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"WHY ARE YOU NOT PREGNANT … ABI UUU BARREN?"It may sound like a simple question, but it's not. It's a loaded judgment wr...
11/07/2025

"WHY ARE YOU NOT PREGNANT … ABI UUU BARREN?"

It may sound like a simple question, but it's not. It's a loaded judgment wrapped in mockery. Words like barren carry weight, especially in African society where a woman’s worth is unfairly tied to fertility.

Yes, the woman who asked may have just been "curious," but curiosity without empathy becomes cruelty. Chisom had a miscarriage. She's grieving. And instead of support, she got a jab.

But what about the curse Chisom placed in return? Truth is, curses can backfire. Bitterness, anger, and hate are toxins that hurt the soul of the one who carries them. As Jesus said, "Bless those who curse you… forgive seventy times seven." The pain may be real, but revenge doesn't heal. Only release does.

And to the one who mocked? Don’t take those curses to heart. True repentance, humility, and healing from God defuse every curse.

Final lesson for you ODI OK. : Watch your words. Whether in ignorance or in pain, every word has power. And those who trigger you? They may be your real teachers in disguise. Learn. Heal. Evolve.

So 2BABA says men aren’t wired for one woman, y’all drag him. He apologizes, you drag him again.Same people who mocked A...
02/07/2025

So 2BABA says men aren’t wired for one woman, y’all drag him.
He apologizes, you drag him again.

Same people who mocked Annie for staying quiet when 2BABA first made that statement are now bashing Natasha for demanding for accountability, respect and apology. Some of you men especially will knee with your tongues and d!c.ks 👅 inside some d!rty women's envelope and yet you dare criticize one of you who have found his missing ribs in Natasha after all the supports you all gave him to move on and in with someone that holds his peace of mind in her palm. Even some woman who would naturally and ceaselessly complain of not being apologized to by their men, have suddenly have tongue twist because another woman stood up for herself and relationship she shared with her man. They dare accuse Natasha for putting 2BABA in a bottle. O di egwu ooo.

What do we really want; change or just enjoy outrªgə?

Just so you know, apologizing publicly for a wrong done publicly is maturity, not weakness. Vulnerability isn’t weakness. Being legendary doesn't mean you're beyond correction or to tender an apology when the need arises. Stop bvllying people for growing. Go grow up yourself. It is empathy that's rare and certainly not ego.Respect the courage it took him to say, “I was wrong.”

Please do pen down your thoughts. Thank you.

26/06/2025

WHO DESIGNED THIS BIKONU????

"Whosoever that designed the template of a woman waking up daily to think of what to cook and then actually cooking... didn’t consider women like me. It’s giving ‘unfair labor practices.’ 🙃

Fellow kitchen warriors, how do you escape this cycle of ‘what’s for breakfast/lunch/dinner’ without losing your sanity? Let’s start a movement to reclaim our mornings—and our sanity. What’s your go-to meal-saving hack?"

25/06/2025

Do this as a woman before you cry like Lincoln Edochie Judy Austin Yul Edochie Yul Edochie

24/06/2025

BEFORE YOU MARRY A DIVORCED MAN, KNOW THIS... Judy Austin Yul Edochie Lincoln Edochie MAY Yul-Edochie Yul Edochie

23/06/2025

MARRY WISELY!!! Yul Edochie MAY Yul-Edochie Lincoln Edochie

LET'S GO THROUGH WHAT WE HAVE DISCUSSED EARLIER ABOUT "WRONG CHOICES IN CHOOSING A LIFE PARTNER".1. Not asking enough qu...
19/05/2025

LET'S GO THROUGH WHAT WE HAVE DISCUSSED EARLIER ABOUT "WRONG CHOICES IN CHOOSING A LIFE PARTNER".

1. Not asking enough questions. That's not knowing the basic things about the person past, family background, religious beliefs system, philosophy of life, crimin@l past records(if any) etc.

2. Ignoring warning signs of potential problems like traces of domestic v!olence, thereby making excuses for the person etc. Fantasizing everything to their detriment.

3. Making premature compromises adjusting your core principles and values in life etc to suit the other person even when it isn't necessary.

4. Giving into marital seduction like putting financial benefits, career, power, appearance, lifestyle etc first before the main things that matters.

5. Givinğ into lust blindness. Particularly when it blinds such individuals to potential red flags or the true compatibility of potential partners. This blindness can manifest in various ways, including failing to assess a partner's character, or prioritizing physical attraction over deeper values and compatibility(as stated earlier).

6. Putting commitment before compatibility. Eg: Choosing to stay in a marriage or agreeing to marry someone despite significant differences in their interests, values, or personality, etc.

These are the ones we have discussed so far. If you wish we look into others such as biological clock, pregnancy, confusing səx with love, poor self-image and low/lack of self-esteem, loneliness and desperation, pressure to marry, financial dependence etc, do indicate in the comment section.

17/05/2025

WARN!NG SIGN YOU SHOULDN'T SLEEP ON

17/05/2025

IT MIGHT NOT SOUND ROMANTIC...

16/05/2025

THE CHANGES I SEE NOW HAS BEEN THERE...

16/05/2025

LOOK BEFORE YOU LEAP INTO REGRETS

15/05/2025

"WHƏN LOVƏ TURNS PAINFUL"

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