22/11/2024
I have a 7-year-old daughter with my ex. He's married to another woman and they have 2 sons. My daughter is the spitting image of her father's mum so he doesn't joke with her. I haven't cut her hair since she was born and I naturalize it. It's so full and lengthy, that it almost touches her waistline when washed and blow-dried.
When I take her to the salon, I get lots of compliments. She always spends her weekends and vacations with her father and before she leaves, I make sure her hair is sorted because I know the stress involved in maintaining her hair and I don't want to give the other woman problems.
Last week, she left for midterm holidays and I was so caught up with work that I couldn't take her to the salon to have her hair washed and braided. I tied it in a bun and sent her like that. She came back and her hair had been cut. I was shocked. I almost collapsed. She said her stepmum cut it. Her father brought her and he was just apologizing. He said she didn't consult him before doing that and he's equally angry. I decided to call her and ask questions. Her excuse was that she was going to go to high school eventually and she'd cut her hair. She said having so much hair at her age is destructive and she did the best for my daughter and me. I blasted her seriously. I blasted her and told her I'd come to the house and deal with her so much that she'd regret knowing me. My ex kept telling me to calm down but I needed to teach that lady a lesson. I can even count the number of times I have spoken to her so I was surprised she could do that. I needed to have a one-on-one with her. I know she's a housewife and so she'd be home all the time. I went there today at around 11 am. I didn't meet anyone but their house help showed me her shop and I drove there. I didn't even greet her and started demanding answers on why she cut my daughter's hair without my permission. She instead was asking if her husband knew I was there. She was getting on my nerves and I told her if she dared me I'd deal with her. She started saying it because of this ego of mine that is the reason I'm still single and that even the child's father isn't complaining and it isn't an issue and I'm taking it too personally. No remorse, no apology, nothing.
Before she could finish, I had landed a slap on her dirty face and had floored her. The way she wasn't expecting it and I grabbed her, she fell smoothly. Even though her staff tried
separating, I was able to land some b!ows on her and I intended to drag her braids till they uprooted from the scalp.
Unfortunately, I was only able to pull two and we were separated. She got up from the floor and the first thing she could do was use a stone on my windscreen. Her staff at that point left me and I pounced on her. Awurade. I almost ki!!ed her. Then they came to separate again. I stamped on her abdomen several times so she was lying on the floor and shouting that they call her husband and police. Before leaving, I entered the shop and smashed breakable things on the floor. Her staff were just begging and I left.
She was lucky I didn't run my car inside the shop. Fóolish woman. My baby daddy just called me and is screaming. He says if not for our child, he'd have arrested me! I want to know if I went too far.
