16/07/2026
From my DM.
I met this girl I am currently dating in April this year, and before asking her to be my girlfriend, she told me she had a guy and that, although she and the guy are in a long-distance relationship, she has been dating him for 2 years now.
Although after some time she later agreed to date me, I had to ask her if she had broken up with the guy. She told me she would do it, that I should know that she can't date two guys at the same time.
After about a month, I asked her if she had done that. She told me yes, and I asked what the guy's reaction was. She didn't tell me, saying it seemed childish to her if I kept asking that question.
She is 26 and I am 28.
I just want transparency and truthfulness, but she isn't providing that.
I even suggested that she send me a screenshot of the message, but she isn't doing it.
What should I do? Is that enough reason to pause or break up the relationship?
She equally wants our opinions to be 50/50 each time, which I have warned her about several times. Sometimes, she accuses me of being a misogynist.
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