Young Wives Association of Nigeria

04/04/2025

The Idea of married people sleeping in different rooms is what I can't buy, while I understand there's need for privacy and alone time, your private moment shouldn't collate with our sleep time.

Maybe some of you don't even know it's not all night married people do the fdkehdkyekj, sometimes you just want to do that talking moment and little cuddle here and there till you both fell asleep.

Sometimes you don't even do anything till you both fall asleep, but the thought of having to wake up and see your partner by your side is assuring.

While having this talk with someone, she mentioned what if there are two wives. My reply was, even if we are two, at least I'll have my own week right? Even if na 2 days you go spend with me, Oga we are sleeping in the same room oo.

Me that I'm even used to sleeping alone, the little time you will now be with me, you're now suggesting we sleep separately at night, ha!! Kole work oo, even if we dey fight and I vex commot for room go another room, abeg come out and carry me enter back oo, na shakara I dey do 😄.

Ori ade o gbudo sunta.
Inu Yara lon sun.

Who else prefer sleeping in separate room with their spouse?

15/02/2025

14 BASIC NEEDS YOUR WIFE WANT YOU TO MEET

1. THE NEED TO FEEL CHERISHED

A wife needs to feel valued and cherished. She wants to know that she holds a special place in her husband's heart and life. Acts of love, appreciation, and affirmation can make her feel treasured.

2. THE NEED FOR SECURITY

A wife needs to feel secure in her marriage. This includes emotional, financial, and physical security. Knowing that her husband is dependable and committed to providing for the family helps her feel safe and stable.

3. THE NEED FOR EMOTIONAL CONNECTION

A wife needs to feel emotionally connected to her husband. This connection is built through meaningful conversations, empathy, and understanding. She needs her husband to listen and engage with her feelings and experiences.

4. THE NEED FOR AFFECTION

Affection is crucial for a wife. This includes physical touch, kind words, and small gestures of love. Regular displays of affection reassure her of her husband's love and commitment.

5. THE NEED FOR RESPECT

A wife needs to feel respected by her husband. This respect should be shown in how he speaks to her, considers her opinions, and treats her in everyday interactions.

6. THE NEED FOR SUPPORT

A wife needs her husband to support her dreams, ambitions, and personal growth. This includes offering encouragement, practical help, and being her biggest cheerleader.

7. THE NEED FOR COMMUNICATION

Effective and open communication is essential. A wife needs her husband to communicate with her openly and honestly, sharing his thoughts and feelings and listening to hers.

8. THE NEED FOR INTIMACY

Intimacy goes beyond physical closeness; it includes emotional and spiritual connection. A wife needs her husband to invest time and effort into nurturing intimacy in all aspects of their relationship.

9. THE NEED FOR APPRECIATION

A wife needs to feel appreciated for her contributions to the family and the relationship. Recognizing her efforts and expressing gratitude can strengthen her sense of worth and motivation.

10. THE NEED FOR FUN AND PLAYFULNESS

A wife needs to experience joy and laughter in her marriage. Engaging in fun activities together and maintaining a sense of playfulness can keep the relationship vibrant and enjoyable.

11. THE NEED FOR PARTNERSHIP

A wife needs to feel like a partner in her marriage, sharing responsibilities and making decisions together. This partnership fosters mutual respect and a sense of teamwork.

12. THE NEED FOR REASSURANCE

There will be times when a wife feels insecure or unsure. She needs her husband to reassure her of his love, commitment, and faithfulness, especially during difficult times.

13. THE NEED FOR LOYALTY

A wife needs to know that her husband is loyal and faithful. This loyalty builds trust and strengthens the bond between them, making her feel secure and cherished.

14. THE NEED FOR SPIRITUAL LEADERSHIP

A wife needs her husband to be a spiritual leader in the home, guiding the family in faith and setting an example of godliness. This leadership includes praying together, studying the Bible, and fostering a Christ-centered home.

That is why you have to........

Remember: Meeting the needs of your wife involves understanding and fulfilling these essential aspects of a godly relationship. By cherishing, respecting, supporting, and loving your wife in these ways, you honor God and build a strong, fulfilling marriage. Remember, your role as a husband is to reflect Christ’s love and commitment, creating a relationship that glorifies Him and brings joy and fulfillment to both you and your wife. God bless us all.

Queen Beauty
Ctto

13/02/2025

The best marriage lesson is learned in the marriage itself, no two marriages are the same, learn in yours and apply wisdom.

12/02/2025

Watching your first born grow up makes you so emotional. That child taught me everything and changed my entire life in all the best ways.🥹🤍

12/02/2025

See question, see answer, Imagine it was a woman that answers question this way?

It is well

12/02/2025

In all you do in your everyday life, as you are looking out for others, do not forget to invest in yourself and work towards being the better version of yourself.

So that on the long run, whatsoever life throws at you, you carve a beautiful story out of it.

08/02/2025

One of the key things that is of value in a relationship is communication. Communicate your everyday plan with your partner, someone you call your better half, Let your partner know where you are and what you're up to and what you'll be up to later.

Communicate in such a way your partner would be able to tell what you're up to even though he/she is far from you.

The fastest thing that could make/mar a relationship/marriage is lack of communication.

Do well to fix that.

06/02/2025

Let the truth be told, for whoever has ears, let them hear..... Social media has broken more marriages/relationship than anything.
Let's be wise and act with wisdom.

Check yourself, you're guilty in one way or the other, same as I.

It's time for change!!

30/01/2025

Shout out to my newest followers! Excited to have you onboard! Issa Bakari, Faizah Abdulraheem Adeleke, Hassan Shukurat Ololade Usamot, Enoch Victoria Oluwaseunayofunmi, Murtii Guutoo Kan Harargee

30/01/2025

41 solid years, that’s how long the wealthiest woman on earth, Françoise Bettencourt Meyers, has been happily married to her husband.

Ok this to my brothers...

Just think about that for a moment. Here’s a woman worth about $100 billion, yet she’s stayed committed to her husband, whose wealth doesn’t even come close to hers.

Now, this shows something we don’t talk about enough, there are women who will honor and respect their husbands, no matter how successful or wealthy they become.

We live in a time where many men genuinely believe that once a woman starts to succeed, she automatically becomes arrogant or difficult to handle.

But clearly, that’s not the full picture. It’s not the general rule.

There are women out there whose wealth or success will never go to their heads.

Women who, no matter how high they climb, stay grounded in their values and respect for their partners.

And this lady is living proof of that.

So maybe it’s time to rethink the assumptions.

Not all successful women lose touch with reality and what truly matters in life and Marriage.

Let’s stop putting them in boxes.

Written By Daniel Adeniyi

27/01/2025

Your life partner can greatly affect your world.

The person you choose to be with will influence how you think, act, and your relationship. They can impact your mental and physical health, either helping or hurting you.

That’s why it’s important to choose carefully.

Your partner can either help you or hold you back. Take your time and look for someone who encourages and supports you.

Simbiat Alade Adeleke

26/01/2025