22/05/2025
COMMON SENSE TO APPLY WHEN YOU VISIT OR STAY WITH A MARRIED COUPLE!🔥
❎ Ladies, do not wear a singlet without bra and come out to greet them with your ni**le pointing everywhere, especially when the man is not your biological brother.
I don't mean you have bad intentions. I know you like being free of brassiere after a long day, but this is the sacrifice you will need to make as long as you are in that house, if a bra is too uncomfortable for home stay please buy a padded bra singlet that can be worn with a house top.. Show that home some respect as long as you are there.
❎ Men please, boxers with your weapon dangling left and right is not allowed when staying with a married couple, even if the wife is your sister, dress properly to cover your sensitive areas. Be sensitive when coming out topless, have the mindset that no matter how comfortable you wish to be, it is not your house.
You don't know the issues that couple are dealing with privately. You don't know if one or both of them are struggling with lust or self control, not to mention insecurity and trust issues. Respect that home.
❎ Ladies, don't tie wrapper around your neck to quickly help in cleaning the house when obviously your whole body is open because you are not wearing anything inside the wrapper besides a pant. Dress covered when coming out of the room, again I did not say you mean anything evil, temptation is a respecter of no one, including yourself.
❎ Observe, observe, observe, there’s a spoon, plate and cup for the Oga or Madam of the house, observe and avoid using it.
❎ If there is a special chair that the man of that house sits on, or a special sitting position for the wife, respectfully avoid it, even if they told you to feel at home, please feel with wisdom.
❎ You have no right to go into the couple's bedroom uninvited. You have no right to go in there without their permission except it is an emergency. The bedroom is the most secret and sacred space in the house, respect it.
❎ You have no right to access the couples private things, no matter how close you are as a sibling or a cousin. No right to wear the couple's clothes, shoes, hair, etc, without their consent.
✅ Know this please, the rules of that house comes first before your own schedules. For example, if you know the woman in the house makes dinner by 4pm, even if your personal prayer time has been 4pm before you came visiting, that prayer hour will have to change for the period of time you are staying there, don’t enter your room praying when she is in the kitchen making food that you too will clearly eat, even the Holy Spirit will tell you to go fellowship in the kitchen first.
✅ Know the time for the family devotion, so you won’t be in your room watching a movie when devotion is going on in the living room, join the family in their devotion even if you attend a different denomination, don't act like a witch or wizard.
✅ Wash your plates after a meal, don't dump them in the sink and expect the couple to wash your plates, that is gross disrespect. Also, for the period you are there, be kind enough to wash the plates you meet in the sink when washing your own, don't just tidy yours and leave the rest there, especially if the couple have no help.
✅ Depending on your relationship with the couple, always ask the woman of the house if she observes any principle when it comes to her kitchen, it will help you avoid some malice. Take permission before dishing your food if she's big on that, 99% of wives don't joke with their kitchen.
Do not be offended by these simple etiquette, it's standard practice anywhere, if you're not comfortable with a couple's rules then let your stay be shorter than the weekend.
There's so much to share with you but we'll talk some more later.
