16/09/2025
What is the "Egusi or Melon " in your home?
Growing up, I fondly remember how we use to unpeel melon as a family.
This period was a time for family bonding where gossip flow faster than the speed of light π. Yes, this time of melon peeling we gist about anything and everything. Down to my dad's lover story( gist for another day). So when I say you get the premium gist during this time you know what I mean right?
Now, thinking about this, I came to understand that this work we were doing " unpeeling melon", did accomplish two purposes or more depending on your perspective.
First, it helps us to collectively prepare the family meal together which enable speed.
Secondly, it unites or bond the family more cause during this time we "communicate" not on phone but physically thereby sharing emotions laughter, sadness, fear you name it. We gist about both serious and trivial issues.
So I ask again, what is the Melon or "egusi" as it locally called@, In your home?
What is that thing that brings the family together in your home?
Now , due to the increase of social media content, family no longer have bonding time. You see siblings living together but they are watching tiktok videos or Instagram reel on their device but rarely talk to each other physically.
Physical communication is gradually crippling out of our reach, thereby making siblings or parent look like visitors that will be gone soonest.
So I beg, I plead! I beckon!, bring back the Melon, bring back the "egusi" to your family. Might not be the one you see in the picture, it can be anything game, sport,books, meal time that bring the spark to your family time.
Yes, BRING BACK THE EGUSI!!!
Deb Gideon