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If you have experienced tr@uma caused by online loan apps like OPay, OKash, and FairMoney, and you still stand that mean...
30/08/2026

If you have experienced tr@uma caused by online loan apps like OPay, OKash, and FairMoney, and you still stand that means nothing in this life can shake ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ.

My goodness, the pressure from these people is something else. The constant calls, messages, thre@ts, and the stress that comes with owing them can break someone ยฃmotion@lly.

Last year was one of the toughest periods of my life. I found myself trapped in debt and under so much pressure, but I thank God today that I am free from that situation.

The lesson I learned is simple: please be very careful before taking online loans.
Donโ€™t enter into something you may struggle to come out from.

Someone borrows money, struggles to repay, and instead of showing understanding, the amount keeps increasing. How do you expect who never pay the initial payment to pay the one that have increased to something else?

This post is for all those app to stop telling me to borrow m0nยฃy again and for other who don't know them to know and think twice before doing anything with them.

Tinubu better pass those people ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ

Una m0ney na onyiniye Ekwensu.๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ

May God continue to give us wisdom and provide for our needs. ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿฝ
Happy Sunday ndioma

Hope we all agree to this announcement?
28/08/2026

Hope we all agree to this announcement?

Ancยฃstors come and see your lineageoooo๐Ÿ‘‡๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ‘‡๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ‘‡๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ‘‡๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ‘‡๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ‘‡๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚.When a woman enters her 30s in this country alot people begin to ...
26/08/2026

Ancยฃstors come and see your lineageoooo๐Ÿ‘‡๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ‘‡๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ‘‡๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ‘‡๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ‘‡๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ‘‡๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚.

When a woman enters her 30s in this country alot people begin to see them as o.ld c@rgos.

Men begin to see them as country b@n.

Men will see them as last gr@de of okirika.

But the same men will go 0utside and marry their gr@ndmother because ovยฃr there is just a number ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ.

This is power of m0ney, if you ask them to respect their Nigeria women and help them at home,

They will tell you that they are Africa's that their ยฃstors will turn in their gr@vยฃ if they do that.

But see now, this one did not remember his ยฃstors again.

Because of power of m0ney.

This one ancestors will not only turn, they will change lineage because of this very act๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ

Busu mecha kwa unu onu there, hypocr!!sy

Women if you want to command respect make your own m0ney this gender doesn't have choice.

Their choice changes when m0ney is involved.

I just dey imagine how this one ยฃstors will react after seeing this marriage, come be with our isi Agu,chaii.

Agu tagbakwa unu there, this woman face deserves uppยฃr cuttttt.๐Ÿšถ๐Ÿผ๐Ÿšถ๐Ÿผ๐Ÿšถ๐Ÿผ๐Ÿšถ๐Ÿผ๐Ÿšถ๐Ÿผ๐Ÿšถ๐Ÿผ๐Ÿšถ๐Ÿผ.

FROM MY INBOX. "Good morning sir. I'm your follower here. Please sir help me share this let your followers tell me if I'...
26/08/2026

FROM MY INBOX.

"Good morning sir. I'm your follower here. Please sir help me share this let your followers tell me if I'm wrong.

My husband, myself and my youngest kid went to a supermarket to buy things. He parked at the wrong place instead of the normal car park. I told him to park well incase one car that he was blocking wants to come out, he got angry and started cursing me.

Telling me that I'm not the one to tell him what to do. That the owner of the other can go to hell. Sir on a norm my husband doesn't take advise or listen to anyone. He is always right. I kept my mouth shut.

As we were about to leave a slim yellow woman came, greeted us very well and politely told my husband to please go front or back so that she can come out. My husband ignored her. She politely repeated herself while still smiling. The next thing my husband started asking her why she's smiling in a very rude way.

The woman now said Mr man please I'm in a hurry can you move the car let me come out.
My husband said if I don't move it what will you do. I didn't want to talk because I don't want his trouble but I was already boiling inside me. The woman called a security man. The security man came and told my husband to move his car.

By then my husband has started abusing the woman, calling her ash@wo and accvsing her that she is a side chick to married men and her car was bought by a married man.

Meanwhile, a young girl that was with the woman was videoing everything.
The woman now told the security man not to worry that she is calling her husband. My husband was still raking, telling her to call that IGP of her husband to come.

Sir in less than 5 minutes, a black Hilux and silver Lexus arrived with 6 soldiers and one talk man on black suit. Immediately I saw them, I quickly ran away with my kid and stood from afar. Sir they started beating him.

S1@pping him front and back. They sm@shed the windscreen of our car. Collected key from him and drove the car out so that the woman's car can come out. One soldier entered and drove the woman's car while the woman entered the Lexus jeep.

After b3ating him, they forced him into the Hilux and left. Me I crossed the road and took Keke home. I was confused on what to do because he's always abusing women. My own I'm even used to it. He abvses even his own mother and sisters.

Even online he's always att@cking women. Sir his sister later called me that I should take food to him in one police station and that they are charging him to court. That the woman's husband said that all the things he Said including calling her ash@wo and side chick he must prove them in Court.

Sir I no dey go any station o. This man has abvsed me physically emotionally m3ntally and financially for years. He stopped me from working. Doesn't give me a dime. He buys foodstuffs himself so that I won't save even a penny. I don already tire for the marriage. I depend on my aged dad for even a sanitary pads.

I called my dad and he said he's sending a vehicle to come and pick me and the children that I should allow him pay for his sins. His sister that's always supporting him should take food to him. Sir I won't use the money my father gives me to go and waste at police station. Please let your audience tell me what they think sir. This is 3 days now."

@ Chidi A. Okoroafor
I love as this story ends, your father na man.
the k**a comes from outside very sweet ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ.

Amen and Amen
26/08/2026

Amen and Amen

Abia men are worseee kind of men to marry๐Ÿ‘‡๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ‘‡๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ‘‡๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ‘‡๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ‘‡๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ‘‡๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ‘‡๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ‘‡๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ‘‡๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ‘‡๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ‘‡๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ‘‡๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ‘‡๐ŸผI know that some men are w!ckยฃdddI know that alot of ...
25/08/2026

Abia men are worseee kind of men to marry๐Ÿ‘‡๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ‘‡๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ‘‡๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ‘‡๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ‘‡๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ‘‡๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ‘‡๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ‘‡๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ‘‡๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ‘‡๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ‘‡๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ‘‡๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ‘‡๐Ÿผ

I know that some men are w!ckยฃddd

I know that alot of women are going through alot in their marriages.

I know some men has done more h@rmm than blessing in the life of their wife's.

I know that alot of women has seen shege banza promax in their marriage.

But this particular man that one of my sister got married to is operating his own
w!ckยฃdness from the kingdom of olumba olumba nothing anybody wan tell me.

Abia men why are you people so w!!ckedd?

I have restr!cti!ons since on my page and my page recommend@tion was removed since but I was surprised to see my recomme...
25/08/2026

I have restr!cti!ons since on my page and my page recommend@tion was removed since but I was surprised to see my recommendation back yesterday but the restr!!ctions is still there.

And I was confused and the same time very happy because you see that recommendation na Koko of everything.

The Algorithm that favour me with this recommend@tion may it favours me again and restore my page fully without any issues ijn Amen.

But my question now is, is it possible to have restr!!ctions and at the time your recommendation is active?

What does it show? Just curious to know because I have been trying to open new page but is not working.

My people I need answers on this post not good morning please, because this page is giving me concern.

Chidimma Precious page mama please address this for me thank you ma.

If they never put C@meron pยฃpper and kerosยฃne in your kpekus please don't doubt those who has experience it๐Ÿ‘‡๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ‘‡๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ‘‡๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ‘‡๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ‘‡๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ‘‡๐ŸผI...
24/08/2026

If they never put C@meron pยฃpper and kerosยฃne in your kpekus please don't doubt those who has experience it๐Ÿ‘‡๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ‘‡๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ‘‡๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ‘‡๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ‘‡๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ‘‡๐Ÿผ

I think we should learn to give people the benefit of doubt sometimes, so people will not kp@! with their p@!ns.

I think it is high time we allowed people to share their stories without immediately questioning, judging or doubting them.

Sometimes, being heard is the first step toward healing.

Not every person who shares a painful experience is looking for rยฃvยฃnge, attention or sympathy.

I honestly believe a lot of people would have dealt with some of their tr@uma differently if they knew they could speak without being judged or called li@rs.

Even if someone eventually turns out to be a blatant li@r, can we at least take it easy with the way we doubt people?

Let people tell their stories. We don't have to become the investigators, judges and jury.

Angela's story is her story, and her mother is her mother not ours.

If anybody should feel a certain way or seek answers, I believe it should be the family involved, not you or I.

To me, the mother is still alive. If you genuinely doubt her story, instead of sitting online analysing every word, go to Nnewi as an interviewer and verify the facts properly.

People complained that she wasn't close to her family.

Now she has come out to explain why, yet somehow, people are still not satisfied.

Omo, in all of this, do you. Tell your story. Live your life. Heal. As long as you are okay, people's opinions should not control your life.

Lastly, after listening to Angela's second video,

I honestly started wondering whether the woman she calls her mother is actually her biological mother. But that is something only Angela and her family can truly clarify.

T for thanks.

Omo the way married people dey make me laugh on this media I no understand ๐Ÿคฃ๐ŸคฃAbeg make Una join me read this one.My advi...
22/08/2026

Omo the way married people dey make me laugh on this media I no understand ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ

Abeg make Una join me read this one.

My advice to her, don't leave make Una frustr@te the utudike till he kp@!.

Or if you are the second wife you can pack and leave.

My people how Una see am?

Mount your gu@rd properly now, hosp!tal don dey collect people k!dnยฃy's now.I watched it on VDM page now, Omo fe@r catch...
22/08/2026

Mount your gu@rd properly now, hosp!tal don dey collect people k!dnยฃy's now.

I watched it on VDM page now, Omo fe@r catch me makachi.

God what is our offense in this country?

Is it not better you blow the trumpet now make everybody rest at onces.

Because what is all these b@d news everyday in this country.

But I'm cur!ous to know how they succeeded in doing that to that small boy.

Ashin he went for oppress!!on or what?

Abeg CS mums make Una check Una k!dnยฃy's now.
We don finally f!n!sh ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ.

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