28/05/2026
We need to talk about the silence in Ogbomosho.
The news of kidnappings in Ogbomosho is not just a failure of security agencies, it is a failure of our moral fabric. When we speak of kidnappers, we often think of faceless monsters, but the reality is more uncomfortable - the kidnapper is your neighbor. The kidnapper is someone's relative. The kidnapper has friends who know exactly what he does for a living but choose to keep quiet because "a man must eat."
While those kidnappers were possibly celebrating Children's Day or observing Ramadan with their own families, they were simultaneously holding someone else’s child, father, sister, or friend in a den of terror.
This is the ultimate expression of our systemic decay.
The rot has moved from the top down to the very foundation of our society. We have built a culture that worships wealth without asking for the source. We see flashy cars and "big boys," and instead of questioning the legitimacy of their income, we celebrate them. When we glorify money gotten from unknown means, we are effectively subsidizing crime. Our greed has blinded us to the humanity of our brothers and sisters.
The Failure of Implementation
The government, as usual, has policies on paper. They speak of "strengthened security" and "operational strategies." Yet, in practice, these are just words. Why? Because the system is hollowed out by corruption and a lack of political will to implement transparency. When citizens cannot trust that their information will be handled with integrity, or that their leaders are actually working for them, the "bridge" between the state and the people collapses.
How others have done it
In countries like Rwanda, they tackled widespread insecurity by rebuilding the social contract. They made it clear that national safety is not just a police job; it is a community duty. They used a model of "Ubudehe" (community-based monitoring) where everyone is responsible for the integrity of their neighborhood. They stopped tolerating the "small" corruptions that led to big crimes.
The Citizens' Quota
We cannot wait for a miracle from Abuja or the State House. If we want our abducted brothers and sisters back, we must break the culture of silence:
1. Stop the Glorification: If you see a youth living large with no visible means of income, do not clap for them. Question them. If you suspect criminal activity, you must speak up.
2. Parental Accountability: If you are a parent and your child cannot explain their source of wealth, you are the first line of defense. Ignoring it makes you an accomplice.
3. Pressure for Transparency: Demand that your local representatives show exactly where security funds are going. Transparency is the only way to rebuild the trust needed to share intelligence with the police.
We are the kidnappers' biggest enablers when we look away.
I want to hear from you. This is not a time for "God will help us" platitudes. This is a time for hard questions.
1. What are you doing in your own community to identify and report suspicious activities?
2. How do we fix the "greed culture" that makes young people believe that kidnapping is a valid "hustle"?
Let us be honest. Let us be bold. Contribute your quota to this discussion below.