31/10/2025
Grief:
Sometimes we are saddled with the responsibility of letting go of things that hurt us or that are not good for us.
We are making the right decisions, but for some strange reason, it still hurts.
You know this relationship has to end.
You know you have to leave that job, that friendship — because it’s no longer good for you, no longer healthy for you.
And even when you do the right thing, you still find yourself feeling so much pain.
Sometimes, even ending a relationship together — because you both decided it was the right time, still leaves you aching and wondering why.
I hope the grief you feel is reminder enough of what this once was to you:
that it was love,
it was importance,
it was value to YOU.
