Ujunwa R Ekwueme

17/11/2024

HOW TO AVOID EMOTIONAL AFFAIR...

Even if you are married to the best spouse in the whole world, if you do not guard your heart, you may end up "falling in love" with someone aside your spouse and eventually ruin your marriage.
No one gets married and plan to have affair but lots of married men and women are into affairs today because they slept when they should have been wide awake with their five senses alert.

1. Don't be too friendly with the opposite s*x. This is where lots of married people land in trouble. Over spirituality and pride will destroy your marriage! You can't handle close friendship with the opposite s*x as a married person. Your heart is involved. Set boundaries. Be disciplined. Be cordial. Be respectful. Be godly. Be holy.

2. Don't share your personal problems with an opposite s*x friend. It will bond you together. Problems bond people.

3. Don't contact any opposite s*x you are fond of. If you secretly admire them, you are fond of them and their is a tingling in your heart at the mere thought of them, don't contact!

4. Avoid unnecessary eye contact that lingers with the opposite s*x.

5. Don't tell an opposite s*x you are romantic or s*xy, that private information is for your spouse only.

6. Avoid discussions with the opposite s*x when you are tired, very sad, depressed, sorrowful, drowsy, sleepy or very sick. This can cloud your judgment and make you say silly things. Talk to your husband/wife instead.

7. Avoid unnecessary compliment of the opposite s*x.

8. Stop saying "I love you" to the opposite s*x, for what?

9. Work on your marriage. Keep the fire of love and romance alive in your marriage!

10. Protect your family. Don't share your marital problem with your opposite s*x friend, it will bond you.

11.Never flirt with the opposite s*x.

12. Mind the pictures you post on the social media. Limit pictures that show your curves or portray you as s*xy.

13. Do not contact all your EX after marriage.

14. Don't chat with the opposite s*x on the days you are h***y.

15. Stop focusing on your spouse's weaknesses and appreciate their strengths. If you always see the bad side of your spouse, you will be angry, bitter, critical and look for someone who can "understand" you and make you happy aside your spouse, that is the beginning of an emotional affair and eventual s*xual affair. It is the beginning of the end of a once glorious marriage!

FLEE from all appearance of evil is what the Bible says.
What you will not eat, don't bring it to your nose, don't smell it!
Don't start what you cannot finish!
Avoid all emotional and s*xual affairs, they will destroy your marriage!

May you not take a step that will lead to eternal regret in Jesus' name.
Amen 🙏
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Dear Ladies, I'm going to hurt some of you with this post but kindly read and digest…..✍️

•A Lady who cannot make her hair without asking a guy for money. And if not given -would call the guy BROKE.

A Lady that cannot subscribe her phone without sending “Can you do me a favour..?” to her random boyfriends on Facebook or whatsapp, and if not given would call them BROKE

A lady who does nothing than to jump around from one bed to another to pay her rent, feed and forming fake life on Facebook will be calling a guy who hustles; pays house rent, feeds himself, does everything for himself, BROKE.

A lady who is Jobless and lazy will come on Social media to argue how she can't marry a man who doesn't earn 100K a month.

Isn't it Funny that Ladies who can't foot their bills call men BROKE for not dancing to their drums?

Ladies, How I wish you understand how cheap you are when you Embarrassed a guy who didn't give you money for your hair.

How I wish you understand how Cheap it sounds when you say a man who can't buy you the Latest phone or trending stuff on a date is not man enough to talk or date you .

Stop demanding from men If you can't do it yourself.

Before Calling a guy broke, let it be that he can't take care of himself not because he can't take care of your personal Bills .

If not you are the broke one here...YES

As a Lady you should think of Building your self-esteem, Creative, Learning skills and praying to God to Direct your path.

Stop, Embarrassing yourself with guys, if a guy can't pay for a plate of Rice in Mega-Chicken..
Aunty why can't you pay for it?

Come to think of it ,If we Interview most ladies the way they examined most men, you'll see that many ladies are LAZY, JOBLESS and Lack COMMON SENSE but forming Rich and Sensible..

On the Other hand, Men are Hardworking and Resourceful for themselves.

Go get a life
Set standards
Be financially independent
then you can talk of not marrying a broke guy.

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