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09/08/2025

Our destiny changes with our thought; we shall become what we wish to become, do what we wish to do, when our habitual thought corresponds with our desire.

07/08/2025

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03/08/2025

Good morning sir . Pls post for me and hide my identity.

I have been dating a guy from the Northern part of Nigeria for 3-4yrs now. He manages a gas station while i work as a sales girl at the mini mart.
I'm in my late 20s, a single mother of one. While my Bf is in his late 30s.

I never for once begged him for anything. I don't have the courage to ask him for anything because I want to end well with him but he use that against me. I managed with the little salary I earn as I don't want to be a burden to him.

He will invite another girl from his place and she will spend up to 2 weeks before she leave if I got angry he will tell me they are just friends and he does so many things for her but somebody told me they were dating.

Let me go straight to the point we had an aguiment last week and is about a girl he is helping in school and I am seeking for admission too but he never one day ask me about my admission. He never for once, showed any concern.

So I told him to tell me where the relationship is heading because I can't be in a relationship where I don't know my stand and he told me that he can not marry me that I don't know how to speak his language ( Hausa) that he will help me to look for husband that will take care of me and I should not break the relationship between us.

My question now is that how can I go about this I can't date a man that is using me. Note: The mini mart has shut down. So I started working as a pump attendant few months ago.

I'm pained, heartbroken and feel used. I can't stop the job because I'm saving money to go to school as I can't get any other job for now.

Pls how do I avoid him before I gain admission to higher institution.? Sorry for my grammatical errors. I will be at the comment section. Thanks for all you do here. God bless you sir.

23/04/2025

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23/04/2025

I CAUGHT MY SALES GIRL NACKED WITH MY HUSBAND 👇🏽👇🏽👇🏽👇🏽👇🏽👇🏽👇🏽👇🏽👇🏽

I am 28yrs and my husband is 32yrs old
I am from Edo while my husband is from igbo and we both base in Asaba

I travelled on Monday this week down to Benin because of my younger sister's marriage that's on friday/Saturday and thanksgiving on Sunday

Before I left the house on Monday,I told my husband I will be coming back next Monday after the thanksgiving

On Wednesday I got a call from one of our neighbours saying, "you told us you will be travelling but never told us you will send your sister to come and help your husband in the house" I was shocked and told her I didn't sent anyone, she said she noticed the girl came in on that Monday immediately after i left the house that even as we speak the girl is in my apartment that's why she had to call me

My husband even called shortly after my neighbour called,but I did not asked him anything,we spoke well and ended the conversation

After having my bath that Wednesday morning I had to go confirm what I was told
So I carried my handbag with my house keys and told my mum I wanted to go and see my friend around the town,I got to the park and then boarded a vehicle straight to Asaba

I got to the compound, opened the protector and unluckily for them the door was not locked so I pushed the door and opened,low and behold,I saw my sales girl completely necked laying on my husband's leg and he was playing cool music and watching wrestling too,both of the saw me and were so shocked

My husband asked me what happened and I told him it was nothing that I just wanted to come and confirmed the rumor I have been hearing about him,I didn't go inside the room again

I quietly and quickly went back to Benin tho I got home late at night,my husband has been calling since then,but I blocked him on call and on WhatsApp

Today is my sister's traditional marriage and tomorrow will be courtmarriage (Registery)
I don't just want to tell any of my family member and fear will not allow my husband call any of my family members cause he think I have informed them

I have been hiding to cry for 2days now cause I don't want any of my family member to know about it,this is a man I could swear with my life that he's never cheated on me since we got married because of the way he loves me

I am confused and don't know what to do
My mind is telling me not to go back after the marriage until he comes for me or should I go
back to the house?if i go back which of the house will i stay?

I have not been able to eat since then because of the pain of betrayal

Pls what should I do?
I will be on the comment section to read
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18/03/2025

THINGS YOU MUST NOT DO AS SOON AS YOU GET MARRIED

There are many things an unmarried person will do and go away with it, but once you are married, it comes with the repercussion that will hurt your marriage dearly and hurt people in your life. So once married you must not do the following:

1. STOP SPENDING TIME WITH OPPOSITE S*X ALONE : Once you are married you need to stop hanging out with opposite s*x. No matter how innocent this may look, it will hurt the one you are married and may even lead you into an illicit relationship that will hurt your marriage. As a rule, avoid opposite s*x once married, its a great way to honour your marriage vow and show respect to your spouse

2. STOP FLIRTING: Don’t ever flirt with anybody once married, don’t play with anybody’s emotion, you may not come out of it without hurting somebody.

3. BREAK ALL CONTACTS WITH YOUR EX

Break all contact with old boyfriends or girlfriends. You may need to delete some numbers, you may need to unfollow some people on Instagram, Facebook and Twitter. This show that you are responsible and truly committed to your marriage vow.

4. STOP NIGHT CHATTING
Stop night chatting with anybody male or female, if you must do it, it must be with the permission of your spouse and that must be very important and it must not happen often.

5. NEVER REMOVE YOUR WEDDING RING
Always put on your wedding ring, it shows you are responsible, committed to your marriage and ready to be faithful.

6. NEVER HIDE THINGS FROM YOUR SPOUSE .
You are to be totally open and Vulnerable to your spouse. No secrecy, no darkroom, no hidden agenda.

7. FLEE FROM P**N: Though, p**n is bad for everybody, it is worse for a married man or woman to be hook on p**n. P**n addiction had destroyed many homes, flee from p**n

8. NEVER SPEND UNACCOUNTED TIME WITH OPPOSITE S*X: Infidelity is not just about sleeping with someone else, it begins when you begin to spend time with opposite s*x which must not be open to your spouse.

9. FLEE CLUBBING: There is nothing beneficial in clubbing for a married man or woman, no matter your explanation for it, clubbing will hurt your marriage dearly.

10. AVOID ALCOHOL: Flee from alcoholic drinks, it hurts marriage, it encourages s*xual infidelity and violence in marriage.

11. AVOID NIGHT CRAWLING : Evening is the family time. Get back to your home in the evening, returning home by midnight and 1:00 am does not show you are responsible; it will hurt your marriage.

12. NEVER HAVE S*X WITH ANYONE ELSE

In marriage, you are only permitted to sleep with your wife or husband , you are not permitted to sleep with anybody else. Once you begin to sleep with anybody other than your spouse, it begins to hurt your marriage even if your spouse is not aware of it.

Remember: When we are in marriage life, it's a big advantage being a couple to avoid those 12 tips that kill your happiness . So, this would be the guidelines for us if you want a happy relationship lest also pray always with the help of our Almighty Loving God, And we wouldn't fail in Marriage life. God bless us all..
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02/03/2025

FACTS U DIDN'T KNOW ABOUT "ONE DAY"😌🥰

1. ONE DAY you will lock your door, but you will not be the one to open it.

2. ONE DAY you will wash that best clothes of yours and you will not be able to wear it.

3. ONE DAY your favorite food will be prepared and you will not be there to eat it anymore.

4. ONE DAY you will eat and drink what you will never excrete.

5. ONE DAY your curriculum vitae and all your years of experience will not matter to anyone anymore.

6. ONE DAY the person that seems to love you most will never dare to move closer to you.

7. ONE DAY you will think of what you can never accomplish.

8. ONE DAY you will be regarded as "a co**se"

9. ONE DAY you will be isolated in a place called "grave"

10. ONE DAY those things and people you love most will come your way but you will not be able to give any attention to it/them.

11. ONE DAY you will hold your breath and never be able to release it.

12. ONE DAY you will become a defendant before The Chief Judge (GOD).

13. ONE DAY housefly/ termites will come your way and you will be unable to chase them.

14. ONE DAY you will receive a call that you can never decline.

15. ONE DAY your name will be called, but no one will answer.

16. ONE DAY the assets you cherished most will be taken by another person.

17. ONE DAY your deed on Earth will be presented to you like a CD.

18. ONE DAY a title will be added to your name "The Late"

19. ONE DAY the Great Allocator will allocate you to an appropriate place.

20. ONE DAY that your beautiful skin will turn to its original nature-sand/dust.

21. ONE DAY your entire body will cease operation. The verb will change from he is a good man to he was a good man.

22. ONE DAY you will be given an eternal apartment, either Paradise or hell.

23. ONE DAY you will not be able to hold or type anything on this phone anymore.

In conclusion, take LIFE easy, DO GOOD, and run from EVIL. Be at peace with everyone, love your neighbour as you love yourselves.

15/01/2025

This is one of the reasons why your wife is denying you of s*x.

Let's assume you make out three times in a week. In those three times, you only dip the stuff, c*m and grabbed your happiness.

You are gradually killing the beauty of s*x.

While you as a man want s*x, your wife wants “love making."

While you are concerned about emptying your tank, your woman is longing for intimacy during the do.

If you continue dipping in all the time, your wife will grow weary of giving in.

I know you might say you paid the bride price but my dear, woman's way of interpreting intimacy is different.

My simple advice, out of those three times, make one memorable for her.

How can you achieve this?

📌Get her a little gift(she deserves it) earlier that day.

📌Always check on her while at work.

📌Make her happy then conclude the utter most part in bed!🥰

Stop being qu**ky or self-ish.

Make your woman happy sometimes it helps alot.
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