12/06/2026
From my box
Good evening, I’m sorry for chatting at this time, I just need to pour my heart out because this thing is confusing me and I don’t even know what to think again, I’m engaged and to be honest this man has really helped my life, he is a very good person, very calm, very humble, the kind of man you hardly see these days, if I start to talk about him I will not finish, he is not even the type that moves around or disrespects women, even me that he is engaged to, he respects me a lot and does not cross boundaries
So something happened that has now turned everything upside down, one day I sent my younger sister to go and meet him in church to collect a key because he dropped his dad’s car with my younger brother who is a mechanic and he drove to church with the key, instead of her to go to church like I said, she told him to inform her when he gets home, I even saw the message, that was how she stayed out till around 10pm before coming back, I asked her why she stayed out late, she said she went to her boyfriend’s house so I didn’t think anything of it
That same night my fiancé messaged me and asked me if she is my biological sister, I said yes, he now said okay that I should be careful, that was all he said, he did not tell me anything else and I did not even ask much, I just let it go
Not knowing that from that time my sister had started going to his house without telling me, she will go there, cook, clean and all that, I didn’t know anything about it until recently when we had a quarrel, during the quarrel I told her that very soon I will leave the house for them since my wedding is close, she now said if people are getting married that so me will come out, that my boyfriend is also asking her out, I was shocked, I said my boyfriend is asking you out, show me proof, she could not show anything
Out of angerr I called him and I insultedd him, I asked him how he could be doing something like that with my own sister, he didn’t say anything on the call, he later came to chat and said so this is how low I think of him, that even if my sister is the only woman in the world he will not go near her, that even me he is engaged to, how many times has he even touchedd me, that he will not leave me and go and start something with my sister, that statement even made me calm down because it is true
He now explained that my sister has been coming to his house, cooking and cleaning, and wearing short things, that it made him uncomfortable and that he warned her, he even sent her a message clearly telling her not to come to his house again, that he is getting married to her sister not her, and that if she wants to come she should come with me, not alone
Now this whole thing has escalated, my mother got involved and she is taking my sister’s side, my father too, the elders are now involved, and they are blaming my fiancé, they are saying why did he tell me all those things and that it is a red flag, my mother has even said she will not approve the marriage again, they said I am choosing a stranger over my own bloodd
I am just here confused because this is someone I know and I know the kind of man he is, but now everything has turned and I am the one in the middle of it all, I don’t even know what to do anymore, please what would you do if you were in my situation
