touched her when she was growing up. We spent the whole of 2023 on therapy and spent a lot of money but there’s no difference, she gets worse everyday.
Then some stories and things she hears in town about men touching boys has also come to worsen things. Now she can’t leave any child with me for a second. Even if she’s in the kitchen cooking and I’m with the kids at the hall, she would come peeping every 5 mins.
She’s stressing, trying to do everything alone. I’m not forcing things, I’m letting her take it at her own pace cuz the therapist said, if I keep forcing to help, she would feel more threatened, but she’s stressing and I want to help. She can’t even trust me to drop my own children off at school.
She has to do everything for them by herself, if I’m helping, then under her supervision. My kids can’t bond with me. My wife treats me like the enemy in their life. It’s affecting the children too cuz everyone wants Daddy and mummy doesn’t want anyone getting too close to daddy.
I don’t know what to do. I can’t even imagine touching my own children, I don’t know why she can’t get over what her father did to her. I’ve not given her any rea*on to feel insecure, she’s been like this since she had our first child (we have 4 kids in total). I’ve tried to be open and not even do anything to trigger that part of her, but seems the wind triggers it.
She’s a very adorable woman. Tries her best to manage everything and still makes me happy. She’s always there, despite trying to shoulder all responsibilities pertaining the home and children alone. My only duty is to provide money or do dishes cuz someone comes to clean the house and wash our things.

But my wife is tired, I see stress all over her sometimes and I just want to help and also bond with my kids. I want my children to see me like their hero and love me. I want them worrying me and playing with my bald head.
I wish for those but I’m not getting.
My neighbor, the therapy didn’t help. That money is wasted. Talking to her isn’t helping either. Charley, I’m mentally stressed because of this situation. What do I do? I can’t continue like this cuz imagine how she would behave if the girls start growing older, having br£ast and a whole lot, won’t she send me out of the house? My neighbor, this may only get worse so I want to solve it now. What do we do?

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19/06/2025

My husband has traveled for a week, so I’m alone in the house with his younger sister. Days ago, an affair happened. Yeah, between me and his sister. I was drunk, but I saw everything that happened. I didn't resist. I didn't know how it would feel to do it with a woman, so I allowed her to just have her way.

At every step of the way, she asked me, "Should I?" And then I nodded before she went ahead. Everything shows she is that kind of woman, but I didn't know until that moment.

When I became sober, I was shy. I couldn't look at her twice. She said, "Don't worry, I don't think he will know unless you tell him."

To me, that's not the problem. The problem is how the three of us are going to live under the same roof when he returns. Not that I'm going to be tempted again—nooo. It ends here. But to ensure it doesn’t happen again, I want her to leave our house.

What's the easiest way to get my husband to drive his sister away?

I don't think he would have a problem if I tell him to let her go, but the problem would arise when he asks why. There’s nothing I can think of, but I need to do something fast. Please help!

19/06/2025

I was in school when I found him. He was already doing well in life, so he treated me like a small girl who needed guidance and providence to survive. I was at level two hundred when we started dating.

Every month, he would send money into my account, buy me provisions, and ask if there was something more he had to do. He was older too—eight years older than I was. I came to love him so much I gave him my all. I would go to his place on weekends, clean for him, wash his clothes, and stock food in his fridge.

I was only waiting to complete school to marry him. I was ready. My mom knew about him, and my siblings had a relationship with him where they could call and speak to him on the phone.

Two years later, when our love had grown wings and was ready to fly, he came on campus one night, sat under a tree with me, and broke the news to me: "I feel I haven’t been wholly honest. While with you, I was always going in and out of a relationship with a lady I’d dated for years. Now we are settled and want to marry."

The lady was abroad and was coming over for the wedding. He told me only when they were a month away from it. I broke into pieces. I wanted to hit him, but I loved him too much to dent his skin. I cried. He consoled me and said sweet nothings. When he was leaving, he said, "We can’t be together, but nothing will change. I’ll send your monthly allowance. When you need extra, you can text me. I’ll do all that until you move on with another man."

He had his wedding, traveled with his wife for over a month, and came back to begin work again. I didn’t call or text, but my money came on the dot—the same date each month. Sometimes I would text to say thank you, but he wouldn’t respond. I felt he wanted that boundary, so I stopped texting.

On my graduation day, he sent gifts and extra money and said, "You can have a small party with the family." It has been a year, but he was still sending money each month.

After graduation, Elvis came along. Elvis is a great guy who ticked all the boxes. When I said yes to him, I remembered what my ex told me: that he would stop sending money when I got a boyfriend.

But the thing is, he doesn’t ask if I have a boyfriend. He doesn’t even talk to me, so I’m quiet about it. Recently, it occurred to me that I’m becoming the same person I said I hated. I’m also being a cheat, and it isn’t fair to me or to Elvis. Elvis is a great guy, but he doesn’t have the financial means like my ex. I still need the money from my ex because it solves a lot.

So I’m torn between telling him to stop or explaining to Elvis so he aligns with me and we continue taking the money. But you see, men are men, and they are made of ego and pride especially when another man’s is involved. It’s not likely for Elvis to accept such arrangements. So I have to either hide it from him or call my ex and tell him the truth. If you were in my shoes, what would have been your choice?

The easier route is to tell the truth, but it’s not easy looking at what I stand to lose. Which of the men should I talk to—Elvis or my ex?

18/06/2025

All she wanted was a dog. One of those small dogs you see ladies walk around with. A poodle. She talked about it ceaselessly, made posts about it on Snapchat, and even on her WhatsApp. So on her twenty-sixth birthday, I bought her one. Quite expensive for something that only barks and eats, but the woman I loved wanted it, so I got it for her.

That dog became more important in her life than I ever was. She never posted me twice in a month, but that dog got featured everywhere every day. On her Instagram today, you’ll see “A Day in Geoffrey’s Life” on her timeline. Yeah, the dog was called Geoffrey.

When we had an argument about the dog, she asked me, “Are you insecure about a dog? A tiny dog like this is causing you insecurity?”

I was ashamed the way she said it, but I had a rea*on to be concerned. Things were not the same since that dog came around. She could tell me her dog wasn’t in a good mood, so I couldn’t visit. “Not in a good mood? How?” I asked. She told me, “He’s acting up and could attack you unprovoked.”

I sensed all was not well, but nothing in this world could prepare me for what I saw that day when the truth finally came out.

I edited a video of Geoffrey on my laptop and sent it to her. She said the video didn’t appear right on her phone and gave me her phone to check it out. She opened CapCut on her phone, and I started working on it. I decided to go into her photo gallery and compare the video I was working on to others, and the first thing I saw blew my mind.

She was sitting right in front of me, playing with the dog while I worked on her phone. And then she jolted suddenly, quickly got up, and snatched her phone from my hand. It was too late. I’d seen what she didn’t want me to see.

Just to spare your visual senses, I won’t go too deep into describing what I saw. You’re permitted to use your imagination to figure out the rest. She was lying on the carpet with her legs open. She had a scoop of some brownish thing that looked like chocolate ice cream on a wooden spoon. She smeared the brownish thing on her ‘shrine,’ and the dog immediately ran to lick it.

As I said, I won’t go deeper than that, so invite your imagination to the table. She would change positions, and the dog would still find the ‘shrine’ and lick deep and long. The video was recorded three hours prior to my visit.

I was visibly shaking. For several seconds, I couldn’t utter a word. She had run out of the room, thinking I was going to hit her. She was standing outside and talking to me through the window, “It’s not what you think. The dog doesn’t like to eat and gets sick, but I realized if I put the food on my skin, she runs for it. That’s why. Don’t think anything bad. I’m sorry.”

Skin?
So why the shrine of all places?

I coerced her to come inside so we could talk, but she didn’t come. When I stepped outside, she ran away. So I picked the dog up and left her place.

I went back to her place one afternoon unannounced, and she wasn’t there. I went there at night and at dawn consistently for a whole week; I didn’t see her. Meanwhile, she was texting me, sending me voice notes, and begging me not to tell anyone to destroy her image. “Even if you don’t want the relationship anymore, treat me like your sister and don’t destroy me.”

I saw her a month later. It was her friend who confided where she was to me, and I found her there. By then, the anger, the shock, and the disappointment were gone. I had left the relationship emotionally, but I was chasing her up and down just to collect my things I had in her room and also a spare phone I was keeping with her.

What happened to the dog?

I sold it to a guy who was buying it for his girlfriend. I put it up for sale on Snap in the morning, and in the evening, the guy came with his girlfriend. The lady lifted the dog up, and the next thing the dog did was lick her cheek. She said, “Awww, sweet little thing.” I nodded while the happy guy counted GHC750 into my hand.

I paid more than that when I was buying it, but I was selling it as a secondhand dog, so the price had to come down. While they drove away, I stood there and watched their car until it disappeared from view. I said in my head, “It’s a dog. Please let it be a dog.”

18/06/2025

I am not proud to admit this but I have a child with a married man. At first, I didn’t have a problem with hiding myself and the child but lately, I have been possessed with the strong urge to let his wife know the truth. As a fellow woman, I believe she doesn’t deserve what her husband is doing behind her back. Trust me, I am not a bitter baby mama seeking to break a home. This is what happened.

When he first asked me out, I made it clear to him that I wasn’t interested in a relationship with him. Mostly because I was a teenager and he was much older than me. Also, he had a child. I didn’t want to be plunged into any baby mama drama.

Despite my reservations, he convinced me that we could make it work. “Just because I have a child doesn’t mean I don’t deserve love. The only thing I share with my baby mama is our child. You can’t hold that against me.”

I was determined to stand my ground but with time, he won. My heart bowed to his. I didn’t even see it until I woke up one day and realised I was in love with him. That man, My neighbor, he is very sweet-tongued.

Our relationship wasn’t rosy. We broke up, got back together, broke up again, and got back together again countless times. All because my uncertainties about his age and his child kept getting in the way. I kept worrying that I wouldn’t be able to have a happy life with him because of these two reservations I had.

It was during one of our breakups that he married his wife.

I wasn’t even hurt or slightly jealous when I found out he was getting married. I was even present at the wedding. That day I ate to my fill and danced my heart out. I told myself, “Now that he belongs to someone else legally, all the back and forth between us will end. I will also move on and find someone I will be at peace with.”

After the wedding, I cut ties with him for good, or at least I tried. He refused to let go. He came back and told me, “Don’t think I am letting you go just because I am married.”

He said he didn’t marry her for love. “I married her because she is a government worker. It will give me financial stability since I get paid by-day. It’s you I love.”

I was just 18 at the time. I was impressionable and easily manipulated. And as I already stated, he is sweet-tongued. So I believed him. Especially when he pointed out that I couldn’t have offered him that kind of financial stability.

Along the way, I got pregnant. It wasn’t something I wanted. But letting it go was also too scary an option for me. He tried to convince me to do it but I refused. So I kept the pregnancy and had the baby.

Now that I have a child with him, my conscience won’t rest. I am even feeling worse after I found out recently that his wife is the one sponsoring almost everything in their marriage. She takes care of him as if he is her child. Even his boxer shorts, she buys them for him.

That truth broke me. If I were in her shoes, I wouldn’t be happy to know that a man I am taking care of has a secret child outside our marriage.

That’s why I want to tell his wife the truth. Not out of hate or revenge, but because my soul feels heavy. Every day I carry this secret, I feel guilty. I want to be free of it. I want to live with a clear conscience. What would you advise me to do if I was your little sister?

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