30/06/2025
Most men want to end up with a premium woman.
Especially those “traditional” men.
They may shout submission and homekeeping in public, but deep down? They admire, respect, and even desire women who tick every box, beauty, brains, presence, style… the whole package.
But they want such women to be subjugation under that traditional rules. Imaging putting a lighted candle under a bushel?
So I saw this post about Coach Sydney Carter.
And the comments were flooded!
The drew my attention.
Men were drooling.
“She’s the ideal woman.”
“Her body movements and passion on the court? I’m glued to the screen.”
"Shes the type of women any man should marry."
They even went further to tick all the boxes in her behalf.
Beauty Class ✔️
Poise ✔️
Strength ✔️
Fashion ✔️
Carriage ✔️
Height ✔️
Panaché ✔️
“She ticks all the boxes,” they said.
“She’s the kind of woman that makes you want to get married.”
Fair enough. But here’s my question —
Are you man enough to sustain her premiumness?
Here’s the big fish on the table.
Premium women aren’t sustained with vibes and cruise.
They require vision, discipline, emotional maturity, responsibility, consistency, leadership, and yes, sacrifice.
It’s one thing to want her.
It’s another thing to become the kind of man who can handle, nurture, and truly support her world.
Marrying a premium woman will cost you your ego.
You’ll look “weak” in the eyes of men who measure masculinity by dominance.
Your male friends may call you a simp.
But guess what
That’s what it takes.
Premium isn’t just pretty.
She’s purpose-driven, emotionally intelligent, and intentional.
If you’re not ready to rise to her level, don’t ask her to shrink for you.
So yeah… don’t just desire her aesthetics.
Be the kind of man who matches her excellence.
Daniel Adeniyi