TemmyT.

21/12/2025

Healthy relationships happen when:

Men learn that listening is not weakness

Women learn that tone matters as much as truth

Both stop assuming the other “should just know”

Respect is shown intentionally, not demanded angrily

Most relationships don’t fail because of lack of love they fail because love was spoken in a language the other person couldn’t feel.”

21/12/2025

HAPPY Sunday amazing friends

20/12/2025

'This is just the beginning of the drama, more whistles to be blown. New Generation Pastors, it is well ooo

My page has been brought down by Chris and he is currently attacking my instagram page. If you don't see me here again, just know that his next plan is to assassin!nate me.
I didn't commit any cr!me. My only crime was that I loved my boyfriend, Pastor Chris Okafor

Chris, you can't shut me up. Instead of you all to support me, you are judging me. I know a lot. Chris once used his account to collect $60,000 fr@ud money. I was barely 23 years when we started dating and I was naive' - Actress Doris Ogala

Check comments for a bit history before you start judging.

20/12/2025

It hurts when someone online or a stranger understands you better than the person you share a bed with.

Sometimes you listen to a stranger speak online and you think,
“This person understands exactly what I’m going through…”
And then a painful question rises in your heart
“Why doesn’t my wife understand me?”

That question doesn’t come from hatred.
It comes from loneliness inside commitment.

Many spouses don’t fail to understand because they don’t love
They fail because they were never taught how to listen without defending,
How to hear pain without turning it into an argument,
How to sit with emotions instead of fixing or dismissing them.

Understanding is not about intelligence.
It’s about emotional availability.

Sometimes your wife is carrying her own fears, her own exhaustion, her own unspoken wounds.
And while you are asking to be heard, she is trying to survive in her own silence.

But here is the truth we must learn:
Marriage is not just sharing a house
It is learning each other’s inner language.

The solution is not withdrawal.
It is gentle honesty.
Speaking without blame.
Listening without preparing a reply.
Creating safe moments where feelings are not punished.

And if you’ve tried — truly tried —
Then remember this:
Seeking understanding does not make you weak.
Wanting emotional connection does not make you less of a man.

Sometimes healing in marriage begins when one person says,
“I don’t want to win this conversation… I just want us to understand each other.”

If this spoke to you, share it.
Someone is loving deeply… and feeling unheard.

20/12/2025

Loving someone who doesn’t know how to communicate feels like trying to read a message that was never sent.

You explain how you feel, but they hear accusation.
You ask for clarity, but they offer silence.
You reach for connection, and they retreat into distance.

And the painful truth is this:
It’s not that they don’t care — it’s that they never learned how to express care in a healthy way.

But listen carefully…
Love should not require you to translate pain, decode silence, or beg for emotional presence.
Real love doesn’t leave you confused. It doesn’t punish you with quiet. It doesn’t make you feel “too much” for needing understanding.

You can love someone deeply and still accept this truth:
You cannot communicate for them.
You cannot heal what they refuse to face.

Sometimes the most loving thing you can do isn’t to stay and suffer
It’s to choose clarity, peace, and emotional safety.

If this spoke to you, let me know in the comments.
And if you’ve ever loved someone who couldn’t communicate… you’re not alone.

Check the comments for possible solution's

20/12/2025

You see, this time around I will not eat only the legs 😂😭 ooo

Because I like eating the legs of chicken, I will give every other parts to family members, not again!

This year Christmas chicken we will eat all the parts together, I know they will be surprised, yes I am determined. Let's go go go.

Imagine,.some people like the head, not for me 😭

Happy Christmas 🎁 in advance, few days to go!

20/12/2025

Good afternoon fams, hope your weekend is going on well?

20/12/2025

Some Misconceptions about caring for our parents! Infact what some preachers preach about this matter is unimaginable but here is my own opinion.

One of the greatest misconceptions is thinking that taking care of your parents is a burden. Spiritually, it is not a burden—it is an assignment. Scripture reminds us: “Honor your father and your mother, that it may be well with you.” Honor is not just words; honor is action.

Another misconception is believing honor requires wealth. In reality, God measures obedience, not bank balance. Sometimes honoring your parents looks like checking on them regularly, speaking gently, helping with small needs, praying for them, or simply showing up when others walk away. These simple acts open doors money cannot open.

Many people chase blessings while ignoring the roots God used to bring them into the world. Spiritually, when you care for your parents, you align yourself with divine order. Practically, it teaches patience, responsibility, humility, and compassion—qualities that attract favor in marriage, business, and leadership.

Taking care of your parents does not delay your destiny; it secures it. What you sow into those who gave you life becomes a shield over your own future. And remember—your children are watching. How you treat your parents is the lesson you’re teaching them about how life should be lived.

If this speaks to you, like, share, and comment 🙏
Let’s restore honor . while we still have time

20/12/2025

20/12/2025

No matter how tall you are you can't see into tomorrow, just be kind to everyone.

20/12/2025

"I don chop that Lady before" won't stop a real man from marrying her. She can be a Treasure to help build an EMPIRE in FUTURE. Where you saw only s*x, Another sees a FUTURE.

"I cannot date that guy because he is broke" won't stop a good woman from marrying him. He can be a KING in waiting being prepared for his plentiful season..

Where you saw Lack, another sees a man of VISION!!!

Learn to look beyond the Present.

20/12/2025

Where you saw lack, another sees opportunity for growth and greatness, and that's the mindset that changes everything.