Amab Creations

Amab Creations I’m a Relationship and Marriage Coach dedicated to helping couples reconnect, communicate better, and build lasting intimacy.
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I guide couples through emotional disconnects, silent seasons, and everyday conflicts, so they can find their way back to love.

When they cheat and still make you beg for catching them, my dear you’re dating or married to a gaslighter.
27/07/2025

When they cheat and still make you beg for catching them, my dear you’re dating or married to a gaslighter.

Why do some men turn the blame on you after you catch them cheating? Is it pride or manipulation?
27/07/2025

Why do some men turn the blame on you after you catch them cheating? Is it pride or manipulation?

Happy Sunday Everyone ❤️❤️❤️
27/07/2025

Happy Sunday Everyone ❤️❤️❤️

Please this person should chat me directly through DM. If you were in her shoes would you have cover up with make up.
27/07/2025

Please this person should chat me directly through DM.

If you were in her shoes would you have cover up with make up.

When was the last time you took her out or buy her a gift?What happened to all the sweet things you were doing before ma...
27/07/2025

When was the last time you took her out or buy her a gift?
What happened to all the sweet things you were doing before marriage? Why did you stop?

When you were dating, you dressed like you were going to collect an award.
Now it is Wrapper, hairnet, and that faded T-shirt that should have retired two years ago. All in the name of Who’s looking at me? I’m married.
My sister, your husband is looking oh but what he’s seeing now is not what he signed up for.

And men, don’t relax. I’m coming for you too.
You used to call every hour Have you eaten? I miss you.
Now the only time you call her is What’s in the pot? What did you cook? cause I’m very hungry
All the attention, care, and surprises, Gone. Because you feel She’s my wife now, where is she going?

Then later when you both feel something is wrong you begin to wonder what is wrong or is it village people.
No, it’s not the village people. It’s you people
You got too comfortable. You stopped putting in effort. That fire you used to have You quenched it with laziness.

Marriage doesn’t spoil in one day.
It spoils when you stop dating each other.
It spoils when you stop trying to impress each other.

If you want that spark back, you must create it.
Dress well for your partner.
Send sweet texts like before.
Flirt like you used to.
Keep chasing each other, even after you’ve caught each other.

Because love is not automatic it’s intentional.
And remember love is a plant and if you don’t water your own garden, someone else will water it for you cause it needs to be watered.

Just to remind you today is Sunday, what will you be doing to spice things up after service today?

✍🏾 Amab Creations.
Restoring love. Rebuilding connection.

If you were this woman, what would you do? Leave the marriage and follow your heart, or fight for the home you’ve built?
26/07/2025

If you were this woman, what would you do? Leave the marriage and follow your heart, or fight for the home you’ve built?

A particular gender do this more
26/07/2025

A particular gender do this more

Women Who Emotionally Checked Out but Still StayedSome women didn’t leave their marriage physically but emotionally, the...
26/07/2025

Women Who Emotionally Checked Out but Still Stayed

Some women didn’t leave their marriage physically but emotionally, they left a long time ago.

They cook. They clean. They smile for pictures.
But their heart is Gone.

Because how do you stay happy in a home where you’ve been begging for love like a beggar on the street?
You asked for attention you got excuses.
You asked for affection you got cold shoulders.
You asked to be seen and he acted blind.

So now you’re just managing life like an unpaid housemaid.
Cooking for a man who hasn’t touched you in months.
Posting “Happy Anniversary” while crying in the bathroom.
What kind of life is that?

And society will clap for you, Wow, what a strong woman. Strong? No, she’s broken but too scared of what people will say.

Listen, staying in a marriage after your soul has checked out is a slow death.
You don’t die all at once. You die in bits, every single day.

So before you give up:
✅ talk.
✅ Fight for it first.

But if after trying and trying, the marriage still feels like a graveyard?
Save your soul, sis. You can’t resurrect what somebody already buried.

✍🏾 Amab Creations.
Restoring love. Rebuilding connection.

Don’t sacrifice your soul on the altar of “ what will people say?”
26/07/2025

Don’t sacrifice your soul on the altar of “ what will people say?”

I Stayed Because of What People Will Say Now I’m EmptyWhen the signs showed, I ignored them.When my gut whispered, I sil...
26/07/2025

I Stayed Because of What People Will Say Now I’m Empty

When the signs showed, I ignored them.
When my gut whispered, I silenced it.
When friends asked, Are you sure about this? I smiled and said, Of course! He’s a good man.
Because deep down, I wasn’t ready for the shame of walking away.

So I stayed.
Not because I was happy.
Not because it was healthy.
But because What will people say? felt louder than my own voice.

Now here I am, years later, living a life that looks perfect in pictures but feels like a funeral behind closed doors.
I post matching outfits on facebook, but I cry myself to sleep at night.
I laugh at jokes in public, but my heart is drowning in silence.
Because truth is, I didn’t marry for me. I married for them.

And the worst part?
Those same people I stayed for don’t even care if I’m alive or dead inside.
They just want to see pictures of anniversaries, smiling kids, and couple goals.

So I keep acting.
Acting like everything is fine.
Acting like I’m not screaming inside.
Acting like my soul isn’t tired of pretending.

If this is marriage, then why does it feel like prison?
If this is love, why do I feel so unloved?
Why does my home feel like punishment instead of peace?

Listen to me, Don’t be me.
Don’t let society bully you into a lifetime of silence.
Don’t sacrifice your soul on the altar of “What will people say?”
Because when the lights go off, and the guests go home,
it’s YOU that has to live with the choice.
Not them but YOU.

This is the reality of someone who stayed because of society and is now broken inside. Don’t be this person again.

✍🏾 Amab Creations.
Restoring love. Rebuilding connection.

Regretting your decision doesn’t make you a failure
26/07/2025

Regretting your decision doesn’t make you a failure

Regretting Who You Married Doesn’t Make You a Bad PersonSome of you are not evil.You’re just finally admitting something...
26/07/2025

Regretting Who You Married Doesn’t Make You a Bad Person

Some of you are not evil.
You’re just finally admitting something your heart has been whispering for years, Maybe I chose wrong.

And before you start feeling guilty, hear this, Regret doesn’t always mean you hate your partner.
It just means love wasn’t enough to cover what you refused to see before.

Because let me be honest with you LOVE is NOT enough when:
📌 You’re the only one trying.

📌 You walk on eggshells like it’s a dance routine.

📌 You cry more than you laugh.

📌 Talking to your partner feels like walking into a war zone, because you can’t even talk without it turning into a fight.

Now you’re lying awake at night thinking:
🤔 Did I rush into this?

🤔 Did I ignore the signs because I was desperate for ‘Mrs’ or ‘Happily Married’ on Facebook?

🤔 Did I marry the person in front of me or the version I built in my head? Because some of you has a different person in front of you and then you create a different version in your head.

And guess what? It’s okay to admit that.
Admitting regret doesn’t make you a failure it only makes you human.
It means your eyes are finally open. You know they say love is blind but marriage is the eye opener.

Too many people are suffering in silence, wearing wedding rings like handcuffs.
Some of you haven’t known real peace since you said “I do.”
You’re not in a marriage anymore.
You’re in a stage play called “Happy Couple” where the performance never ends.

The real truth is

📌 You can love someone and still admit they’re not good for you.

📌 You can love marriage and still admit you chose wrong.

📌 And most importantly, You can choose yourself without apology.

✅ So stop living for what will people say.

✅ Start having the conversations you’ve been avoiding.

✅ Get help. Seek clarity. Heal or walk away
But don’t let shame bury you alive in a loveless marriage.

Life is too short to keep pretending when your soul is screaming for peace.

✍🏾 Amab Creations.
Restoring love. Rebuilding connection.

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