15/03/2025
THE BEST WAY TO BE A FATHER
1. BE THERE:
✅The biggest failure as a man is having a child and rejecting that child, abdicating your responsibility as a father, being quick to have s*x and quicker to run away when pregnancy comes. Too many children are hurting because of a father who is alive but has disowned them, it makes the child grow feeling unwanted and unloved, it dents the child's self esteem and some become adults with a constant feeling of rejection. If you have a child, be there; no matter how bad things are between you and the mother of the child- be there; you owe it to your young one.
2. TELL YOUR DAUGHTER SHE IS BEAUTIFUL:
✅The first man to compliment a girl should be her father, the first man to take note of her beauty should be her dad. A girl should grow up convinced she is beautiful and feeling like a king's princess that even when boys and men try to woo her saying she's beautiful she responds "I know, dad has been telling me that for years". Too many girls fall for preying men because they are desperately looking for affection, they have daddy issues and had no encounter with a male figure who genuinely loved them before the preying men noticed their b***s and hips; so they fall prey to men who use compliments and give attention as a carrot to lure to a trap that leads to hurt.
3. MODEL MANHOOD TO THE SONS:
✅A boy comes into the world as a naive student who will absorb what the male figures around him teach. He can be taught the right way to be a man or be misled. He learns how to treat females whether good or bad from the men around him. He should learn proper manhood from the father. The father should model how best to treat and respect females, how to love as a man, how to work, how to provide, how to be a man of integrity.
4. EAT WITH YOUR FAMILY:
✅ Food brings people together, one of the greatest show of security to a child is when the dad makes time to share meals.
5. BE THE SPIRITUAL LEADER:
✅ The father should be the High Priest.
