24/10/2025
Wife responded 👇👇👇
"Responding to my ex husband, the man that said, i should hand over the shop he opened for me during our marriage including everything I've acquired from the business so far,
I intend to go detail & i hope you hear me out too just as you did my ex husband whom came to this platform to accuse & lay allegations at me. I intend to clair my name
I married this man 2021. My husband insisted that I didn't need to work since we were married. He forbade me from taking up a job or doing anything not even a business of my own. Despite being the first child with 2 younger siblings to care for, I obeyed him just to avoid issues nor disrespect him. This decision has become one of my biggest regrets so far.. & I'll advise everyone never to try this mistake
My husband started seeing different women & sleeping out just a year after our child was born. Each time I confronted him, he would stop giving me food or pocket money. He would stay away for days without considering that we had a one-year-old child. Most often, I had to beg for food from neighbors to feed myself & my child.
Actually, I couldn't continue my education after highschool due to financial difficulties. But, He would often insult me, calling me illiterate & a burden. When I asked him why he called me illiterate when we both had the same education qualifications, he said my case was different coz I was "wretched & poor."
Things took a turn for the worse when my husband brought home a strange girl & introduced her as his cousin. I doubted him, but I was scared to confront him, fearing he would starve me & our child again. The girl stayed for about 3 days.
While cleaning the house, I came across a strange birth certificate of a 2-year-old girl bearing his name, indicating that he was the father. When I confronted him, he denied it. I couldn't handle it, so I took my one-year-old daughter & left.
He came to my father's house the next day & apologized, saying he kept the child a secret coz I wouldn't have married him if I had found out. I forgave him about 2 weeks later after our families & elders intervened. I made him promised to open a boutique business for me, before i return home & he did.
However, just 2 months later, he started seeing different women again. I discovered that he was still involved with his baby mama. That's when I knew I had to leave. After going through his phone. My husband continued seeing his baby mama, got her pregnant again, & even did a traditional wedding with her without my knowledge. I knew i could never stay, i knew i had to work harder,
I focused & distracted my self with my boutique business & a year later. While my husband was gallivanting & spending time in expensive hotels, night clubs & restaurants with various ladies including his baby mama., i got a great business deal. But I kept it a secret from my husband, who thought I was unaware of his infidelity. I pretended not to know, wanting to stand on my own feet before fighting back so i could shock him with my success ..
Well, I married a man whom doesn't discuss anything with me before making a decision, the only time he confided in me was when he told me, he wanted us to move to a smaller house coz he wanted to sale the house we were living in so as to increase capital for his business which was gradually going down...
And without any remorse, he finally told me, he married a second wife. And that, our culture permits him to take another wife. I was shocked when, the next day, he brought home the same girl he claimed was his cousin, now as his new wife & baby mama. Whom was pregnant for him again for the second time. I knew it was time to leave for good.
I took my daughter & served him divorce papers. 3 weeks later, my family refunded his bride price. Now, he's bitter & wants me to give him our child & the boutique shop, including everything I've acquired from it because he discovered that I bought a house for my family.
Well Joey, I'll like to further shock you that this isn't the only house that i own, i was the one that bought your house & there's no way I'll give you my hard-earned success or let our daughter live with you & your wife. I've given you the freedom you wanted, pls go ahead & be with your baby mama that you so much love & leave me & my family alone.
For the past 6 months, he has been thr-t-nin me, saying he would make me run må,"" d, dr-nk wata from gutters & eat from trash cans. Pls, let the world know that if anything should happen to me, let this m,"nn here be held responsible!! "
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