30/04/2024
Lately, I have come to realize something very sensitive.
Don't let people's fear and insecurities be your reality!!!
This is what I'm trying to say!!!
The fact that a person failed in a business, relationship or failed marriage doesn't not mean that the business is a bad one for you to venture into or love is a scam, or marriage is hell...
Everyone has a path to thread!!!
When people tell you that as a Man, keep secrets from your wife especially when it comes to finances or business, it is as a result of their insecurities about working together in oneness with their spouse.
A lot of things might be the cause but don't let that become your reality.
When they tell you as a lady to keep many boyfriends so that you'll be able to grade them and pick the best, just know that it's coming from a place where their fear is being alone or left alone... It is not your reality.
The fact that you're from a broken home does not mean that you'll not have a happy marriage...
The fact that you're from a poor background does not mean that poverty is your reality.
Choose your reality!!!
A lot of times, I have had people tell me Men cannot be trusted, don't show too much love or be open to a guy but I still choose to do otherwise because that is my reality.
I choose to love and embrace love as long as I can receive it...
Why should I deprive myself of love and happiness because some people have had bitter certain experiences before?
All I'm saying is that, "Be your reality".
Don't be scared to grow and get rich because of your village people.
Don't be scared to love because of heartbreak.
Don't be scared to explore life because of your challenges.
Don't be scared to believe God because of the noise and hypocrisy in your Religion.
Don't be scared to be the best version of yourself because your educational level.
Don't be scared to succeed because you feel you'll have enemies.
No matter your condition, level, or position, enemies are naturally born.
Why not focus on yourself and let the whole world deal with it? uhn?
Just be you! The world will adjust and if they don't, so be it...
Or what do you think???
I'm just thinking out loud!!!
