22/08/2024
It is better for a man to cry tears of joy because he has accomplished an outstanding achievement than to cry because a woman broke his heart. Go and break your own heart. Be heartless. Not to others. But from expectations from others. Treat people, especially women, how you would like to be treated. But do not expect anything back in return.
And certainly do not expect them to maintain your heart: Let your achievements be your reward in life.
See Dangote. Does he have a wife? No. Does he look sad? Of course not. Having a woman in your life is not an achievement. She is an added joy to your life.
Women can only break your heart if there is not already joy in your life and you derive your happiness solely from them. But when you have purpose and achievements that make your life worth living, you will have automatically died to heartbreak. Be too busy breaking records that you have no time for anyone to be breaking your heart. That is the sort of man that is irresistible to women. That is the specie of men whose hearts women don't break.
